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How Your Fascia Stores Pain, Trauma and Grief in Your Body–and How to Release It

Women naturally bring supportive energy to relationships.

And because of social conditioning plus the heart and soul we put into what we are creating, we also become overly accountable for others’ happiness and well-being.

We do it all…

When I was in my 30s, I used to run half marathons. I just loved the discipline and feeling so fit and strong … developing my cardiovascular fitness was amazing. I used to hate the idea of running and avoid it at all costs! After a couple of years of running, I started developing nagging injuries that knocked me off the road. I used Zyflamend, an awesome anti-inflammatory, to control the swelling, and while it helped, ultimately, I had a problem with my form that had to be corrected so I wouldn’t keep injuring myself. To help my body heal, I was referred to an amazing massage therapist who explained how all of this muscular tissue all over my whole body functions as one whole organism, called fascia. And how, for us to fix the fascia around my joints that was overly-tight, he was going to have to work on the fascia on the opposite side (and end!) of my body! Today we’re going to talk to my friend Shivan Sarna about fascia. This is going to be a fantastic conversation if:
    • You have been dealing with fascia and chronic pain in your life
    • You’re experiencing these little nagging injuries from working out
    • You’re dealing with something bigger, like pain that might be tied to an autoimmune condition
    • You’ve got a lot of scar tissue that is creating other issues for you

Shivan is going to teach us about fascia pain rescue, how it stores trauma and stress, and what we need to help it heal and recover.

In this episode:
    • 3 crazy yet simple, effective ways to release adhesions and scars
    • Feeling tightness in your muscles and body? How to properly hydrate
    • The secret behind your fascia and how it holds trauma and grief
    • The simple method you can do today to “structure water” and use it to heal your body
    • Sneaky biohacks to dissolve your scar tissues

How Do You Create Super Healthy Lungs?

Rodger Murphree How to Create Healthy Lungs
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How Do You Create Super Healthy Lungs?

Just how important are our lungs? We don’t pay much attention to our lung health, but the lungs are one of the crucial organs in our body. Whether you’ve only had a mild symptom or you’re still struggling with the long-term effects of COVID, you may have gotten present to the vital role your lungs play in your overall health.

So today, we’re going to explore what we can do to keep our lungs healthy.

Dr. Rodger Murphree is going to give us some insights as to improving our lungs and our breath. You will learn:
    • Why “Survival Paradox” is keeping your body from completely healing
    • Use this sneaky technique to buffer the stress response in your body
    • The simple yet overlooked strategy to overcoming any illness
    • The quickest way to stimulate your parasympathetic system for deep relaxation
 

timestamps

3:22 – Why our lungs is our lifeline

3:50 – The motive behind holding a lung summit

4:19 – How Covid is still affecting people even after exposure 

6:04 – The summit is how we protect ourselves from getting chronic infections

7:29 –  The shocking discovery of cell danger theory

8:11 – Why the body goes on survival mode when under too much stress

10:00 – How do you help the body to reset to start healing

13:20 – Why it’s important for the body to breath in order to heal 

15:16 – The importance of meditation and Survival Paradox 

16:24 – Explanation of Survival Paradox

16:58 – The most important thing you need to do when your body is still in survival mode

19:02 – How progesterone steel decreases sex hormones and affects quailty of life

20:22  – How to buffer the stress response in our body

21:49 – Why people with adrenal fatigue are more likely to get Covid

24:01 – The basic yet most overlooked strategy to overcoming any illness

26:19 – Why a sympathetic system overload makes you at risk of fibro flare

27:11 – Two easy breathwork practices you can add to your routine

27:39 – Grounding breathwork that you use to decompress

29:41 – How box breathing can help stimulate your parasympathetic system for deep relaxation 

31:53 – Butekyo breathing technique

resources mentioned

transcript

Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is misty Williams, founder of healing rosie.com And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

 

Misty Williams  00:13

We created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister. It is possible.

 

Misty Williams  00:20

All right, you guys are super excited for another fantastic conversation I’m going to have with my friend Dr. Rodger Murphree. You guys probably remember him from some of the events.

 

Misty Williams  00:31

 I’ve done in the recent past, especially your best sleep ever, and radical healing detoxes your stress and stressors. Dr. Rodger is known for his work with fibromyalgia patients and autoimmune disease. 

 

Misty Williams  00:44

fibrodr.com. Am I getting that right? Dr. Rodger, yourfibrodoctor.com is his website. Yep. And he’s doing an event coming up with health talks in October, the super healthy lung Summit. 

 

Misty Williams  00:57

And I was really intrigued by him doing a lung summit, I haven’t seen a lung event done in our space. And, we’re at a time in history where lots of us are dealing with respiratory issues related to COVID.

 

Misty Williams  01:14

 But there are a lot of things that can affect this part of our body around our mouth, throat and lungs, right? You guys know, I’ve been healing from mold toxicity and have dealt with all of the things that go along with mold, histamine issues, and cytokines issues.

 

Misty Williams  01:34

 And, just so much stuff that needs to be cleared out of my body. And we have women in our community who are complaining of things. Ever since I’ve had COVID, I’m not able to exercise at the same intensity that I’ve been able to exercise before, or I’m experiencing shortness of breath. 

 

Misty Williams  01:45

I remember, actually a colleague of ours, Rodger posting on Facebook, about how she would have trouble just going out for her morning walks like she just couldn’t get enough oxygen into her lungs.

 

Misty Williams  02:02

 We take our lungs for granted. There’s so many ways that our lung health is a crucial part of being healthy overall. And I think it’s going to be really fantastic to dive into this conversation a little more with you, Dr. Rodger.

 

Misty Williams  02:16

Because now we’re at a stage where people are post COVID dealing with long haulers, some people are dealing with these subtle symptoms that they feel. 

 

Misty Williams  02:26

I’m just not the same as my body isn’t quite what it was, I actually have a good friend of mine who has dealt with lots of toxicity and some heart issues. 

 

Misty Williams  02:38

He’s young. He’s in his 20s. And he is complaining about doing lots of healing things, lots and lots of stuff. And in fact, he even went to FDA and got his own certification with Reed’s Functional Diagnostic Nutrition. 

 

Misty Williams  02:51

Because he was really committed to the health of his body. But the one piece that hasn’t quite dialed in for him is his ability to mountain climb, which is one of his favorite things, he gets out on his exercise or on his hike.

 

Misty Williams  03:05

And after a period of 20 or 30 minutes, he finds it really hard to continue because he’s really challenged with breathing. 

 

Misty Williams  03:15

So , this is one of those, you don’t care about it. Topics, and I’m really looking forward to diving into this. So I would love for you just to start off telling us a little bit about why you decided to do an event on super healthy lungs. 

 

Misty Williams  03:31

Well, if you think about it, you can live weeks without food, you can live days without water, but try to go more than a few minutes without breathing. So air, air is our lifeblood. 

 

Misty Williams  03:46

And it’s our window to the outside world. And we take for granted that we can take these 12 breaths per minute and we can feed our body with the oxygen that it needs to work like it’s supposed to.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  03:59

You asked me why? What was the motivation for the super healthy lung Summit, and I’ll be quite candid with you. Part of it was no one’s talking about lung health.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  04:09

 And then in the functional medicine space, which is the kind of practice that I’ve been practicing for 30 years. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  04:14

And I saw this as an opportunity not only to share about how to have healthy lungs, but to incorporate some of the challenges that we have right now, which you’ve already mentioned.  In particular COVID. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  04:26

COVID is still raising its ugly head and the stats show that up to 30% of people who get exposed to COVID. Who actually have a positive infection may not even have any symptoms even,

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  04:39

but come down with long haul of COVID which means they have symptoms, six months after they’ve been infected with the virus and as a Fibromyalgia specialist. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  04:51

What I’m seeing is we’re going to have an explosion of these kinds of medical misfit diagnoses. People who really don’t know where to go and get help. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  05:02

But that’s what we see. With Fibro, we see that with chronic fatigue syndrome.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  05:06

 But the symptoms of long haul or syndrome are very similar to what you’d see with fibromyalgia. And then the other motivating factor is that I know what it’s like to struggle to breathe. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  05:17

So childhood asthma, once every year or two, I’d be hospitalized. They carried me off the football field, having an asthmatic attack, or had an ammonia, something that would get me to the ER and get me, unfortunately, hospitalized because I couldn’t breathe. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  05:33

And it’s a terrible feeling not to be able to get that breath. He’s struggling to breathe. But if you’ve never had it, I hope you never do. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  05:41

But just as painful not to be able to get a rift is to see both your parents struggle as I did, to see my parents get a breath, I lost my dad to lung cancer. And several years ago, and six months later, I lost my mom to COPD, right after my dad. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  06:01

So it’s a summit that incorporates a lot of things that people are talking about. But the summit really focuses on how do we protect ourselves from getting chronic infections?.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  06:16

 How do we protect ourselves from mold toxicity, mass cell activation syndrome, histamine dominance. I mean, these are some of the underlying triggers for many of the diseases that we see out there.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  06:30

 And they’re being treated with prescription medications, when really the underlying causes of the symptoms are not being addressed.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  06:40

 So I think it’s going to be a great Summit, we’ve got some wonderful folks that are sharing their expertise. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  06:47

And it was a lot of fun to put together. So I’m looking forward to sharing it with the world.

 

Misty Williams  06:52

So I would love for you just to kind of unpack maybe some of the learnings from this event, every time I do an event, once I’ve finished because I’ve had 30, 40, 50 amazing conversations where I get downloads, right? 

 

Misty Williams  07:08

From all these people. I would love for you to share with us some of your favorite interviews, like what did you learn as Dr. Rodger Murphree doing these interviews with people?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  07:21

Yeah, that’s a great question. I think the most profound interview, there’s actually two of them. And there were some great interviews that were very entertaining, as well as informative. I wanted it to be fun. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  07:33

But two interviews, in particular one with Dr. Eric Gordon, who was very humble, he shared in the interview that he didn’t create the sale danger theory, but he was right there next to the person who did Dr. Robert Nebo. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  07:51

I always mispronounce his name. But the Cell Danger theory is, to me it’s a paradigm shifter. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  07:59

So being in functional medicine for 30 years specializing in chronic diseases, like fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome for 22 years writing books and articles, lecturing all over the world on these topics.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  08:12

 And it’s a challenge working with these individuals. And one of the things that really now has changed, the way I look at my patients is realizing that when the body gets under too much stress, something that I talk quite a bit about, but it goes into a survival mode. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  08:31

And what that can mean different things to different people, but you can take away what is the trigger. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  08:37

So if it is a case in point, someone has a food allergy, just keep it simple, they have a food allergy to dairy.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  08:43

 Anytime they eat dairy, they get congestion, they might get at risk of chronic sinus infections, but they have lung problems where they wheeze and all this kind of stuff that we see with an allergic reaction. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  08:57

So you take away the dairy and you think, Okay, we’ve solved the problem. But they still have all the symptoms that you saw previously, even though they’re off dairy. And what has happened is their body has gone into a survival mode. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:13

So now, it doesn’t matter, you took away the trigger, what’s triggering it now is they have not reset.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:21

 The body’s not reset itself, it still feels it’s in danger. Because it’s not getting enough sleep. It’s not getting the right nutrients that it needs. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:31

It’s exposed to toxins, whether that’s mold, toxins, or pollution or whatever it is. And the cell danger theory changes the way as a clinician.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:41

 I think that you can do everything you need to do to fix the underlying what you think is the underlying cars. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:49

And yet, they still are not healthy because until the body resets itself and gets out of this survival mode.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  09:59

 You’re not going to see them improve? And that sounds really simplistic. And when I asked Dr. Gordon, I said, Well, I said, Well, how do you do that? 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  10:10

 I’m thinking, what are the supplements to help somebody reset. So they’re not under this where they think their body’s breaking down. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  10:17

And there’s really only a couple other things. But really, it’s all about just taking care of yourself. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  10:27

It’s about getting the proper rest, staying hydrated, getting the right foods in your body, trying to restrict yourself from the toxins that you’re breathing in, or the things you’re taking in your foods. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  10:40

It’s the basic things that we that people talked about, that you talked about, I talked about that it really put it in a light where I finally realized, oh, that’s why some of my patients don’t respond until we clean the data up.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  10:56

 Finally, they finally do this right. And that’s it, or they finally are sleeping through the night and Okay, now we see dramatic improvement. So to me, it was a game changer.

 

Misty Williams  11:06

Yeah. So what’s coming up for me, as I’m listening to you talk about this is a lot of really fabulous interviews that I’ve also had with people talking about the parasympathetic nervous system. 

 

Misty Williams  11:17

Yeah. And breathwork. Yeah, as someone who is a chronic overachiever, and who tends to be in a more sympathetic state, during the day with my work with all the responsibility that I feel morally obligated to take, I’m laughing, so I don’t cry. 

 

Misty Williams  11:37

One of the things that I’ve had to do is figure out how to support my nervous system into shifting from being in this sympathetic dominant state to a more parasympathetic state.

 

Misty Williams  11:50

 One of the things that I realized and I see it, and we can really see it with our phones, right? 

 

Misty Williams  11:55

Or with technology, but we get in these places where our gears get stuck in this really sympathetic state, and the body is not able to automatically transition over.

 

Misty Williams  12:08

 So there’s this thing called parasympathetic tone. It’s like muscle tone. Right? It’s this toning that happens in our nervous system from lots of use, right? 

 

Misty Williams  12:21

How do we build this parasympathetic tone, this is really important. If you’re dealing with chronic disease of any kind, really, if you’re dealing with autoimmune disease.

 

Misty Williams  12:28

 If you’re dealing with mold toxicity, I’ve been dealing with, we have to think about shifting our body into a parasympathetic state more than we’re in a sympathetic state and really rebuilding this tone.

 

Misty Williams  12:40

Because all the supplements in the world are not going to fix a body that doesn’t know how to relax, rest, repair, rejuvenate, restore, right?

 

Misty Williams  12:52

 You can’t out supplement that. So breathwork is something that I have been incorporating into my routines, I do breath work in the morning with my meditation.

 

Misty Williams  13:01

 I start with two minutes of breath work before I meditate. And then I end with two minutes of breath work.

 

Misty Williams  13:05

 But I actually found myself. I can feel when I’m amped, right, I find I need to breathe. And really working on breathing. 

 

Misty Williams  13:12

It’s such a hugely important part of this conversation. I think lung health is so important, because our breathing actually helps regulate our parasympathetic nervous system or attacking between the two right when we are breathing is heightened. 

 

Misty Williams  13:30

And we’ve got more beats per minute, happening with our heart and we’re breathing heavier, we are in a more sympathetic state, and when our breathing slows.

 

Misty Williams  13:39

And we’re breathing through our nose and doing certain things that put us into a parasympathetic state, so this conversation is so hugely important to the overall healing conversation. 

 

Misty Williams  13:48

Because without breath, work and breathing and having healthy lungs that can breathe, you’re kind of castrating your body’s ability to heal because of how it ties into the parasympathetic nervous system.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  14:02

interesting you bring that out because I’ve always focused on the micro nutrients, I like focusing on the biochemistry. That’s my thing I love talking to. I’m a biochemistry nerd.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  14:14

 So I like to talk about amino acids and essential fatty acids and COq10. And all these enzymes that make the body work like it’s supposed to. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  14:23

And I tend to forget sometimes about the importance of the basics which are a healthy diet and in stimulating your parasympathetic nervous system, calming everything down. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  14:36

Now I’m like you have meditated for, I don’t know how many decades, for quite a long time, and I tend to forget about the importance of sharing that with my patients. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  14:49

Part of that is thinking that what I’ve done has always worked with these combinations of vitamins, minerals, amino acids, essential fatty acids and the 10. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:00

Seeing all this fun stuff that I love to do, it works. And it works very well, even for very complicated patients. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:07

But having said that, what I’ve learned from this summit, from Eric Gordon, who talked about the cell danger theory, is the importance of meditation. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:19

The other person, Dr. Isaac Elias, and he wrote a book called The survival paradox, similar in the idea that the body is overreacting and starts to shut down as a survival mechanism when it gets under too much stress.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:38

 And part of what happens is, your body’s releasing a chemical called galactic three. Now, I won’t go into all the details, because I’ll spoil the interview. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:47

But the paradigm shifter for me in this interview was that you can do everything right that I know that have worked for 22 years, from the most difficult people you can imagine. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  15:59

It’s worked, and yet you do everything right, and they still don’t get well. And the problem  has not been acknowledged until now till he’s come up to share this research.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  16:14

 Part of the problem is when the body goes into this survival paradox. It has chemicals, this galactic three that shields or hides, cancer cells, inflammatory chemicals, mold, toxins, it’s like this good as biofilm. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  16:31

You’ve I’m sure biofilm, you’ve had people talk about that on your podcast, and in summits you’ve done.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  16:37

But this new technology, or this new way of thinking, allows me to realize that, okay, I can do everything, right.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  16:47

 But if the body is still in this survival mode, it’s not going to take hold. So there’s protocols that we talked about in the interview, how to get around that, but the most important thing is, guess what?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:04

 Meditation. Yeah. And that’s what Eric and Isaac, both of them are big meditators. In fact, Isaac has studied with the Buddhist monks in Tibet.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:15

He’s, trained in Tibetan medicine as well as conventional medicine.And, I’m asking, I’m trying to put him on the spot. Okay, well, because I’m thinking, what am I doing?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:24

 Because I’ve got a dozen patients, I’m thinking, Okay, well, and, she’s better. She’s this, this and this, but we’re still what?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:31

 So I’m trying to get him to give me what is the one thing we can do. He meditate. Meditate. So it keeps coming back to, it’s like an old interview.

 

Misty Williams  17:43

The resistance we have to that isn’t real, it’s too simple. It’s just shows as a society, how conditioned we are, to do do do and not want to heal. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:53

Even as a functional practitioner, I just want to recommend the right supplements. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  17:58

And he’s, one of my mentors Wayne Dyer, I remember him talking about a conversation he had with Deepak Chopra, 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  18:07

He was telling him all the troubles he had, always seeing things going on and trying to make decisions with his kids and his family, and everything was going on in this business.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  18:16

 And Deepak would just keep saying, just meditate on it. Just meditate. Just meditate. And that was his answer, over and over again. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  18:25

And, that’s really pretty dadgum solid advice is, just get back in tune with your body and your mind and your spirit. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  18:35

And just doing that. Oftentimes, it will set you free of whatever this chronic thing that’s really ailing you. It’s just the body that wants to be healthy.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  18:46

 It just needs some help sometimes. And sometimes, that’s just slowing everything down.

 

Misty Williams  18:52

And so there’s this phenomenon that we talked about, in the accelerator with the ladies that I’m doing lots of one on one, we’re really going deep.

 

Misty Williams  18:59

 We talked about this in the healing rosie Facebook group too. And there’s this phenomenon called pregnenolone, steel, or progesterone, steel, right? 

 

Misty Williams  19:08

What happens for all of us, when we’re dealing with these toxic stressors in our body is our immune systems on high alert, right? 

 

Misty Williams  19:17

We’re producing more cortisol, because our body’s in a really stressed state, and we have to have a buffer for that, right? So we are producing more cortisol. 

 

Misty Williams  19:28

And to produce more cortisol, what our body does is it takes the pregnenolone that we’re making, or even the progesterone and instead of creating our sex hormones, we create more cortisol.

 

Misty Williams  19:40

 And it’s this loop this feedback loop constantly, where we’re constantly the stressors are always there. 

 

Misty Williams  19:48

So there’s this need for the cortisol and then our body as our adrenals, tickle our thyroid and thyroid plus LDL cholesterol plus vitamin A makes that pregnant. alone, right? It just all gets stolen. 

 

Misty Williams  20:03

When we don’t have our sex hormones, it affects our quality of life in a really deep way, especially for women, and it affects men too. 

 

Misty Williams  20:10

But women, our bodies seem to be more sensitive to this. And one of the ways that we can buffer that stress response in our system is to intentionally put our bodies in a parasympathetic state.

 

Misty Williams  20:28

Because the very act of that puts less of a demand that shifts your body from being in this constant stress state into a less stress state, the stresses are still there, that your parasympathetic nervous system is really powerful, right? 

 

Misty Williams  20:42

So, of course, there’s supplements that you can take. And of course, there’s things you can do to overall support the body from a biochemical perspective. 

 

Misty Williams  20:52

But there is nothing more powerful than the body’s innate systems and the parasympathetic nervous system to actually help us to heal. 

 

Misty Williams  21:01

So this is a really powerful conversation. I hope people are really being introspective about how they’re approaching their own healing and how they’re approaching this journey and making time for the thing that’s going to move the needle the most, right? 

 

Misty Williams  21:16

We’re spending so much money working with these practitioners, doing these protocols, where we’re buying saunas for our homes, we’re investing all this stuff in healing. 

 

Misty Williams  21:26

And if we don’t get this fundamental basic piece, dialed in. We’re castrating ourselves.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  21:35

You look at the fact of COVID, let’s talk about COVID, just a minute. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  21:39

And what we see in the COVID is the folks to me that are looking at this for the last couple of years, that are most at risk are by individuals that are really, really rundown.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  21:49

 And part of that is having a drain of what this thing called adrenal fatigue, you’re, you’ve been under stress for a number of years, and now your body just really cannot handle any more stress. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  21:59

So now you’re really vulnerable, your immune systems already kind of compromised your rundown. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:03

Those are the individuals that are more likely to get COVID and have symptoms that lag, they can continue afterwards. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:12

Along COVID Yeah, and I’m guilty, this, I mean, I’ve just shared this, but for a number of years, I’ve I don’t want to say it this way, because it makes me sound terrible, but my brain is a little tired. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:21

So I don’t know how else to say it. But I look down at my colleagues’ nature pass, sometimes because they look at the big picture, drink enough water, all these things that they have healthy hygiene, that bores me to death. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:41

And yet, and I know this, because I see some of my colleagues that are natural paths that are sharing this. Their clients are doing amazing.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:52

 And I’ve always thought, well. I really don’t have to do that, because I have all the biochemistry down. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  22:59

But after going through these interviews in the summit, it just made me realize, Misty, that the importance of sharing with my patients the basics, because this is stuff I do every day, I don’t think, I just get jaded to it. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  23:13

But it really is so important to do the basic stuff. And you’re right. I mean, I think people were spending a lot of money on products and gadgets. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  23:25

I mean, it’s great. But it’s what I tell my patients the only way to overcome whatever this illness is really no matter what we give the name is to get healthy. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  23:38

Now that means different things to different people. But the only way to get healthy and stay healthy is you’ve got to have a healthy diet. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  23:46

You can’t out run and an unhealthy diet is going to catch up with you. It may take 20, 30, 40, 50 years, but all healing takes place at the cell, the cellular level. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  24:01

And if you’re not feeding that cell with healthy nutrients, and a healthy nervous system, that’s not overloaded with stress and angst and all the things that are bombarding us right now with all the stressors.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  24:16

 It’s not going to be healthy. So you have to do these basic things. And they can have dramatic effects that you couldn’t get from doing all these other things, cancer, talking to national winners, Susan did an interview with her often at the  Summit.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  24:34

 And a big part of it is mindset. And we hear that but we get so jaded to it. This whole thing about psycho neuro immunology, where your nervous system is tied into your brain, it’s tied into your gut and tied into every cell in the body. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  24:49

And one of the ways to make sure you nurture that is to meditate and have quiet time to journal, do affirmations all the things that allow Your Body to be able to these different systems to connect with one another. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:04

And not to be at odds with each other because of all the stress you’re being placed under either real or imagined, right?

 

Misty Williams  25:11

Yeah, yeah. Do you incorporate breathwork into your practice?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:16

I am now and so I had Jane Hogan. I don’t know if Jane just finished a summit here recently the pain Summit, great Summit. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:24

And I was at one of her interviews. But most people, and I didn’t realize this, but most people are shallow breathers. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:33

So they’re breathing from here up. And she did this whole exercise, about how long you can hold your breath. And I was terrible.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:44

 I was terrible. Even though I meditate. And I do breath work. I thought, oh my gosh, I’m really not doing it the right way. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:53

So yes, I do do breath work, but I’m getting better. And you asked me to share it with my patients.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  25:57

I am now every new patient that I take on. I’m sharing with them how to do the breath work, because of fibromyalgia, which is mostly who I take care of. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  26:08

They’re on sympathetic overload. So their nervous system is overloaded. Everything is magnified, stressors, stimulation, bright lights, loud noises, changes in the weather, it just sets them off. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  26:21

And until they activate, as you mentioned, their parasympathetic nervous system, they’re always at risk of having a thing called a fibro flare where all their symptoms get brought up to the surface and become heightened.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  26:35

So yes, thank you for asking and allow me to share. I really believe that breathing work. Just knowing how to breathe properly is fundamental for having optimal health.

 

Misty Williams  26:47

Yeah, so I want to share two things I do since we’re having this conversation. I want this to be accessible to everyone listening, right?

 

Misty Williams  26:55

 This idea of breathwork, especially as you’re hearing this conversation, if it’s lighting you up, if something inside of you is saying.

 

Misty Williams  27:01

 I need to know more about this. This is probably the missing piece to my practice. I want you to know two kinds of breath work that I do that are super easy.

 

Misty Williams  27:08

 I do them every day with my meditation, I also do them before I’m moving into a space where I need to give a lot. 

 

Misty Williams  27:16

So Dr. Roger, you told me that two days of working with patients you just finished right? So depleting. 

 

Misty Williams  27:22

When I’m getting ready to get on the call with my ladies in the healing Rosie accelerator or getting ready to do a big interview somewhere. 

 

Misty Williams  27:29

I always do a little bit of what I call grounding breathwork is really like a purge of whatever you’re feeling energeticall., Whatever you’re carrying, whatever has gotten you worked up for the day, whatever it’s been consuming. 

 

Misty Williams  27:44

Like, I just need to clear it. And really get grounded and settle myself. This is a powerful strategy, I find myself doing this a lot.

 

Misty Williams  27:51

 And you actually don’t need very many of these breaths. If something has you worked up, I need to get a hold of myself and get back in my body. 

 

Misty Williams  27:59

Right? I do. Really simple breathing, where I’m inhaling, sometimes I see people inhale through their mouth, sometimes through their nose, I tend to do it through my nose. But you could do it either way. 

 

Misty Williams  28:12

And then give big open drops, letting all the air out. So I’m just going to demonstrate it. If you want to do with it you can Dr. Rodger, but I just want to demonstrate how easy this is to do.

 

Misty Williams  28:22

 Okay, so while we do and you’re filling your belly, like you were saying, watch when you breathe in. 

 

Misty Williams  28:33

You don’t want to breathe shallow into your lungs up top or on your chest, you want to breathe into your belly. 

 

Misty Williams  28:38

So take a deep breath. Just let it out. I did that for two minutes before I meditated. Just ground. It’s like a very cleansing breath. 

 

Misty Williams  28:51

But I also do it when I get really pissed off at Roderick, and I’m spun up. Not his fault necessarily doesn’t matter, right? I’ve worked up when I’ve experienced something, maybe I’ve read something that just really has given me a charge. 

 

Misty Williams  29:04

 I’ve had a conversation with someone and I can just tell I’m not walking away from that situation. I am carrying the energy of it with me. 

 

Misty Williams  29:11

So it’s just as a real cleansing breathe in, drop the breath out. And the other one that’s really helpful is box breathing. You might box breathe yourself, Dr. Rodger, because I hear everyone talking about box breathing. 

 

Misty Williams  29:24

What’s really powerful about box breathing is it very specifically stimulates your parasympathetic nervous system. It is for deep relaxation. It’s an excellent practice to do right before you go to bed. 

 

Misty Williams  29:37

So if you’re one of these people that gets spun up, I’m having a hard time shutting my brain off, maybe you work late in the day, you’ve worked a later shift or something and it’s close to bedtime.

 

Misty Williams  29:47

You need that transition time or I really need to go to bed right now because I’ve got to get up but my body is just not ready. Box breathing is really powerful.

 

Misty Williams  29:55

 So I’ve seen a lot of my male counterparts demonstrate box breathing with a count of five, but it’s a little bit too much for me. 

 

Misty Williams  30:03

So we’re going to do a count of four. But box breathing as you inhale for four, hold it for four, exhale for four, hold it for four, super simple. 

 

Misty Williams  30:14

And it can be whatever count feels comfortable to you. Someone might say I just want to do three, or if you want to do five, or if you have big lung capacity, you’re really developing that lung capacity, you’re just talking about Dr. Rodger, you might do six, right?

 

Misty Williams  30:26

 I don’t know that the number of seconds is as important as you’re just doing it consistently through each step of the process. 

 

Misty Williams  30:34

So we’re going to breathe in. Hold for four, out for four. Hold for four. Super easy, super easy in for four, hold for four, out for four, hold for four, it’s a really great way just to really put you into relaxation.

 

Misty Williams  30:59

It’s great to do before bed. But I wanted people to have a couple of examples. This is a powerful conversation we’re having here about the importance of the breath. 

 

Misty Williams  31:07

And I want you to walk away with like, here’s what I can do with this. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:11

For those of you that are doing this exercise, how many of you notice just focusing on your breathing calms you down? 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:18

That’s how powerful just focusing on whether you’re doing it right or wrong, just focusing on your breathing. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:23

And that’s how Meditation really is; it doesn’t have to be complicated. People think, oh, gosh, I gotta sit in a certain position, I got your eyes chanting. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:32

You don’t have to do all that. I mean, there’s so many different forms of meditation, it’s just focusing on your breathing. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:38

Now, Jane, she shared with me the ensuited opinion about the new Buteyko. The Buteyko breathing, are you familiar with that form now? 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  31:49

The 444. Okay, you should be able to get to 20, hold, exhale, and wait 20 seconds, and then inhale and get there should be these 22nd intervals, you should be able to count to  20.  I didn’t make it to 20. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:06

So I could get up to 12. And that’s as far as I can get. Now I’m really trying to work on it  but as you show what I mean, you want to make sure when you’re breathing. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:16

And ideally you’re breathing into your nose because that filters everything that’s ideal. So you’re breathing in and when you breathe in through your nose, what you see as your stomach should come out. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:27

Okay, you should have your diaphragm coming up so their stomach should come hell potbelly, like Buddha. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:35

And then when you exhale, what you should see now you’re sucking your stomach in at your umbilical cord, okay, your belly button.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:42

 And that’s how you really get that deep breath, that healing breath. But most people are shallow breathers, a lot of times, they’re breathing to their mouth.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  32:52

 And you’re always in that sympathetic flight mode when you breathe like that. So that’s what you just shared.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  33:00

I mean, it’s so simple. So simple. That’s so simple. Let’stalk about the soccer ball, you need 17 different nutrients for a Kochi pan to work, especially if you’re taking a statin or tricyclic drug or a beta blocker.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  33:16

We all think that’s great too. But what you just showed, could turn somebody from having a panic attack into this calming down just like that. It’s that quick. It’s that powerful.

 

Misty Williams  33:26

We were not taught in Western society to be so self governed. Growing up, I remember being in all sorts of stressful family situations. 

 

Misty Williams  33:38

There was never a musty breath, take a deep breath, like how do I regulate my nervous system as a six year old? Right? 

 

Misty Williams  33:47

Yeah, we don’t think of ourselves as having that kind of power over our being, our autonomy, our bodies, we were conditioned in so many ways to look outside of ourselves for the answers. 

 

Misty Williams  34:02

And, not that looking outside of ourselves doesn’t have something to offer us because I mean, certainly it’s been life changing for me, I’ve learned things that were definitely not inside my own knowledge. 

 

Misty Williams  34:14

But one of the things that we do have a lot of control over is our nervous system. It feels like other things are controlling it, but it’s only because we haven’t really learned, been taught, practiced, or regulated our own nervous system, but we all can do it. 

 

Misty Williams  34:35

If you’re a person who’s struggling with panic attacks, or depression or you feel a lot of anxiety or overwhelm. It is unreal what breathwork can do for you. 

 

Misty Williams  34:47

And I’m certainly not trying to minimize these situations or circumstances that people find themselves in by just saying Just breathe. 

 

Misty Williams  34:56

but to minimize breathing and its role is to basically cut you off from the thing that you have the most power to control so breath work is powerful and tying it into this conversation about our lungs and our lung health.

 

Misty Williams  35:12

 I can just see so many ribbons of truth. And without good lung function, just look at how it affects your nervous system in such a deep way.

 

Misty Williams  35:23

I can’t imagine being someone who has to struggle around breathing and catching a breath, if we know how powerful that is to regulate our parasympathetic nervous system, and then to be cut off from being able to do that is a big deal.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  35:39

Yeah. Yeah. So, if you look at, if you go on Amazon, you look at functional medicine books on asthma, you’re not gonna find any. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  35:52

Kind of mind boggling that there’s not that much out there about maintaining and keeping healthy lungs

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:00

Yet, as we’ve already shared I mean, try to go four minutes without breathing and see what happens.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:07

 I mean, you’re gonna get in trouble pretty quick. So I’m really excited about the summit. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:12

And I think that, as I mentioned earlier, the interviews are both very informative, but they’re also entertaining. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:20

There’s some stuff that came out of those, and I’m not gonna, I’m not gonna tip my hand. So we have some pros and cons about COVID. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:28

We have some different ways of thinking. I’m in the middle. And I hope I did a good job of staying in the middle. 

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:36

Because I think one of the big challenges for COVID is what we’ve seen over the last couple of years, became political, and then Who do you believe?

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:45

 So that’s been the big challenge for me is I have to try to do the best I can to stay on top of it, because of my patients who are so vulnerable.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:54

They’re looking to me to give them the answer, should they do this or not do this. So it’s been a real challenge.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  36:59

 But some of the interviews that I had, I think, do a really good job of sharing different thoughts. And, just have to see what resonates with you and then make the decision. 

 

Misty Williams  37:11

Yeah,I love it. Well, you guys need to definitely catch this event. If you go to heal. rosie.com look for my interview with Dr. Roger, and the link to the super healthy lung summit will be in our show notes. 

 

Misty Williams  37:23

You should all sign up. Everyone sign up and participate in this awesome event. Let’s all learn a little bit more about our lung health.

 

Misty Williams  37:31

 If you’re dealing with some of these symptoms of lung COVID, someone all of us know, people, I think that are dealing with lung COVID. Even if it’s not us directly. 

 

Misty Williams  37:41

It is really great cutting edge, hot off the press, science and insights into what we can do to really help and empower ourselves.

 

Misty Williams  37:49

 And if you’re someone who has dealt with mold, toxicity, lots of infections, if you’re dealing with food allergies, or environmental toxins, or any of these things.

 

Misty Williams  38:01

 These toxic exposures have been challenging for a lot of us to uncover. We can’t overlook the role of our lung health in our overall well being.

 

Misty Williams  38:14

 So this is a really fascinating area that you’ve uncovered for us, Dr. Roger, and I’m super excited for everyone to tune in.

 

Dr. Rodger Murphree  38:20

Well, thank you, Misty. I mean, you’re always delighted to talk to me, and I really appreciate your support and enthusiasm. So thank you so much.

 

Misty Williams  38:28

Yeah. All right, everybody, go sign up and we’ll talk to you soon. Bye for now. That’s it for this week’s episode.

 

Misty Williams  38:35

 Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby, foggy and fatigue and to reclaim your life.

 

Misty Williams  38:41

 If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. 

 

Misty Williams  38:51

They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

What’s Your Thyroid Type? Demystifying Your Thyroid Labs & Healing Your Metabolism

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What’s Your Thyroid Type? Demystifying Your Thyroid Labs & Healing Your Metabolism

Thinning hair, weight gain, exhaustion, brain fog, afternoon energy dips, cold hands and feet … you may have heard that these things can all point to a thyroid issue.

But what does that mean? And how do you know if you have a thyroid issue?

In my interview with the amazing Inna Topiler, we’re going to talk hypothyroid, Hashimotos and your thyroid type…

Knowing how to navigate your own labs to make sense of your thyroid health is so empowering, and Inna is going to give us a good education on how our thyroid works.

We’ll explore what the thyroid is, how it’s connected to your hormones, some common ways our thyroid gets compromised and more. You’ll learn:

  • How your thyroid hormones affect your body’s overall health
  • The 6 important functions of thyroid hormones in your body
  • Why “your thyroid is normal” when it’s not – and how to know for yourself
  • Do you have Hashimoto’s? What to do if you get a diagnosis
  • Is Hashis curable? Find out what you can do to reverse the disease

resources mentioned

5:55 – Inna talks about what thyroid is and what it does for the body 

14:12 – How thyroid hormones gets produced and how it all works together

19:45– Why most doctors only do TSH check for thyroids

25:45 – Three Different thyroid types

28:13 – The way Hashimoto’s is diagnosed (potential IG clip)

35:37 – How to manage or eradicate Hashimotos

36:00 – Can’t cure Hashimotos but can bring it to remission (potential IG clip)

36:21 – Look at the things that trigger the immune system 

36:33 – 4 Categories where we can have triggers for Hashimotos (immune system)

49:46 – How to discover their thyroid type 

resources mentioned

transcript

Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healingrosie.com And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie Radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

 

Misty Williams  00:13

We created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister, it is possible. So if you’ve been hanging around the Healing Rosie community for any length of time, you have probably heard a lot of chatter about thyroid. 

 

Misty Williams  00:29

And there’s a reason for that. And if you’ve dealt with flabby, foggy and fatigued at all in your journey, which most likely if you’re listening, that’s part of the reason what you’ve confronted these issues as you’re getting older. 

 

Misty Williams  00:41

Sometimes it gets blamed on menopause or perimenopause. Sometimes it gets blamed on Aging, right? But I first ran into thyroid issues myself when I was 35. 

 

Misty Williams  00:52

So technically not in perimenopause. And technically not at an age where it can be blamed on aging. I had completed my two surgeries that I’ve talked a lot about. 

 

Misty Williams  01:07

The second surgery to fix the first botched surgery and everything that ensued after coming unraveled dealing with brain fog and fatigue like crazy and finally went back to my primary care doctor to figure out what was going on and pushed for more lab work. 

 

Misty Williams  01:21

Like let’s figure out what’s happening. I’m experiencing these symptoms that I have not experienced before. And I want to get my life back. 

 

Misty Williams  01:21

And after pushing for a while she finally said to me, mister, even if I did run your labs, I wouldn’t know what they meant, which was gutting and shocking. 

 

Misty Williams  01:21

And she went ahead and referred me to an endocrinologist in her practice to take a look at what was happening in my labs and see if she could help. 

 

Misty Williams  01:35

So while I was sitting in the endocrinologist’s office, she told me that my labs were probably normal, we would run some more and see if anything else turned up. 

 

Misty Williams  01:58

And she came over and started tapping on my neck and said Miss DA, I think you might have some nodules on your thyroid. We went back and did an ultrasound and sure enough, 

 

Misty Williams  02:09

I had thyroid nodules and heard then what I heard when they diagnosed me with endometriosis. We don’t know what causes it. And we can keep watching it right you can do surgery. 

 

Misty Williams  02:22

So thyroid nodules the first time I even knew that thyroids could have nodules on them. And over the course of the next five years or so, I experienced my thyroid actually tanking. 

 

Misty Williams  02:34

I know now that a big contributor to this was I had metals improperly drilled for my teeth two years later, I didn’t know that at the time, of course, and 45 pound weight gain. 

 

Misty Williams  02:47

About three or four months and the doctors put me on hormone therapy but never got to the root of why I was gaining all this weight and found out five years later that it was because of the mercury fillings being improperly drilled. 

 

Misty Williams  03:01

And likely at that time, I also picked up mold which didn’t get diagnosed for me until 2021. So I’ve been dealing with severe toxicity. 

 

Misty Williams  03:09

And what I saw in my labs, over about a five year period was my thyroid truly did tank and it got down to 2.1. My free T3 was down to 2.1.  

 

Misty Williams  03:20

I was feeling really exhausted and had the afternoon slumps where I just felt like my energy was bogging bottoming out and I couldn’t keep my eyes open. 

 

Misty Williams  03:29

So today we’re going to talk more about thyroid health because this is a topic that I feel like almost all the women in our community and when they test properly find out they have some kind of thyroid dysfunction that needs to be addressed. 

 

Misty Williams  03:42

And toxicity is a huge, huge part of why we’re getting sick and experiencing a lot of HPA Axis dysfunction but especially seeing our thyroid affected. 

 

Misty Williams  03:52

So today we’re going to talk to my friend Inna about thyroid health and Hashimotos and your thyroid type and we’re going to get a good education on how her thyroid works. 

 

Misty Williams  04:06

What we can do to see for ourselves, and what’s happening with our thyroid. One of the things that I have found really empowering is being able to know what optimal lab values are so I can look at my labs for myself and see. 

 

Misty Williams  04:22

And if you have not downloaded the healing Rosie lab tracker you will find optimal lab values in the lab tracker at healing rosie.com That will really support this conversation today. 

 

Misty Williams  04:31

But in a tabular, Mooney is a board certified clinical nutritionist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and the founder of complete nutrition and wellness. 

 

Misty Williams  04:41

She is also the host of the health mysteries solved podcast and the educator behind the thyroid Mystery Solved step by step program. Welcome Gina.

 

Inna Topiler  04:50

Hi, Misty. I’m so excited to be here and to share all this information with your listeners. Thank you for having me.

 

Misty Williams  04:57

Well, I’m super excited for you to be here and this thyroid topic is a big one. I still have women after all of the talks we’ve done on thyroid health. 

 

Misty Williams  05:05

We’ll post in the healing rosy Facebook group that here’s the symptoms I’m experiencing. And they all from my perspective mirror thyroid dysfunction, and you ask them to have your thyroid checked, go, yes, my thyroid checked, the doctor told me it was normal. 

 

Misty Williams  05:18

Do you know for yourself, it was normal? Did you check your own labs, what labs were run and we uncovered that the proper labs weren’t run. They don’t really know how their thyroid is functioning. 

 

Misty Williams  05:28

And very often they will go have the proper labs come and then come back into the group and be like, Oh my gosh, here’s what I’m seeing in my labs, what do I do because my doctor says it’s normal, and it’s fine. 

 

Misty Williams  05:38

So this is like a beat your head against the wall issue for patients who are not as blessed as you to have this amazing background in thyroid health and all this insight into what we need to do. 

 

Misty Williams  05:49

So why don’t you start unpacking first, let’s kind of start at the beginning. I would love for you just to educate everybody a little bit on what the thyroid is, how it’s connected to our hormones overall. 

 

Misty Williams  06:04

And maybe some common ways that our thyroid gets compromised, that creates these issues for us as we get older.

 

Inna Topiler  06:10

Absolutely. So our thyroid, very small little butterfly gland right here controls so much. So I think that most of us probably already know that thyroid has something to do with our metabolism, because that’s a very talked about thing, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  06:24

And so yes, your thyroid controls your metabolism, it also controls your temperature. So when you get hot or cold, it regulates that. But additionally, it literally controls so many more things. 

 

Inna Topiler  06:36

So we need thyroid hormone from our head to our toes. So our hair for example, right? I mean, who has experienced hair loss, thinning hair, dry hair, coarse hair, especially hair that, like, Wait, this is my hair, like something is different. 

 

Inna Topiler  06:52

I know people tell me all the time, I have half the hair that I had five years ago, right? Or my hair, the texture, it’s just, it’s frizzy and dry. And like it just doesn’t sit the same, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  07:03

So your thyroid, you need enough thyroid hormone for your hair to grow, supple to be flowy to just be healthy. Same thing with our skin, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  07:15

Because it controls your temperature but also controls moisture levels. So skin that is dry. There’s rashes on the skin. The thyroid has a lot to do with that. 

 

Inna Topiler  07:26

And I often ask people, do you have dry skin? And they say, oh, no! What can I ask you? Do you put lotion on when you get out of the shower? 

 

Inna Topiler  07:33

Oh, yeah. I mean, if I didn’t put lotion on, my skin would fall off. I’m like, well, that actually means you have dry skin. Right? So that’s really important. 

 

Inna Topiler  07:43

Now, the next thing that people don’t always think about is the gut. And I know that in your community, you guys talk so much about the gut because that’s the center of so many things. 

 

Inna Topiler  07:52

And gut health is important for the rest of our body. And many people already know about the microbiome and the good and the bad bugs. 

 

Inna Topiler  07:59

But what people may not realize is that we talked about leaky gut a lot, right? So leaky gut is that intestinal lining, and it can become permeable. 

 

Inna Topiler  08:08

And when it becomes permeable, we can have food sensitivities, and a lot of other issues. And when we talk about that, there’s a lot of support, like if people made a note about drinking bone broth, right, or taking glutamine, those are wonderful to feel it to heal the gut. 

 

Inna Topiler  08:24

But here’s the thing, what actually controls the lining in the gut, your thyroid, so if you don’t have enough thyroid hormone, you’re not going to have a nice barrier. 

 

Inna Topiler  08:37

So you can take glutamine until glutamine is coming out of your nose, right? Killing it. And then you’ll be breaking it up when you don’t have enough thyroid hormone. 

 

Inna Topiler  08:46

And then speaking of membranes, right, there is a lining a membrane around the brain, it’s called the blood brain barrier. So the same thing, you need enough thyroid hormone to support that barrier, that barrier needs to be intact. 

 

Inna Topiler  08:59

If there’s permeability there. Well guess what? Things that we’re taking in, right could be metals, it could be other toxins, they’re coming in. 

 

Inna Topiler  09:07

And then hello, brain fog, right? Like there’s going to be inflammation in the brain because things are getting into the brain that are not supposed to. 

 

Inna Topiler  09:15

And yes, again, there’s vitamins, there’s minerals, there’s things you could do to help to protect your brain. But if you don’t have thyroid hormone, then that barrier is not going to be as intact as it needs to be. 

 

Inna Topiler  09:26

And then of course, going back to digestion from a motility perspective, when we don’t have enough thyroid hormone, we can be more prone to constipation. 

 

Inna Topiler  09:34

And everything in the body is very connected, right? So when one thing happens, there’s usually a bunch of different things that happen down the line. 

 

Inna Topiler  09:42

So if we are constipated and constipated, it doesn’t mean that you don’t go to the bathroom for seven days, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  09:50

If you’re not going every day, that in my book is considered constipation, or you might be going everyday but you get those little pellets that look like deer. poop. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:00

That is also conservation. So you could be going everyday. But if it’s just tiny, little pellets, it’s not really all coming out. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:06

So then if we think about what happens down the line, right? Well, if we’re not moving our bowels, that means the toxins aren’t getting out. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:12

So they’re getting reabsorbed back in, which means then we become more toxic. And as you mentioned, Misty toxicity is such a big part of why the thyroid can be caught off. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:21

And then on top of that, if we look at other hormones, like for estrogen, for example, we need estrogen. And every day we produce a certain amount of estrogen that then has to get metabolized and excreted out of the body and detoxified. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:35

And the biggest way that it does that is through the bowels. If we’re backed up, because our thyroid is not working as well, then our estrogen then gets reabsorbed, and then we have the extra estrogen from yesterday plus the estrogen we produce from today. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:49

And we get something called estrogen dominance. Estrogen dominance means there’s more estrogen than production, which causes its own host of symptoms. 

 

Inna Topiler  10:56

But from a thyroid perspective, estrogen dominance can slow down a specific type of the thyroid, which then makes our hormones free, which we’ll get into in more detail, but they make it not as absorbable.

 

Inna Topiler  11:08

And so, right. It’s like the thyroid affects one thing, which then affects something else, which affects something else. And then it goes back to thyroid, and then it’s this vicious cycle. And we get this perfect storm.

 

Misty Williams  11:19

Yeah, one of the things you’re saying that I just want to highlight here is, a lot of times we we think of our issues being a thing, so I’m hypothyroid or I have SIBO, or, there’s one thing that we need to fix in our bodies, right, so that we are feeling better. 

 

Misty Williams  11:35

And I’ve seen it over and over in our community, that women have a gut issue. And they go on hormone therapy, and their gut issues go away. 

 

Misty Williams  11:44

So for example, there’s a woman in our community who had SIBO, she’s like our little resident SIBO expert, okay, she has beat SIBO back. 

 

Misty Williams  11:51

So many times, she knows all the tricks that work for SIBO. And as soon as she went to a doctor to have her hormones optimized, I believe she took thyroid hormone, and her sex hormones, or SIBO, went away, she has not had a SIBO flare in years, because she fixed her hormone problem, right. 

 

Misty Williams  12:06

So if you think your problem is SIBO, and you’re isolating, like, I need to fix the SIBO, and you’re doing all the SIBO protocols, right to beat the SIBO back, 

 

Misty Williams  12:12

you’re not looking at your body more holistically and seeing what’s happening with your hormones, then you miss a huge healing opportunity. 

 

Misty Williams  12:20

And instead of actually healing, you’re just beating things back. So this is a really important conversation, because hormones affect everything in the body. Just as you mentioned, you have brain fog, there’s a huge hormonal component, you have gut issues, there’s a huge hormonal component. Yeah.

 

Inna Topiler  12:36

The other way, also, right, where if you don’t have enough thyroid hormone, and you’re backed up a lot of times also, then you may not have enough hydrochloric acid, because that’s all controlled by the thyroid as well. 

 

Inna Topiler  12:48

So you can actually maybe be more prone to SIBO, or to H. Pylori, or some of these other infections. So a lot of times, it really has to be addressed together. 

 

Inna Topiler  12:58

And often, the thyroid kind of has to come first, even before some of the other things. They’re all important, but it’s just a matter of putting it in the right order step by step. Right? Sequencing at all. Yeah, yeah. 

 

Inna Topiler  13:09

And then I was gonna say the other big thing that people don’t always think about is our mood. Right? So anxiety, depression, obviously, there’s so many different reasons for that. 

 

Inna Topiler  13:20

There’s circumstantial things that are things that are going on in our life and our stress. But there’s also the neurotransmitter component that the thyroid controls. 

 

Inna Topiler  13:29

So sometimes, and again there’s a time in place. And sometimes people may need medicine or may need supplements, or may need certain things for that. 

 

Inna Topiler  13:36

And that’s, of course, very important. But if you’re not looking at thyroid, you could be missing a big piece of the puzzle.

 

Misty Williams  13:42

Yeah. So you talked a lot about thyroid type. And you’re kind of building out this whole brand on understanding your thyroid type, 

 

Misty Williams  13:51

I would love for you to talk to us about the different thyroid types, because I feel like we’re going to set the stage here for the deeper conversation that I’m really wanting to have.

 

Inna Topiler  14:00

Definitely. So before we get into that, I just want to make sure that everyone is on the same page about what thyroid hormones are. 

 

Inna Topiler  14:08

So we talked about what thyroid does. So I think we’re good there. But what really happens, and what happens once your therapist produces its hormones, because as you mentioned, people often say, oh, yeah, my doctor said, my thyroid is fine. 

 

Inna Topiler  14:21

And so what did they check? Right? They’re like, Oh, I don’t know, just TSH. Right? So let’s just talk a little bit about how thyroid hormone gets produced and how it all works together, because that’s very, very important. 

 

Inna Topiler  14:32

So most doctors that are more conventional will just test TSH, which is thyroid stimulating hormone, but that’s one out of nine different hormones and it just gives us a little bit right, it’s important and we want to poop TSH, but it’s one out of many and doesn’t give us the whole picture. 

 

Inna Topiler  14:49

So TSH is believe it or not, it’s not actually even a thyroid hormone. It’s a pituitary hormone. So your pituitary signals the thyroid via the hormone TSH, and then the Once it produces TSH, the thyroid is going to produce T4 and T3, which are the thyroid hormones. 

 

Inna Topiler  15:06

Most of the thyroid hormones that are produced are actually T4, and T4 is not as active, it’s inactive. And then T3 is the active hormone. But your body produces about 93 94% of t foreign only six 7% of T3. 

 

Inna Topiler  15:21

And so most people say, Well, wait a minute, that doesn’t make any sense, right? Like, why would the thyroid produce so little T3, which is active, which you need? 

 

Inna Topiler  15:29

Like, what’s the deal here, right, but our bodies are really smart. So there’s always an answer, they have a reason for everything. And because thyroid hormone, like we talked about is needed for literally everything from our head to our toe, 

 

Inna Topiler  15:41

if we produce the T3 that active thyroid hormone right in the thyroid, guess what, it’s going to be used by the cells right here. And then there’s not going to be enough to go around from to our head or toes and everywhere in between. 

 

Inna Topiler  15:54

So our bodies are so smart, they produce the T4, T4 then has to travel to other areas of the body, where it gets converted into T3. And then it has to go to the cells and absorb into the cells. 

 

Inna Topiler  16:09

Now people might be wondering, if they’ve done a full thyroid test, they may see things like T4 and T3, but it’ll say total T3, total T4, and three, T3 and three TO four. 

 

Inna Topiler  16:21

And I know this gets confusing, but I’ll explain this, there is a difference. And it is important to do both because a lot of people say Oh, well, I had to T3, which one they’re like, I don’t know, T3, right. 

 

Inna Topiler  16:30

So the total T3 and total T4 are what’s produced or converted, but then they are bound to protein. So I always say that hormones are like children, right, you’re not going to let your child just walk around on their own, they have to be chaperones. 

 

Inna Topiler  16:43

So it’s the same thing, most hormones are actually bound by these proteins. And they’re kind of like sitting on a bus. And as they sit on the bus, the bus then travels and takes them to where they need to go. 

 

Inna Topiler  16:54

So it takes them to the liver and the gut where they convert to T3. And then it also takes them to the cells where they can get absorbed in. So most of our thyroid hormones are bound, and so they’re on the bus. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:06

And then when they jump off the bus to get into the cell, they’re when they’re not on the bus, right, that’s what we call free hormones, meaning they’re free, they’re not bound, so that they could get into the cell. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:16

But it’s important to know that free hormones are only a very, very, very small percentage of our total hormones. Which is why even though it’s important to test three, T4 and three, T3, you really can’t interpret too much with just those. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:29

I mean, it helps, right, but you need to see it together with the total. So you can look at the patterns. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:35

And then we also have something called T3 uptake, which looks at thyroid binding globulin and something called reverse T3, that’s almost kind of like an overflow valve. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:45

So reverse T3 is sort of like the opposite of T3. So when we have too much T3, sometimes it’s not that common, but it can happen. 

 

Inna Topiler  17:52

The body will create reverse so that it doesn’t affect you too negatively. But the reverse also could be created because of inflammation or because of stress and things like that. 

 

Inna Topiler  18:03

So it is important to look at because it’s kind of like the opposition, if you have a lot of reverse then your own T3 may not be used, even if you do have a good amount of it. 

 

Inna Topiler  18:12

So I hope this makes sense in terms of how they’re all related and why you need all the hormones aside from just TSH. And then when you have this, then we could talk more about thyroid types. 

 

Inna Topiler  18:26

So essentially, thyroid is not a one size fits all approach. And if your doctor tells you that it is, then it’s time to probably get a new doctor, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  18:37

Because  your TSH could possibly be off and if your TSH is elevated, that typically means that there’s less thyroid hormone, and you perhaps may need thyroid medicine. 

 

Inna Topiler  18:47

But that’s just one type, which is the high TSH type. Some of the other types are if let’s say you’re someone who doesn’t convert your T4 to T3 very well because remember, you don’t produce T3 very much of it, at least in your thyroid, 

 

Inna Topiler  19:04

You have to convert it and not everyone can convert it, it gets converted in the liver in the gut and you need certain nutrients for that conversion to happen. 

 

Inna Topiler  19:10

And there are certain autoimmunity things that can affect that conversion negatively as well. And so for some people, if that Converse doesn’t happen, you don’t have enough T3. 

 

Inna Topiler  19:19

So if you don’t have enough T3, taking a conventional thyroid medicine like Synthroid or levothyroxine, which is T4 is really not going to do anything right so that’s not going to help. 

 

Inna Topiler  19:30

And usually people who don’t have enough T3 tend to have completely normal TSH so if they go to an endocrinologist or their primary and they say hey, check my thyroid and they look at TSH they say oh, you’re fine, everything’s fine. 

 

Inna Topiler  19:42

Your TSH is perfect at 1.5 Or something like that right. And when they find out that they have low T3, their support will be very specific to that versus what someone would do if there is a high TSH type. So

 

Misty Williams  19:59

Help people understand, And why doctors often only do the TSH check when they’re checking thyroid.

 

Inna Topiler  20:05

Okay, so I think there’s a few different reasons for that. The first is, I mean, that is the standard of care, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  20:12

Because hypothyroidism is defined as a TSH that is above the labs range, which by the way, the labs range the high end of TSH is 4.5, it used to be five, they’ve lowered it to 4.5, though, 

 

Inna Topiler  20:24

Depending on where you are in the country or in the world, there may be a little variance to anywhere from four to 4.75 At this point, so you could be 4.1 

 

Inna Topiler  20:34

and be considered okay in California, and be considered high in New York, right, depending on what lab. But that’s the definition of hypothyroidism. 

 

Inna Topiler  20:43

So, when doctors are looking, and if you look at textbooks, right, you don’t have hypothyroidism unless your TSH is above range. 

 

Inna Topiler  20:52

But we know the ranges are very wide and optimally, you really want TSH below three. And if you’re someone who’s taking thyroid medicine, in an ideal world, you’d be even closer to two because the thyroid medicine should, in theory, get that TSH down lower. 

 

Inna Topiler  21:08

But because the textbooks say, hey, unless you’re over four 4.5, whatever the range is, you’re not hypothyroid. It’s kind of an easy thing for a doctor to say, well, your TSH is okay, so I’m not thinking any more down the line. 

 

Inna Topiler  21:21

Because the book says this, your TSH is fine, that it must be you must be depressed, you must be crazy, you must have this, that and the other you must be stressed. It’s not your thyroid. 

 

Inna Topiler  21:32

And obviously I don’t want to say anything negative about anyone. But I do find that, when I speak to doctors who are more conventional, 

 

Inna Topiler  21:41

I even sometimes ask them we’ll have maybe a client or a patient in common and say, Hey, would you mind just running a T3? For this person? 

 

Inna Topiler  21:48

They’ll say, Oh, well, that’s not necessary. I would sometimes go and I said, Well, can you? And obviously I understand anyway,

 

Inna Topiler  21:56

This is what I do, why it’s necessary, but sometimes I’ll say to them, Well would you be able to tell me why you feel it’s not necessary? Right? Like, because I want to start a conversation. 

 

Inna Topiler  22:05

And I would just want to see how we can work together, say, Oh, well, because it doesn’t matter. 

 

Inna Topiler  22:11

And I’ll say to them, okay, well, why do you think it doesn’t matter that oh, well, that’s only if someone’s in a hospital or this or that, like they just don’t understand. 

 

Inna Topiler  22:19

And there isn’t really a lot of education about this in medical school, the textbooks are written in a way where because there’s all these feedback loops, right. 

 

Inna Topiler  22:27

So in an ideal case, if TSH is okay, it should signal T4 to be produced. And T4 should in theory, convert to T3 and T3 Should then get back on the bus, go to the cells and get absorbed into the cell. Right? 

 

Inna Topiler  22:41

It’s kind of like, when it rains, the water hits the grass and the grass grows, and then flowers grow. And then everything is kind of working. 

 

Inna Topiler  22:51

But sometimes we have no rain for a while, right? Or sometimes there’s certain toxins in the environment that affect the grass. And instead of grass, we get a bunch of weeds and no flowers, right? So it’s the same kind of idea. 

 

Inna Topiler  23:02

Yes, in theory, it’s supposed to work this way. But in today’s day and age, it just doesn’t for at least half like I would say even more than 50% of people.

 

Misty Williams  23:11

So one of the things I want to mention here is if you’re working with your doctor, and he and he or she has told you that your thyroid is normal, 

 

Misty Williams  23:19

and you’ve only run TSH, and you want to get out of the gridlock, because it’s pretty much a gridlock conversation from a patient perspective, right? We actually have fuel  to go to healing rosie.com.

 

Misty Williams  23:31

And look in the show notes, we’ll put it down here, we actually have a coupon code where you can get a free, free T3 lab test run, you’ll pay the $8 Lab draw fee. But that’s it. 

 

Misty Williams  23:42

But you can go get your free T3, run and see for yourself where that free T3 is. And if the three T3, maybe you want to share optimal ranges here enough, but if the free T3is low, 

 

Misty Williams  23:55

Sometimes you can take that into your doctor and say, Hey, I know you put my TSH but I just wouldn’t have my free T3 pulled and look at this number. 

 

Misty Williams  24:03

It’s low most, I don’t say most, a lot of doctors do know what the optimal ranges are, they just won’t run the lab, right to get you there. 

 

Misty Williams  24:12

And that can be a way that you can advocate for yourself a little bit more, but I want to make sure that everyone knows that you can get a free, free T3 lab test to be able to look into this for yourself.

 

Inna Topiler  24:25

And that’s a great service for sure. And I think a lot of doctors really just look at lab ranges. I don’t think they look at optimal ranges. 

 

Inna Topiler  24:34

So I mean, some may know if they’re more functional, but I think from a conventional perspective, the lab range for T3 is about 2.3 to 4.2. 

 

Inna Topiler  24:41

So unless you’re below 2.3 And it’s not actually written as a big L  for low and like in red or in blue. Sometimes they flag it, they’re not even going to really,

 

Misty Williams  24:55

So you could hear below 2.3 You’ll get a clinical hypothyroid and diagnosis, but then you’ll know for yourself if you’re below three or 3.2, it kind of depends on the reference range and stuff. 

 

Misty Williams  25:06

But if you’re, you’re low, you can see for yourself, I need to find someone that can help me with this and my doctor.

 

Inna Topiler  25:12

Yeah. And thankfully, there are ways so, if you’re low on T3, yes, of course, there’s T3 medicine. But that’s not the only answer, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  25:21

There’s so many ways to naturally support T3. And I know that’s something that you do in your program. It’s something that I do in my program, and a lot of functional practitioners work on. 

 

Inna Topiler  25:32

If there’s liver support gut support, again, it has to be very specific and timed and sequenced in a way where it’s step by step. But there’s a lot you can do, and in some situations is very, very, very, very low. 

 

Inna Topiler  25:42

Sometimes medicine can be helpful, but typically, we usually try the natural approaches first. So if your doctors say, No, I’m not going to give you medicine, and we want to look at this, I don’t want you to feel stuck. Okay, that’s it. 

 

Inna Topiler  25:54

There’s all of these other things that you can look into and do.

 

Misty Williams  25:57

Yeah. All right. So you set a good foundation here, why don’t you talk to us about these thyroid types,

 

Inna Topiler  26:02

right, so we have the high TSH type, we have the low T3 type, there is another type, which I call the unavailable hormone type. 

 

Inna Topiler  26:10

And this is where we have both low free T4 and free T3. And that’s why it’s so important to look at everything if you can, 

 

Inna Topiler  26:18

and if you can get all the labs because if you’re looking at things randomly like this number, that number, it doesn’t always, you can always get the pattern. 

 

Inna Topiler  26:28

And so typically for the unavailable hormone types, this is kind of a tricky one. And we see this a lot for people who like sometimes it’s post IVF treatment, or someone who has been on birth control pills, or, even a lot of people who have fertility issues, 

 

Inna Topiler  26:43

There could be PCOS, people may be experiencing irregular, heavy periods. And there are other hormones that are connected to this type. 

 

Inna Topiler  26:51

And for this type, a doctor would hardly ever notice because TSH is normal, even total hormones may often be normal, but it’s the free T4 and three T3 that are low and taking thyroid medicine for this type is not going to help. 

 

Inna Topiler  27:04

Because you will, it’s not that you don’t have enough fiber, it’s there. It’s just literally unavailable to yourselves. So their approach for this would be, then again, different than the TSH type versus the T3 type. 

 

Inna Topiler  27:18

Now the other type that I see all the time. I’m very active on Instagram, we’ll be talking about this a lot. And I can’t tell you, if I had a penny for every time someone said to me, oh my gosh, that’s me. 

 

Inna Topiler  27:29

That’s me, I’m going through this now. And this is what I call the Hashimotos old normal type. And before we go through that, I just wanted to make sure we’re all on the same page about Hashimotos. 

 

Inna Topiler  27:39

So just in case you may not be familiar, Hashimotos is an autoimmune disease that affects the thyroid, so the immune system gets confused. 

 

Inna Topiler  27:47

And the immune system accidentally thinks your thyroid is something bad and foreign and it starts attacking it. And what’s really important about Hashimotos is that it’s the Hashimotos itself that attacks the thyroid, right, and your thyroid can become slow. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:03

So it’s important to support the thyroid. But by supporting the thyroid, you’re not necessarily doing anything for Hashimotos. Right, because it’s two different things. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:13

And so this type is so common, and I get so angry every time I hear this from people that their doctor said this, but so it’s called the Hashimotos Oh, normal type. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:23

So what this means is that they have thyroid antibodies. So the way that Hashimotos is diagnosed is if you have antibodies to either thyroid peroxidase or TPO or thyroglobulin antibodies. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:35

Now you can have antibodies to one or the other, or both. And it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t make your Hashimoto better or worse, if you have antibodies to one or the other. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:42

Both of them mean Hashimotos. So if you have antibodies, but all your labs are normal and really normal, right? Your TSH is in range or t 43. 

 

Inna Topiler  28:54

The free total of everything is okay, even with these optimal ranges. This is where doctors say you’re fine. You sometimes they don’t even tell people they have 

 

Inna Topiler  29:04

Hashimoto’s they’ll just say you have thyroid antibodies, and people have to then go research and connect it and figure out oh, wait, thyroid antibodies mean Hashimotos can’t tell you how often people will DM me on Instagram and say, can you just can I ask you a question? 

 

Inna Topiler  29:18

I have thyroid antibodies. My doctor says that I may not have Hashimotos. I’m like, No, it can’t diagnose you obviously over Instagram. 

 

Inna Topiler  29:26

But the definition is if you have thyroid antibodies, you are partially motor. That’s what it means. It’s very black and white. And I for some reason, 

 

Inna Topiler  29:32

I don’t know why. There’s practitioners that make this such a gray area because it’s not great. If you have antibodies, your question motos, the only gray could be that if the antibodies are there, but they’re at a very low level, that could be a little gray, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  29:45

Because typically for TPO, anything over 35 is considered positive. So if someone is at like a 15 p&l, it could be a little great because they’re there but it’s not so much right. 

 

Inna Topiler  29:55

But if you’re over 35 And for most people that I connect with, their antibodies make their way through the roof, and they’re still unsure if they have Hashimotos. 

 

Inna Topiler  30:03

But yes, if you have antibodies, you have Hashimotos. And so the frustrating thing that they hear is you just have antibodies. There’s nothing we can do. Your labs are normal. 

 

Inna Topiler  30:15

So we wait. And we see, and this is what happened to me 20 years ago, we wait and we see, eventually, your Hashimotos or your immune system, right, will destroy your thyroid. 

 

Inna Topiler  30:27

And when that happens, then we’ll give you their medicine. But right now you don’t need medicine. Everything’s fine.

 

Inna Topiler  30:32

Isn’t it maddening. I’m Phil, my blood boil just listening to you say that, because I, I’ve heard it so much everyone hears it, we wait. And we see we wait. 

 

Misty Williams  30:40

And we see as your body just deteriorates, and things get so bad, because the standard of care basically, is once it gets bad enough, I can prescribe or we can do surgery. 

 

Misty Williams  30:50

And I heard that over and over in my journey too. And it’s just like, there’s not a focus on health or quality of life. There’s not a there’s not a sense in conventional medicine, of taking care of people to help them maintain their health. 

 

Misty Williams  31:02

So if you have heard this from your doctor, I think you should be hearing alarm bells in your mind that you need to find someone who’s going to support you and take care of your health because it’s really scary. 

 

Misty Williams  31:13

When I think about what would have happened to me if I wouldn’t have had. I’m feisty. I was triggered right away when my doctor started telling me, we don’t know what causes it, you can Google it, we’ll watch it. 

 

Misty Williams  31:24

We can do surgery. If it comes back. I knew I had to figure out something else. But for a lot of people when they hear that they take it as gospel like okay, 

 

Misty Williams  31:31

Well, I guess I just have to wait and see what happens. Right. And there’s so many stories of women, even famous women, we hear  about Gilda Radner, and she was a Saturday Night Live comedian who was having all these issues in her body. 

 

Misty Williams  31:46

And she went to tons of specialists, they put her on antidepressants. Eventually she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer stage four, but she was searching for answers for probably two or three years before she found out that she had ovarian cancer and ended up killing her right. 

 

Misty Williams  32:02

So this whole wait and see thing you already got me started, I just need to stop because, you have permission to ask questions and to find another doctor if they’re telling you to wait and see.

 

Inna Topiler  32:17

Yeah, well, and I think that when it comes to thyroid, specifically and Hashimotos, the reason why they say wait and see I mean, obviously, 

 

Inna Topiler  32:25

they’re not purposely trying to make you feel bad, right or be sick. But from a conventional perspective, they just don’t know, right? Because if you think about it in a very black and white sense, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  32:39

When your thyroid is functioning well, right? They’re not you don’t need medicine necessarily, right? They’re not going to give you medicine, but there is not this understanding that the immune system is destroying the thyroid, and that we actually have something we can do to support the immune system, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  32:56

Because whenever I think conventionally people think about any autoimmunity right? Be a Hashimotos, arthritis or MS or anything like that. We always think about the organ being attacked, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  33:05

The thyroid or the joints of the brain. And so we always think, Okay, what medicine can we use for those organs when they’re attacked, that we can like heal them or help them or speed them up or whatnot. 

 

Inna Topiler  33:14

But in more of a functional approach, right, we’re always thinking, what’s the root? Where’s it coming from? Right? It’s the immune system that got confused and is attacking the thyroid. 

 

Inna Topiler  33:22

So let’s teach the immune system Hey, immune system, like that is good, like, subtle data. Like Fred so much. And we do that from a functional perspective, where we look at immune triggers. 

 

Inna Topiler  33:35

And immune triggers are things like stressors and the foods that we eat, and the infections we may have, and the toxins that we may have,  that we may accumulate, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  33:45

So that’s where, like, the metals and all the mercury can come in, and all the different viruses, there’s so many things, but again, from a conventional perspective, they just don’t look at it that way. 

 

Inna Topiler  33:53

They don’t know. So they’re not purposely trying to make you sick, they just literally don’t know what to do about the immune system. Thankfully, though, there’s so much we can do.

 

Misty Williams  34:02

Yeah, they don’t, they don’t take, they’re not taking responsibility for that they don’t make it their responsibility to understand things that are outside of maybe the scope of care, training, and mixed feelings about it.

 

Misty Williams  34:13

I empathize and think I mean, I get it, I get that’s how they were trained and from the lens of their practice and what they were trained to do following instructions, right. 

 

Misty Williams  34:23

But as someone who makes the commitment to do no harm and is committed to this field of medicine, it also infuriates me because of course, as a doctor and someone who’s seeing patients all the time, isn’t there a part of you? 

 

Misty Williams  34:36

That’s like, this does not make sense. I’m telling my patients to wait and over time I’m watching my patients get really bad diseases and die and in the course of their care with me, 

 

Misty Williams  34:46

I did nothing to support them and prevent what ultimately happened. I am not one to blame, but I am I am fierce on take responsibility and if if person has not made it, their mission in life to understand how to help you heal, 

 

Misty Williams  35:04

You need to find someone who has made it their mission. Right?

 

Inna Topiler  35:08

Exactly.  I have a lot of colleagues who are more conventional, that have become more integrative. And like when that happens, they literally like, I hear this much they say, I literally was thinking that I like, of what am I going to do? 

 

Inna Topiler  35:24

How, like, I can’t help anyone. And when they learn more than a functional approach, like, oh, my gosh, for the first time in 25 years of practice, or theories or practice, I feel like I can actually help someone, which is like, such an amazing feeling.

 

Inna Topiler  35:36

Absolutely. So I think a lot of doctors are kind of going out this way. And so there’s more and more people that are doing this work, which is great, because there’s so many people that need it.

 

Misty Williams  35:49

Yeah. So talk to us a little bit about what we do if we have the antibodies, because as you said, if you’re taking thyroid hormone to support the hypo thyroid states, right, it’s not doing anything for the Hashimotos. 

 

Misty Williams  36:04

How does someone go about managing or even eradicating? I know, people who’ve completely healed from their horseshoes? How do we do that?

 

Inna Topiler  36:12

So with Hashimotos being an autoimmune disease, right, there’s no kind of cure, but you can bring it into remission. And you can bring your antibodies down, and you can bring it to remission where the thyroid is not attacked nearly as much right? 

 

Inna Topiler  36:26

Sometimes we can’t completely stop the attack, but we can slow it down significantly, which in my book is a win, for sure, literally. So the big thing is that we look at the things that trigger the immune system, right, because it’s the immune system that got confused. 

 

Inna Topiler  36:41

So it’s not about the thyroid as much as it is getting the immune system to calm down. So there’s four kinds of categories where we can have triggers. The first is stress. The second is food. 

 

Inna Topiler  36:53

The third is infections. And the fourth is toxins. And then of course, within those categories, there’s a lot of different things that go into that. So for example, with stress, stress is something that is both physical and emotional. 

 

Inna Topiler  38:31

So talk a little bit about what it looks like to reintroduce kisses. This is very common. So there’s a couple schools of thought on how to manage food sensitivities. 

 

Misty Williams  39:51

Amongst our colleagues, I’ve had this conversation with lots of our colleagues in the space. Food sensitivity testing by some is recommended as one of the first things you do whenever you’re working with a new patient, and you’re really trying to get them optimized. 

 

Misty Williams  41:17

There’s some people that recommend you must do food sensitivity testing right away. And then there’s other people that say, actually, no, don’t do food sensitivity testing right away, do an elimination diet, maybe you will go full AIP for six or eight weeks, 

 

Misty Williams  41:30

And then you start reintroducing foods one by one to see how your body is going to respond to it and manage it that way and do food sensitivity testing if even after doing an elimination diet you haven’t eradicated the issue. 

 

Misty Williams  41:44

So I’d love for you just to add some color to this conversation and share with what’s worked in your practice. Because you’ve been working with people on this for almost two decades.

 

Inna Topiler  41:53

Yeah, yeah. So I’ve actually done it a few different ways. Because as with anything else, that’s what they call it practice, right? You try different things. 

 

Inna Topiler  42:02

When I first started practicing, almost 20 years ago, I was running food sensitivity testing pretty early on. But what I realized was that when people’s guts are a mess, which a lot of times they are, and we may have all types of dysbiosis, from Candida to parasites to H. Pylori, to other infections, and there’s gonna be more leaky gut, 

 

Inna Topiler  42:22

I was getting people reactive to everything. And, again, not to say that  wasn’t true. I mean, it was for the time, but sometimes it’s just very hard to avoid everything. 

 

Inna Topiler  42:32

And when there’s leaky gut, and everything is reacting, it just the test almost feels overwhelming, like, how are we even going to manage this. Plus, these tests aren’t cheap. 

 

Inna Topiler  42:42

And I tend to, I needed to run it, again, to see how things were improving, and it’s just a lot of money that people would have to spend. 

 

Inna Topiler  42:50

So now what I do, and I have been doing this for a while now is, after taking a really, really detailed health history, because you could kind of tell based on that, like what the issues could be, how many antibiotics they’ve been on what other symptoms they have, typically, we do an elimination, like you mentioned. 

 

Inna Topiler  43:08

And while we do that, we do stool testing. And then for my virtual step by step program we’re doing different questionnaires to figure out what type of dysbiosis that you had. 

 

Inna Topiler  43:19

And the benefit there is that we’re not spending a lot of money on tests initially. But we’re doing an elimination diet, or just a cleaner diet sometimes. And this is also based on what the person needs, but it could be either a low lectin diet or AIP, or, more towards like a paleo. 

 

Inna Topiler  43:35

And because sometimes people also know,  eggs really don’t work well with me, and that people say, I think that okay, so we include those, but we definitely eliminate gluten, dairy, corn, soy, sugar, and a lot of processed foods. 

 

Inna Topiler  43:47

And as we do that, they already start to feel better, just because there’s less toxins going in. And then we typically support the gut. 

 

Inna Topiler  43:54

Usually I’ll do a stool test and organic acid test, and I’ll take a look at what’s there. If there’s yeast are there, infections, if sometimes, 

 

Inna Topiler  44:02

If people don’t have a budget for testing,  we could do it through questionnaires, which I do in my virtual program as well, to see the level of dysbiosis they have, and then I pick and choose a protocol for them based on that. 

 

Inna Topiler  44:14

And then once we support the gut, and we usually do a little bit of liver support at that time, then we start to introduce some foods. And then typically, we’ll do food sensitivity testing. 

 

Inna Topiler  44:23

So basically, it’s the second option. I’m also of the opinion that we really don’t want to eliminate and reduce too much for too long, just because it is so important that we have a nice diverse microbiome and the way it’s not just about taking probiotics, 

 

Inna Topiler  44:41

I mean, yes, those help. And yes, we have a lot of things on the market that are super strong, and these really heavy duty probiotics, but it’s not the same as the natural bugs because you can never replace everything, right?

 

Inna Topiler  44:54

Like you can have 1000 billion organisms, you’re still not going to absorb The same way because you have so many more other bucks. So it’s about eating different types of foods. And it’s plant fibers, right. 

 

Inna Topiler  45:06

So, meat is great, but meat isn’t going to diversify your gut. It’s the fiber from all the different plants with soy, vegetables and beans. Those are the things that are going to help to diversify. 

 

Inna Topiler  45:18

So I really just want to make sure that we’re not on a very restricted diet for more than six months. And then we start to put things in sometimes. Maybe we’re not able to put grains in right or gluten, that’s okay. 

 

Inna Topiler  45:28

But then we see, okay, well, what vegetables can we put in? Even if you don’t like a certain vegetable, can we just do a tiny, tiny amount of it right, just to get like all these different plant fibers in there. We want as much of a diverse diet as we can.

 

Misty Williams  45:41

Yeah, one of the things that we talked about in healing Rosa university and in the community, around the food piece is if you have food sensitivities, and you’ve had to eliminate them from your diet for a long period of time, 

 

Misty Williams  45:56

I mean, there’s people that have for years not been able to eat bananas, or avocados or whatever, there is something else going on. It is not food sensitivities are not a long term strategy for maintaining your health. 

 

Misty Williams  46:08

It is a short term strategy for bridging things so that your body can heal, right. But if your body’s not healing, you need to get to sleuthing. Go deeper and figure out what is actually going on. At a deeper level, there’s likely some infections an

 

Misty Williams  46:23

d toxicity that has not been uncovered. And you need to uncover those so that you can actually get rid of them. Because you run the danger. 

 

Misty Williams  46:31

When you eliminate foods for long periods of time from your diet, you run the danger of permanently compromising your microbiome because all the good bugs die. Right. So this is an area where we have to be careful, and I don’t feel like people get adequately informed around eliminating foods from their diet. 

 

Misty Williams  46:48

This is a really important conversation that we’re having right here. Because, long term elimination is not healthy. 

 

Misty Williams  46:55

Another piece to this that I find myself talking about a lot because it was profound for me as a patient, hearing it is the importance of running the right food sensitivity tests. 

 

Misty Williams  47:06

I was interviewing Dr. Peter Osborne, for the radical healing masterclass that we did a few months ago. And one of the things that he said that I’ve actually heard several other practitioners in our space say is that you need to make sure that you’re doing lymphocyte testing for food sensitivity testing. 

 

Misty Williams  47:21

And that is the testing to see what you’re actually creating the white blood cell response to in the body instead of the other tests through sensitivity tests that are IgG or IgM. 

 

Misty Williams  47:33

They’re not they’re not fully testing to see what your body’s actually mounting a response to people can often in food sensitivity tests come back with just like you said, everything is causing an allergic reaction for me, right? 

 

Misty Williams  47:46

So you want to make sure you’re doing the right test. And the test that you want to do is the Eliza, food sensitivity testing. They’re the ones that did lymphocyte testing, and can be really helpful to see what you actually alerted us to. We actually have someone in the healing Rosie University accelerator who’s struggling with this food sensitivity thing long term. 

 

Misty Williams  48:05

One of the reasons that she wanted to do the deeper program is because she knows that there’s something else going on that hasn’t been uncovered, but she’s never done lymphocyte testing. 

 

Misty Williams  48:13

So we’re going to run that for her. And just to see what she’s actually allergic to, like, what is the body actually mounting a response to because it’s likely that a lot of us have done these food sensitivity tests, and we think we’re allergic to a lot of things that actually our body isn’t mounting a mounting a response to, from an immune perspective. So

 

Inna Topiler  48:32

yeah, and there’s so many out there and, I’ve had certain labs I won’t mention names, but I’ve sent the same sample with two different names and gotten two different results.

 

Inna Topiler  48:43

Yeah, it happens all the time. I hear about it all the time from lots of people in our space and it makes food sensitivities in  this area where it’s like well, do you even trust the tests? Right? 

 

Inna Topiler  48:53

I think that’s why a lot of people have gone to the lymphocyte testing because otherwise it’s really challenging to to know if what you’re recommending the patient does is actually helpful to them and it could be harmful because they’re not eating as diverse of a diet and maybe it’s not they’re really not getting any benefit from that so yeah,

 

Inna Topiler  49:11

It’s tricky. It is tricky to that’s why you have to know your labs Well Who do you use if you don’t mind sharing for your test site testing it’s the Eliza test Eliza act

 

Inna Topiler  49:20

I think it is right but what  lab has their panels? They have a ton of different food sensitivity panels licensed by the lab.

 

Inna Topiler  49:30

Oh, okay. Just because there’s a lot of Eliza tests out there.

 

Misty Williams  49:33

So your lab here you say has Yeah, that’s the lab and they have several food sensitivity panels. It depends on how deep you want to go. 

 

Misty Williams  49:41

How much do you want to test right? You know, food sensitivity tests can get really expensive. You can push $1,000 If you want to be if you

 

Inna Topiler  49:48

I want to test everything under the sun. Yeah, some of the Cyrax panels and the Vibram panels are definitely up there. Yeah,

 

Inna Topiler  49:55

yeah, it’s crazy. All right. Well, let’s keep going here with this conversation. We’ve been Talking about autoimmune issues and how you treat them. 

 

Inna Topiler  50:04

And we talked about blood work, I’m curious for you to talk a little bit more about your program, discover your thyroid type FLEGT. Is there like a quiz or something to help people figure out what their type is? And then how are you helping people break this down?

 

Inna Topiler  50:21

Sure. Well, so the free training that I have, it’s an hour training, where we get into really understanding how, like what a thyroid type is, which, we already got into a little bit here. 

 

Inna Topiler  50:33

And then I walk people through when they have their labs, what to look for, to figure out their thyroid type. And then we talk in there more, I also teach people more about the two fold approach for Hashimotos. 

 

Inna Topiler  50:45

And really how we can look at this from a very whole body perspective. And then for some people to eat, especially if they have a doctor who is willing to work with them, and it’s open, which is wonderful, right? 

 

Inna Topiler  51:00

They can then take that to their doctor, and their doctor will help to dye them. And  the training is there to basically give them as much information as I can. 

 

Inna Topiler  51:08

And then for others, that may not have a doctor or the doctor is just really not willing to work with them. But they know that there’s something there. 

 

Inna Topiler  51:15

And they want to really just take this and take this to the next level and expedite their results. So they’re not spending months and months and months and 1000s of dollars and spinning their wheels and trying to figure it out. 

 

Inna Topiler  51:27

Then I also have a step by step program where it’s customized to them and their thyroid type. And I take them through step by step exactly what to do to support their thyroid type. 

 

Inna Topiler  51:39

And if they also have Hashimotos, to support Hashimotos with this two fold approach.

 

Inna Topiler  51:43

Yeah, it’s exciting to see that there’s resources like this available now for women who are struggling because I remember what it was like a decade ago. Yeah, there was nothing. 

 

Inna Topiler  51:53

Whenever I found the natural health, Paleo ancestral health space, there were a lot of them, I learned a ton, it was very helpful. I was very empowered by it. I learned a lot about circadian biology. 

 

Inna Topiler  52:03

That’s when I started dialing in my sleep, and was in the amber glasses and all the things that I still do to this day, but when it comes to women and their issues, women’s hormones, this was not a conversation anyone was having. 

 

Inna Topiler  52:15

Our leaders were people who are awesome friends. I love their work. It was people like Mark Sisson and Ben Greenfield, Dave Asprey and Rob Wolf. 

 

Inna Topiler  52:23

And if not guys, I remember asking them, at events and different things that I was participating in, at that time about, you’re doing this, dieting, you’re getting ripped abs, and, you’re getting these amazing results. 

 

Inna Topiler  52:41

I’m trying it, and there’s a lot of my colleagues in the space that are trying these strategies, and we’re not getting the same results. 

 

Inna Topiler  52:46

And it was like, Yeah, women are harder. And that was kind of the end of the conversation. Right? Right. Women are harder. Anyway, 

 

Inna Topiler  52:55

Next question. I remember feeling so frustrated, it was a big reason why I wanted to start healing Rosie was because like this, this conversation is not going away. 70% of the people in this larger community are women. 

 

Inna Topiler  53:10

And we need to be having conversations about our hormones, and how those are affecting our bodies. And about these different diet types. we’re doing keto diets, and intermittent fasting and all of this stuff. 

 

Inna Topiler  53:22

And it’s not one size fits all. For women, our bodies are very rare little little snowflakes, every single one of us and it’s important that we’re understanding how to look at our labs, 

 

Inna Topiler  53:33

what kind of care health care that we need, what kind of practitioners we need, on our side, what kind of lifestyle to develop, 

 

Inna Topiler  53:41

It’s important that we understand how to uncover these toxic stressors, because it’s why everyone ultimately gets stuck. Because there is some kind of toxic stress where they haven’t uncovered they’ve, they’ve not done enough work on their trauma. So

 

Inna Topiler  53:54

the other thing, we then kind of touched on that, but that’s a whole other thing when it comes to stress, right? It’s our thoughts, our beliefs are traumas because all of that is going to reside physically in our body. 

 

Inna Topiler  54:05

Yeah, I remember being a kid and feeling like there were certain things that I couldn’t say. Right? It wasn’t safe in our family to say certain things or speak up about things and that conditioning. 

 

Misty Williams  54:40

I definitely took it with me into adulthood. Right. And especially in my 20s, I was very challenged around speaking my truth and saying what I needed to say. And fortunately, I’m way past that I’m sure there are people that wish I would go back. 

 

Misty Williams  55:34

Yeah, I mean, there’s so much conditioning. And this is why childhood trauma is very relevant, we think, but it happened so long ago, but it conditioned you to interact with the world in a certain way, right? 

 

Misty Williams  55:46

It still lives inside your nervous system. And we have to address that and find ways to break free, to create new neural pathways and new patterns in our life that are more life giving, and supportive. Right. 

 

Misty Williams  56:01

So yeah, all of these are really important, really, really important. Yeah, well, we are gonna have links in the show notes to all the great resources for me now you can find her Instagram, and her website. 

 

Misty Williams  56:12

We will have a link to this, this webinar, discover your thyroid type, so that you guys can go learn a little bit more from her. 

 

Misty Williams  56:20

Her work is amazing. And I really love how committed she has been to helping people with this thyroid issue. 

 

Misty Williams  56:25

And not only the thyroid issue,  she’s really well versed in. Alright, we see problems here, let’s start looking for this, the toxic stressors that are contributing to this. 

 

Misty Williams  56:33

And it’s really an important part of being able to create healing and set the conditions for healing to happen in the body, not hyper focusing just on one piece of this puzzle. 

 

Misty Williams  56:43

So thank you so much enough for chatting with us today and sharing all of your awesome wisdom. This has been fantastic. Of course.

 

Inna Topiler  56:49

Well, thank you so much for having me. And, really back right back at you with all the work that you’re doing, and this podcast and your Facebook group and all of the education that you have, 

 

Inna Topiler  56:59

And what an advocate, you are not just for yourself, but for 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of women that really need your support. So thank you for all the work that you do. Yeah,

 

Misty Williams  57:09

well, it’s an honor for both of us I know to hold this space and make this contribution. So thanks, everyone for tuning in. We’ll see you very soon.

 

Inna Topiler  57:17

Bye for now. That’s it for this week’s episode. Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby foggy and fatigued and to reclaim your life. 

 

Inna Topiler  57:26

If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. 

 

Inna Topiler  57:36

They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

Human Design 101: Understanding how you are wired to heal and live authentically

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Human Design 101: Understanding how you are wired to heal and live authentically

Have you ever felt like life was an uphill battle … or felt exhausted from swimming upstream?

In 2018, I had a life-changing conversation with Human Design Expert and Astrologer Barbara Ditlow… She helped me understand how my energetic imprint was designed to work with flow and ease

She decoded so many aspects of my experience so I could ra-align with the energy of those around me to get the support I needed to lead more effectively and end the cycles of burnout that I’d been experiencing the previous 7 years.

Understanding who you are so that you can live more peacefully, powerfully and authentically is life changing, and I want this for all my sisters!

When you aren’t in flow, when you live in fear and resistance every day, you create cycles of stress and burnout that break your body down and keep you from healing.

Barbara helped me find my flow, and I’m so excited to share some of her magic with you today!

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6:07 – The interesting event in 1987 that birthed Human Design

9:04 – 4 energy types that will help you understand why you have the urge to be someone or do something

10:55 – The unpredictable and usually misunderstood energy type

13:12 – The “problem child” energy type

16:47 – The energy type of people meant to be leaders

18:37 – The creator energy and how people with this energy type can transcend frustration

23:33 – Roles that these energy types play in a group, organization, or partnership

33:44 – How learning your human design can help you carve a new path for yourself, massively reduce stress, and break-free from feeling like you’re trapped in life

35:54 – Why alignment can improve your parasympathetic tone and healing

37:04 – A mobile app that will generate your Human Design chart for free

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Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healingrosie.com. And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. 

 

Misty Williams  00:10

New episodes drop every Tuesday, we created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister, it is possible. 

 

Misty Williams  00:20

I am tickled pink, to have my dear delicious, wonderful friend Barbara Ditlow. Joining me today to chat with you guys about human design. 

 

Misty Williams  00:30

I wanted to talk to Barbara because one of the focuses of our event has been talking about how we manage the external stressors in our life. 

 

Misty Williams  00:40

We’ve talked a lot about breathwork and meditation and gratitude journaling and these different practices that can really be helpful to us in re priming our parasympathetic nervous system. 

 

Misty Williams  00:53

A really, really important part of setting ourself up so that our bodies can actually heal. 

 

Misty Williams  00:58

A few years ago, I had been hearing about human design and decided that I was going to take the plunge at this stage of my life. 

 

Misty Williams  01:07

2018 I believe, it was when Barbara and I did our first reading, if I remember correctly, it was Valentine’s Day, February 14, Barbara, I did our first reading. 

 

Misty Williams  01:15

But I was going through a deep, deep transformation in my life. I had really gotten present to the ways in which as I’ve said in a couple of other interviews.

 

Misty Williams  01:23

I was not creating space for people to contribute to me in my life. It had been overwhelming to me. I didn’t even fully recognize that’s what was overwhelming me.

 

Misty Williams  01:37

I was experiencing these cycles of burnout where my motor would drive me along and I’d get a good second wind. And I take on a bunch of challenges and do great client work and then would experience burnout, which was really devastating. 

 

Misty Williams  01:52

It would felt like all this momentum was created, and I’m up and I’m going over the mountain and then something would cross my path that would just sit me rolling back down the mountain again. 

 

Misty Williams  02:03

And it was very demoralizing and overwhelming. I’ve shared a lot about the deep work that I had to do to create space for people to contribute to me. 

 

Misty Williams  02:13

To create space to show up differently. Two years before my first reading with Barbara. I deeply, deeply surrendered in a way that I never had before. 

 

Misty Williams  02:22

To the universe to God to whatever was meant to happen to me because everything in my striving that I had tried to do to come back from the latest round of burnout, just was not working. 

 

Misty Williams  02:38

I threw up my hands. And it was actually a really, really scary time. But I was coming out of this phase. I was moving energetically into a new space. 

 

Misty Williams  02:47

I experienced in this time of my life that letting go and not trying to control everything actually allowed really good things to come into my life and this idea of flow. 

 

Misty Williams  03:01

How do you create more flow? How do you create more ease energetically, was really interesting to me. 

 

Misty Williams  03:07

And I was hungry for it because I had dealt with so much interruption of flow, burnout really, really sucks. And, of course, I’m also on this health journey. 

 

Misty Williams  03:17

I know that this kind of stress is just not good for my body. And for many years, the first eight years, six years of my journey, I just didn’t know how to be any different in the world, right? 

 

Misty Williams  03:31

I didn’t know how to be any different than I’d been. I had a lot of beliefs about how I needed to show up for things to go well. 

 

Misty Williams  03:39

Not realizing that actually the way that I was showing up was creating a lot of the conditions for burnout, right? So human design came to me at a perfect time. 

 

Misty Williams  03:52

I want Barbara to teach us what human design is. And I want her to teach us about the four main energetic types. My wish for you is to have some clarity on what your energetic type is. 

 

Misty Williams  04:06

There’s actually a website you can go to you can put in your birthday, your birth time and your birthplace and it’ll tell you what your human design is. 

 

Misty Williams  04:06

You’ll get this graph that won’t mean anything to you just like it doesn’t mean much to me, but someone well versed in human design can help read and interpret it for you. 

 

Misty Williams  04:20

But it will tell you how you’re energetically wired and this conversation I’m having with Barbara will be a great tool for you to refer back to and you can get some clarity and understanding on your basic core. 

 

Misty Williams  04:32

Deep inside here is how you’re wired. I would say to contribute to the world to be in the world with flow and ease. Have things unfold naturally versus feeling like you’re hitting up against resistance all the time.

 

Misty Williams  04:48

So I’m so thrilled that you’re here Barbara. I’m super excited for you to share with people. We just actually had Barbara come. 

 

Misty Williams  04:55

I had got a bunch of girlfriends together. And the last couple of years have been hardcore you all. It’s been really challenging for a lot of us confronting what’s happening in our world. 

 

Misty Williams  05:04

And for many people, for me, I look at what’s happening in the world. I question everything. I started questioning everything when they told me that my labs were normal after they cut me open, and I almost died. 

 

Misty Williams  05:17

So I quit believing the main storyline of what’s happening, and how things are. And I’m always going deeper and asking deeper and Barbara has been wonderful the last couple of years for me, very grounding. 

 

Misty Williams  05:30

So that’s what I’m expecting for our time together. This is going to be a grounding time. 

 

Misty Williams  05:36

This is going to be a time where we are able to logically and methodically consider that there is a way we can show up in the world, and be in creation and flow, where we don’t have resistance. 

 

Misty Williams  05:51

We don’t have to constantly be hitting up against stressful situations, all the time. We don’t have to be creating stressful situations, because we’ll understand ourselves better. So welcome, Barbara.

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:03

It’s great to be here. Misty,

 

Misty Williams  06:04

I’m so excited.

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:07

I loved what you said about how we can move with less resistance. And we can do it in a logical way. Because human design was a revelation. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:15

Now, it’s interesting, the revelation came in 1987. And for those people who were born before 1987. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:24

1987, was the year of the Harmonic Convergence, in the summer. What happened was, all these planets came together, creating an intensity of information. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:38

And right before that, there was a bigger cause supernova Sindhuli, which exploded over the southern hemisphere. And you could say, we went from 5g, 10G, in terms of the intensity of the information. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  06:53

Now there was a man called Ra Uru Hu, who received the information over seven days. So that’s kind of how it came is a revelatory process. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:03

And it came in a way that was so dense, and so complex, that it took 25 years for him to unpack using the verbiage its use now unpack all the information in a sequential logical way that people could integrate. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:20

Because it’s similar to the evolutionary biological development of a child, you don’t teach certain things to a child that fine, the brain is not developed. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:30

So human design is very similar. There’s a deconditioning process involved. Once you find out what your design is, then you go and see, oops!, I’m not living according to who I am. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:43

I’m living according to who I think I need to be. So the first thing, 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:48

it’s a process by which it’s a logical empirical method to understand how you’re designed, and it’s designed, it has two parts to it. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  07:58

One part is to help you go with the flow, to release resistance to making decisions to empower yourself rather than be pulled into the collective homogenized mess. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  08:11

The second part, visit specific process for awakening, in other words, beginning to see what your site is and how you view the world. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  08:20

So you’re not perceptual ly trapped in how the governments or the medical community or the educational community or the religious community says you have to see yourself in relationship to the world. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  08:33

So it really is a liberating, and a shattering experience. Because most of you know what Healing Rosie is about is really coming into your own personal empowerment. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  08:44

You’re living authentically, and getting your body healed. Usually imperfections in the body come from either birth through the genetic inheritance of mindsets, 

 

Barbara Ditlow  08:54

that parent’s belief systems of your ancestors, or being in an environment where you’re pushed into a little box, and you’re trying to get out. But you don’t know how. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:04

So human design has four types. So it means that all of us are in one of those categories. And each of these categories are not hierarchical in the sense of value, but they are hierarchical in terms of the way they function. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:21

So that’s very important to know. Because oftentimes, you have people who consider themselves not one type that they got the shaft. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:30

Why am I this? Do I need to be this? Well, the first thing to know is we’re in a culture, that’s a manifesting culture. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:37

Go out and do it Nike, just do it, make it happen. Go to the edge of the abyss, jump in if you’re, if you’re really true to yourself, everything will fall into place. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:47

Well, that’s interesting, but it’s all in mind. We’re talking about frequencies and auric frequencies. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:54

And I like what you said, learning how to understand how the sympathetic nervous system works. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  09:59

When you’re in fear, the frequency gets so off that you can’t be yourself, because you’re always trying to defend yourself. And the big fear generator is the mind.

 

Barbara Ditlow  10:10

So In human design, the mind is not the enemy, the mind is actually your continuity throughout eternity, you could say it’s your soul that keeps coming back and coming back. Human Design is a body of knowledge that says, We’re eternal. Life is not limited. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  10:32

We’re not having to become perfected in one lifetime. It’s an evolutionary process. But in this lifetime, in order for people to experience what I would call, self satisfaction, success, being at peace with themselves, enjoying life. There’s a pathway that they can take. That’s different from what they ever thought they could take. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  10:55

So of the four types, the first type is manifester. The second type is, let’s say manifesting generator and generator, they’re in the same type.The third type is the projector. Those are the problem kids’ 

 

Barbara Ditlow  11:10

I’m going to call anyone who’s a projector a problem child. And then we have the reflectors and the reflectors, they kind of just flow there, they’re very different. So I’m going to start with reflectors there.

 

Misty Williams  11:23

And they’re a small percentage of the population too, Right? as 1%.

 

Barbara Ditlow  11:28

But they’re more lunar, rather than solar. So they can be really misunderstood. Because being lunar, they literally need 28 days to make a decision, they really need that time. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  11:40

And when you’re around a reflector, you’re going to say they’re wonderful, but just like me, because reflectors actually reflect you back to you. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  11:48

So you can assume that they are who they are. But one thing you can find with a reflector, is they are very good in a group. Because if you’re leading a group or in a group. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  11:59

If you ever reflect your child, that reflector person will pretty much amplify the energies around them. And you can look at their face to see how’s the group interaction. They’re often considered the canary in the coal mine. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  12:15

But they’re also historically considered the shamans, they can usually sense when someone’s frequency the way they are, it’s ready to jump out of their skin and become someone else or jump out of the group. So they are very good at sensing that. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  12:32

But the one thing about a reflector, you have to be very careful who comes into their life. And they do not want to make quick decisions for friendship, because they can get in a corner, because they’re not to work a nine to five job. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  12:48

Usually they do. They’re not to be on anyone else’s time schedule, because they’re lunar, and they’re going to be unpredictable. But they’re quite beautiful. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  12:59

Sandra Bullock would be an example of a reflector. And everybody loves Sandra Bullock because there’s something about her energy that’s not fixed in one way, she can act in many different roles. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  13:12

The next type is the projector. Now the reason I say the projector is the problem child is because of projector is not designed to do. It’s not designed to go out there and have a business where they work nine to five and be in charge. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  13:27

They’re designed to direct the energy not to be the energy. And so it takes a while for projectors to know self empowerment. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  13:35

Because they have to be first, a person that recognizes how they are designed to function? Are they designed to be more physical? can be more psychological, but the most important thing for projector is to recognize who they are. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  13:50

And then understand that other people have to recognize them for that. So they have to be very discerning with their friends and other people. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  13:55

So they have to master the human landscape because they can be deeply affected by other people. And they can be deeply problematic, in the sense they’re busy bodies. They’re busy bodies, because they’re defined in a way to penetrate other people if they’re one on one. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  14:17

So all of a sudden, their aura, It’s an electromagnetic core that’s focused and absorbing. So it goes right into the heart of a person brings in information uninvited. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  14:29

They’ll say, “Well, I really think you should quit this job because it’s not for you, or this or that and what happens is they can become the queen or king of unsolicited advice. They’re rejected by people. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  14:41

People can feel uncomfortable with them around unless they know that they’re to hover. I call that hovering and they’re the lighthouse. They’re above the group. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  14:51

They’re only allowed in the group, if they can wait to be invited to share their insights. And usually, they have to be very self aware to know if their insights are going to be impactful or problematic. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  15:04

So projectors really need to do a lot of work on themselves, and to understand how they make decisions, because they can be very bitter and very cynical, and very, just not fun to be around. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  15:17

Because of their intensity. And their need to tell you how you need to have a better life. It’s natural for them. So when in the right environment they can do very well.

 

Misty Williams  15:26

Projectors that I know are brilliant contributors to the groups that they’re in. You’re a projector, right? My friend Joey Dawn is a projector. 

 

Misty Williams  15:32

I think of projectors, as the natural coaches and the natural little sages in the group. When the stuffs going down, you want to get quiet and you want to ask a projector for their insight and perspective. 

 

Misty Williams  15:53

They’re gonna help you see things that you wouldn’t see otherwise, they’re awesome. But I can also see what you’re saying when they haven’t mastered what they’re channeling. 

 

Misty Williams  16:04

That gift, that divine thing inside of them, and they give it at the wrong time or to the wrong people. You can create a lot of issues for them that you start making up stories about.

 

Barbara Ditlow  16:14

Yeah, and the timing is so important because projectors have a fluctuation in their energy. So they could be a contributor to the group, but they could be exhausted. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  16:23

And if they’re not attuned to their energy, they’re not going to perform, they’re not going to contribute in the way that they normally would. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  16:31

So projectors and reflectors have to guard their energy really carefully, because they don’t have the lifeforce or the sacred energy that can allow them to keep going and going and going until they drop. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  16:44

So it’d be very selective of their tribe. Whereas we get to the next category, I’m going to go right to the manifesters. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  16:51

The manifest are the ones that are envied, because they have a closed aura from everybody. And they’re designed to initiate and inform people. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:00

This is what I’m going to do: stand aside, I’m coming through. Manifesters have this ability to get things done, initiate and make things happen. Very powerful, powerful aura. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:15

But it can be very detrimental to other people, they don’t know that their aura literally acts like a plow, it pushes people away. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:23

So it’s always pushing people away, because they’re not to be influenced by other people. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:29

They’re designed to be influenced by planetary transits and the star field beyond our solar system and the constellations within our solar system. So they’re very independent. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:42

They do not want to hear advice from other people, unless it’s a time for them to hear it. So they’re independent and they’re great at starting businesses. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  17:51

They are designed specifically to initiate and lead, they’re going through transition now, but a manifester has a closed repelling aura, whereas the projector had an open or that needed to penetrate and focus. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  18:05

So oftentimes, when we begin to put the four types together. You can see a dilemma with a projector around the manifester’s closed aura. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  18:14

Projector wants to penetrate a closed aura, not going to work unless the projectors are invited; 70% of the population falls into the generator. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  18:25

Now the generators are beautiful in the way their aura works, because their aura is not open, not only open, and not only enveloping, but it has a pooling quality to it. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  18:37

So any generator, whether they’re a manifesting generator, or regular generator; has to be aware that they don’t have to reach and grab. If they move into fear, they’re going to reach and grab. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  18:50

Once they understand how their gut response and their emotionality works. It sets up the ability to receive a frequency which is perfect for them for the perfect alignment and the timing. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:02

So a generator needs the alignment and the timing, to really bring their satisfaction into reality. Otherwise, the frustration is going to be a real problem. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:14

So generators can get frustrated, but it doesn’t mean they’re going to transcend frustration. Frustration is always a signpost, that you have a choice. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:23

If with frustration, you’re going to quit, like “oh my God! Why did I do this? I’m ready to quit.” It means that someone pushed you into that you felt obligated, you created a narrative that you had to have this job. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:35

You needed to be in this relationship and you’re deluding yourself. Usually what happens is you’re going to quit. And then if you’re not aware of your design, you develop a litany of failures. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:46

“Oha!, I tried this, I quit. I tried this, I quit.” It’s because you’re not attuning yourself to what you really do naturally. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  19:53

Eventually, the frustration becomes so painful that you bump into human design. You say okay, this frustration now that I know what I need to do. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:03

It becomes a turbo charge, which allows you to get to the point of frustration, but you say, I’m going for self mastery. So you break through that level. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:12

So it’s like an ascendancy of mastery steps, always protecting yourself rather than quitting, quitting, quitting. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:20

So the deconditioning from the generator is, I have to love what I’m doing. And I have to allow myself the trial and error and the uncertainty of taking the risk of finding what I really love. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:34

And not saying, “Okay!, I’m going to carry the burdens of other people to please them, I’m going to do a job that I hate, because I’m stupid, and I can’t do anything else.” 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:43

That can be a litany of reasons that generators have that because we’ve all been conditioned in fear that we can’t be what we want to be. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  20:52

And then when we say you can be whatever you want to be, well, that’s not necessarily so because there’s a resistance field there. And human design is about transcending the resistance field, by living your life as you are. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  21:05

It’s not going to be what you think it’s going to be. It’s not going to be that it’s very strange, because the generators have such beauty, because they have the energy to actually change the way the world is. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  21:18

It’s the only type. Let’s say the projectors are the only type that really can be superb cultures, guides, healers, that’s projectors. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  21:27

But in terms of putting out the frequency that can truly change the electromagnetic quality of the matrix, that’s generators. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  21:29

Because once generators love what they do, and they pull away from things that they hate, that they’re doing, the world really functions well, and allows them to come into purposeful living and being deeply satisfied with their life. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  21:51

Now, it’s interesting, the signatures for all four types have a signature. And for the generator, it’s not success, because they’ll naturally be successful because it’s got the energy to do work. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:03

As long as they follow what they love. The almost signature success is the projector, because they don’t know who they are. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:12

They gotta find themselves in a relationship with other people, they need other people. Now the manifester, it’s not a success, either. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:20

For the manifester, it’s peace, because usually they’re angry, they’re pissed off, you’re not doing what I want you to do. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:27

And people pull away from them because they make all these stories about this closed repelling aura. And so the manifestor can be more at peace, and not so angry. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:38

With reflectors, it’s more or less, “oh! I’m surprised there’s something new and different here” and then they can feel not so disappointed with Shibo. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:47

And the way things are going, they can find more people that they can be delighted with. So each person, each type, knowing your type, you’re not chasing after success in the way maybe you thought you had to. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  22:59

It’s already imbued in generators. It’s imbued with all of us. But we need certain touchstones to know that we fulfill that purpose. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:08

And the way that I would say generators, because they’re 70% of the population. They’re the ones that really have the work to do. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:17

They’re the ones that can really change the planetary energy. Projectors will guide it, reflectors will evaluate it, and manifest us kind of go out.

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:28

And lead the way that breaks through the resistance, the part the Red Sea, so everybody can come. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:33

So your type, the hierarchy is not in terms of value, or what’s more important, but the way the hierarchy would work in a business. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:43

The manifester initiates, starts it, gets it out there, the generator and the manifesting generator work, pull it together. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  23:43

The projector guides it accounts for it sort of manages the people as the HR department. And the reflector kind of moves around and evaluates this work. It’s not working to change this. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  24:04

Now, I just want to say the difference between the manifesting generator and the generator. Manifesting generators, I would say, are the most powerful based on their design. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  24:15

Why? Because once they respond, they can initiate, they can really powerfully change things. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  24:24

So they have a real gift in being an entrepreneur, being able to go out there and strike on their own and initiate action and have the stamina to follow through. So that’s the manifesting generator. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  24:38

The generators usually like to work in a group or team up with someone who gives them that manifesting energy and relationships and then human design also goes into relationships, triggers from other people. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  24:52

How certain types relate with other people, but it starts fundamentally with knowing your design and your type. And so it really gives you A roadmap, a blueprint in how the genetic code. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  25:04

And ultimately the chemistry works within you, to bring you what you’re actually looking for. But never thought you get a manual to follow to find that.

 

Misty Williams  25:13

Yeah, one of the things that I love, first of all the idea of frequencies, I’m sure, if you’ve been in the health space for any length of time that our bodies are electrical. 

 

Misty Williams  25:24

I think Dr. Christine Schaffner did an event once called the Body Electric, we are electrical beings. We are beings that live in a pool of frequency, we can energetically feel frequency at times. 

 

Misty Williams  25:43

We feel attracted to certain things. We feel repelled by certain things so the idea that you can understand this energy better, and align with the energy and even create intentions for the energy is really powerful. 

 

Misty Williams  26:00

One of the things that was deeply transformative to me, so my manifesting generator, one of the things that was deeply transformative to me was this awareness around. 

 

Misty Williams  26:13

The best manifestation, for me, is responding to things coming my way. I am an achiever and performer by nature, right. 

 

Misty Williams  26:25

I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was 26 years old, I’ve had a belief in my own leadership, my whole life at five and six, and seven years old, my mom was counting on me at home, with my family. 

 

Misty Williams  26:38

And I’ve told some of those stories throughout this event here, but really getting present to my energy working best when I let things come to me. 

 

Misty Williams  26:52

Versus when I go out there and do a lot of initiating has saved so much of my energy, it has allowed me to take a little more time. 

 

Misty Williams  27:06

When I need to take a little more time to let things come to me that can then manifest easier. That’s where the ease really comes into. 

 

Misty Williams  27:16

As I know that I need to let things come to me, I need to not get ahead of the energy that I’m feeling in a situation. 

 

Misty Williams  27:24

I need to kind of make sure I’m just a step or two behind it at all times. And I have enjoyed so much more flow. It’s been liberating for me. 

 

Misty Williams  27:37

And in our community. I’ve been a little Barbara Evangelist. My friends Trey and Grace are Barbera evangelists, too. 

 

Misty Williams  27:46

I think between the two of us started with Michelle Norris, between the three of us we’ve probably blanketed Austin and sent Barbara 100 plus people to help support and guide and it’s been really revolutionary. 

 

Misty Williams  28:03

Barbara also does a lot with astrology too. So she can kind of overlay Human Design wiring with where we are in transits and what’s happening energetically in the world. 

 

Misty Williams  28:16

From a young age. I remember being in church and hearing how we live in an ordered universe and hearing about the divine orchestration, even of creation, on the first day, let there be light. 

 

Misty Williams  28:35

Over seven days, and just all of this, there’s been pieces of this understanding in my life for a long time that human design has really crystallized and just helped me to flow with it better. And I feel super grateful for that. 

 

Misty Williams  28:55

In fact, when I’m going through a period in my life, where I’m feeling a lot of chaos, where I feel the ground underneath me, isn’t stable. Is there an earthquake happening right now? 

 

Misty Williams  29:09

I find it really helpful to reach out to Barbara and get some support to help me understand what’s happening. 

 

Misty Williams  29:15

Okay, help me get centered again. Bring me back to this present moment. I’m supposed to respond. 

 

Misty Williams  29:22

Remind me who I am. Remind me how I need to be with this energy. Right. So I would love for you, Barbara, just to talk about how you see your clients and the people that you work with as they’re trying to understand their own energy. 

 

Misty Williams  29:40

How do you see this working for other people too?

 

Barbara Ditlow  29:43

First of all, it started with myself. I saw how it radically changed my life. And I was going to say a hot mess. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  29:52

Because I was going in so many different directions as a projector. I was very confused. I was actually becoming a manifester. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  29:59

And in my design, I can see that would be the tendency. And so when I met Ra, I was kind of irreverent and thought this couldn’t be it, who is he?

 

Barbara Ditlow  30:11

He always drops the F bomb and he sacrilegious. All these moral kinds of judgments. But then I noticed that my life started to change because I actually said, Let me experiment with this. Let me see if it works. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  30:27

Then I began to look back on my life, and the situations that work the best were situations where I was invited into something where I went and initiated, “oh! my God, it’s part of my wisdom.” 

 

Barbara Ditlow  30:41

It’s sort of the entrapment that I found myself in. But because I’m a baby boomer, we didn’t have any information. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  30:49

So when I’ve worked with people, I would say, because of my best experience, marriages, divorce businesses, corporate businesses, my own business. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:03

I kind of am part of my incarnation cross in human design as a projector, I see a chart and it fills me up. It’s as though I’m that person. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:12

And I can go right in and see their dilemma. So when I’m looking at a chart, I’m saying you’re this, but here’s the problem. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:19

You’re this, but you think you’re that, Oh, you want to do this? I don’t think it’s a good idea. Is that your mother’s voice, your father’s voice? 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:27

Why are you in this job, this is where you shine, you’re under the umbrella of someone else. It’s convenient, you’re probably conditioned, you’re comfortable with it. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:36

But human design is not allowing you to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. It’s really looking at why you’re uncomfortable. And saying, let’s align you with your flow. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  31:48

And let’s see how you really enjoy it. And know that it’s going to be a bumpy ride to change because you may lose some of your friends, you may have to leave your job, you may have to totally change your life, but it becomes your life. Nobody else’s life. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  32:03

So I’ve worked with 1000s of people, and I love how it changes them. Because when I wasn’t, when I did specifically astrology, it’s based on one birthdate, human design based on two birthdays. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  32:18

88 days before birth. So let’s say you’re a cancer, then you would be an Aries, you’re a Leo. And unconsciously, you’re a Taurus. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  32:28

So when people understand their unconscious motivations and who they are, it’s more of a holographic reading for them, rather than what the stars say. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  32:37

You will say go on your feet, you’re reading their futures and astrologer, which can be very helpful to reduce the fear. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  32:45

But the Wheel of Karma is what we call the astrological wheel, and human design is to transcend the illusion, the Maya, get off the Wheel of Karma, and know how to navigate through without the suffering without the pain. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  33:03

And so I have found it’s radically changed people’s lives. And I’ll give you an example. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  33:08

My son, who I got into this about 20 years ago, said it radically changed his life. And he was the one who got me to do it professionally. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  33:18

He said, Mom, this has changed my life so much. And he said, I’ve noticed you’re radically different too and now he’s using it with his grant, with his daughter, who’s two and a half. And he said the other day. “Thank God! you told me how my granddaughter, how his daughter is imprinted? 

 

Barbara Ditlow  33:33

Because he said she has certain characteristics that drive him crazy. But he knows her pattern so we can let her be. Yeah, it’s not something to worry about that he has to correct.

 

Misty Williams  33:44

Right? Have to fix it. I remember when my friend Trey did his first reading with you. And he called me after he said Misty. 

 

Misty Williams  33:56

I have permission. Permission to lean into a part of him that he deeply wanted to actualize. But was constantly making himself wrong, right?. 

 

Misty Williams  34:10

I have permission. It’s permission. And I’ve seen him and Grace over the last three years, I think since their first reading, carved out a whole new path for themselves and they’re so happy together. 

 

Misty Williams  34:24

It doesn’t mean the journey is always easy. It just doesn’t mean there’s no more bumps in the road. 

 

Misty Williams  34:29

But certainly it means that there’s an ease and a confidence with which you can navigate. And this is such an important conversation. 

 

Misty Williams  34:38

I know that for a lot of us I look at my journey. A lot of the DIS ease I’ve experienced in my life is because of the friction of me trying to do and be what others expected of me. Me trying to mimic other people in the way they did it. 

 

Misty Williams  35:00

Hoping that somehow I would be able to create what they’ve created, right?. And, of course, a totally different person. It’s really, really powerful. 

 

Misty Williams  35:11

And it massively reduces your stress when you aren’t living a life that feels like it has you trapped. 

 

Misty Williams  35:21

And so many of my friends would say the same thing that they were living a life they were trapped in. 

 

Misty Williams  35:29

And over time, as they begin aligning with their design and doing things differently, as they lean into permission, suddenly, they don’t feel trapped, they feel more aligned and in tune with their purpose. 

 

Misty Williams  35:42

They let go of relationships and ways of being that aren’t serving them. And think of what that kind of alignment and joy and peace does for your body. 

 

Misty Williams  35:54

Think of how that kind of alignment can really improve your own parasympathetic tone, because you’re not living in that stress response all the time,

 

Misty Williams  36:05

 beating up against things that are just creating friction for you, 

 

Misty Williams  36:09

trying your best I mean, we all are doing our best when we’re not creating what we know we can create. 

 

Misty Williams  36:17

It doesn’t mean that in our heart and soul that the effort and intention isn’t there. So this is really, really powerful. I wish we could do like a five part human design, maybe we’ll do that with Healing Rosie one day. 

 

Misty Williams  36:31

Really go deep, because there’s a lot to this that can really help you understand yourself better. Understand your gifts better. Understand how to align with other people better. 

 

Misty Williams  36:40

But what I can leave you with is a way to reach out to Barbara and work with her. And also, I believe Barbara, I’d like you to share two websites. 

 

Misty Williams  36:48

I’d like you to share our website where someone could just go punch in their information and get their charts. 

 

Misty Williams  36:52

So they know what they’re, they want, which four energetic types they are right? And then I’d like for you to tell them how they could reach out to you for a session. So can you give us those two?

 

Barbara Ditlow  37:03

Well, one that’s really easy is an app on your phone, sorry, in a restaurant or you’re saying Who is she? Who is he? It’s just called the Human Design app. Okay, and you get it from the Apple App Store and it’s free. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  37:17

And you can take it down and you put your information in and the chart comes up. And that’s recommended, doesn’t cost anything. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  37:24

And it’s handy. I use it often times, when I’m talking to people, and I’ll say, Okay, I’ll on your chart, what’s the information you need or isn’t there. And then my website is human design. consultations.com

 

Misty Williams  37:35

HumanDesignconsultations.com.

 

Barbara Ditlow  37:35

So the reason that I put you in design consultations, is because it really is a consultation. It’s interactive. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  37:53

I’m reading your design, but I’m also listening, where you’re perceiving yourself, and how fast we can go into reading, so I can really impact your life during the session,

 

Misty Williams  38:06

Let me tell you a powerful experience I had. And then I know, I could keep rambling forever. We have to wrap up someday. 

 

Misty Williams  38:12

I was in a session with Barbara, and seven or eight other people, we were on a team together, we were doing a group human design session. And someone in the group said something about Misty needs to be on time. 

 

Misty Williams  38:33

Misty needs to be on time and she’s not on time. And first of all, it isn’t true that I’m never on time. But there are times that I’m not on time to certain things. 

 

Misty Williams  38:41

And there’s a reason for that, right? I’m not being lazy. It’s not that I don’t care, I’m going with my flow. And I’m the person that will send you a text says “hey!, I’m going to be five minutes late.” 

 

Misty Williams  38:55

Anyway, the intention of this person in this group setting was to maybe publicly shame me, pin me down. Make me be on time to every like, we’re going to agree as a group that this is our value. 

 

Misty Williams  39:12

And it’s how it’s going to be and whatever. And Barbara said to her, she looked and she asked me she’s like, tell me why you’re late. 

 

Misty Williams  39:20

I told her why I’d like by the time that they want to get together later in the afternoon. I have been in flow all day. And it’s not that I don’t care about being on time, but I am present with what’s happening at that moment. 

 

Misty Williams  39:35

And I do my best to wrap things up to completion, and then go to be on time. And she looked at the woman and she said this will never change. 

 

Misty Williams  39:43

I understand that this is something that you want, but this is never going to change. This is not how Misty is designed. And in that moment there. 

 

Misty Williams  39:51

I don’t necessarily notice it from the person who mentioned this, but a couple other key people including the woman that got this group together, it was just a “ha! We don’t have to fight this.” 

 

Misty Williams  40:03

And I can imagine I felt really seen. I was glad this didn’t turn into a dogpile moment for me where everyone’s jumping on me shaming me, “Misty, how dare you, you should.” 

 

Misty Williams  40:15

So it really helped me to appreciate how powerful it can be for someone to take the time to get to know you, see how you’re wired, appreciate who you are, and then help you show up more powerfully in your life. It’s really, really fantastic. 

 

Misty Williams  40:33

And Barbara, I am so grateful for the contribution you are in our community. Thank you so much for spending time with us today.

 

Barbara Ditlow  40:41

Thank you so much. I love you.

 

Misty Williams  40:43

I love you. I love you. All right, you guys. Go book your session with Barbara. Go download the app, figure out what your design is. 

 

Misty Williams  40:50

Send me an email. Tell me all about it after you do your session with Barbara. I want to hear everything. Okay. Thanks for joining us today. Thank you, Barbara. 

 

Barbara Ditlow  40:57

Thank you,Misty. 

 

Misty Williams  40:58

All right. We’ll see you guys. That’s it for this week’s episode. Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby foggy and fatigued and to reclaim your life. 

 

Misty Williams  41:08

If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. 

 

Misty Williams  41:14

We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. 

 

Misty Williams  41:18

They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

Where Do We Go From Here? Recovering from the Effects and Trauma of Lockdown… and How to Take Care of Our Mental Wellness

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Where Do We Go From Here? Recovering from the Effects and Trauma of Lockdown… and How to Take Care of Our Mental Wellness

It’s been almost three years since the world lockdown. And yet, despite things “returning to normal,” we are still dealing with the adverse side effects of the pandemic.

I was devastated when it was first announced that schools would close and everyone should stay at home.

I remember thinking, “what about those families where home isn’t a safe place?”

“What about the women who are going to be locked in with an abusive husband?”

“What about the children locked down with parents with marriage struggles, who witness lots of fighting and now whose parents can’t escape each other?”

This pandemic has inflicted a lot of psychological trauma. And not only that, it has also created moraeus health issues.

Many women inside the Healing Rosie FB Group have lamented gaining 20-40lbs during the lockdown.

Not having a normal routine, not moving regularly, and being afraid and unable to cope well has led many of us to stress eat.

We’ve seen a lot of families broken apart, marriages disintegrate and people dealing with relentless depression and anxiety.

Collectively we are just starting to rebuild our lives from the ashes of a really destructive time, and many are still struggling to cope.

If you’re struggling, I want you to have some guiding light to help you find your way out of these struggles.

How do we manage all of this stress and anxiety and depression and the dissonance that we’re feeling in our heads from a really traumatic time?

I invited Dr. Lindsey Elmore, a leader in the mental wellness movement, to show us how to reduce the risk of mental health challenges.

We’re going to explore:

  • The shocking statistics on mental illness that resulted from the pandemic
  • What they should have told us to do during the pandemic instead of spreading panic
  • Gained weight during the pandemic? Take this to help shred belly fat
  • 4 easy steps to reducing stress. HINT: These steps also help your mental well being
  • How healing this part of your body will help your mental health

timestamps

5:22  Shocking statistics on mental health due to the pandemic

10:37 The missed opportunity that could have transformed the American Health Care 

12:13 What we need to do right now to take care of our physical and mental wellness

17:07 Your next steps to take care of your physical and mental well being

18:38 Taking care of our gut microbiome for mental wellness

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transcript

Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healingrosie.com. And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie Radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday. We created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister, it is possible. 

 

Misty Williams  00:20

Well, today we are going to have a conversation with my friend Dr. Lindsey Elmore, about the mental health crisis that we’re dealing with in the year 2022 to two years into the pandemic, where collectively as a society, whether you’re here in the United States, or you’re listening from the UK, or Australia or some other part of the world, we have together gone through a really traumatic reckoning with this pandemic.

 

Misty Williams  00:20

And I remember the first thought crossing my mind when I heard that we were going to go into two weeks to slow the spread. Oh my gosh, what about those families where home isn’t a safe place? What about the women who are locked in homes with an abusive husband or the children who are locked in homes with parents whose marriage struggles where there’s a lot of fighting, and now they can’t escape each other? 

 

Misty Williams  00:51

There has been not only the controversy surrounding the pandemic itself, but the impact this has had on us at a micro level, you think about the early days of the pandemic, when all of us went into lockdown for the very first time. 

 

Misty Williams  01:01

You think about kids, my own niece was in high school still is in high school. And she experienced her sophomore year, doing school from home for the first time right in the school district that really had no idea how to effectively teach children to learn in a remote setting, and she is just now starting to talk to me about the trauma that she endured through that time. And the effect that it had on her mental health. 

 

Misty Williams  02:03

She’s actually using those words with me now. And Misty, it was really really hard on my mental health and talking about how scared and overwhelmed she felt being tremendous anxiety that she endured because she is basically locked in her room for a year. That’s what it amounted to for her. She wasn’t going to school, her mom was very concerned about the safety of being out in public. 

 

Misty Williams  02:27

So she actually didn’t leave her home for a really long time. And it was very scary and overwhelming for her. She’s in high school where everything counts for college. And she has a year of really struggling with her grades and everything else that goes along with it. 

 

Misty Williams  02:44

So collectively, we have been through a lot of mental and psychological trauma. And for many people, I see women in our community who are talking about the 20 or 30 or 40 pounds that they’ve gained during the lockdown, not moving,  not having a normal routines, maybe doing emotional stress eating to cope with what’s happening. 

 

Misty Williams  03:10

I’m seeing my cousins emerge from what happened with COVID actually feeling more fearful than ever about what’s happening in our world. I think the vulnerability of living in a society that can lock everyone down, like we’ve all been locked down for some people is a lot to process. 

 

Misty Williams  03:28

I want us to talk about this today with Dr. Lindsey. Because this is a very real area of struggle that we’re all dealing with. We are all trying to figure out what do we do about our emotional health through this time, we’ve seen marriages disintegrate, families broken apart. Because of what they’ve endured over the last couple of years. People are rebuilding their lives from the ashes of a really destructive time and they’re struggling, they’re struggling to cope. 

 

Misty Williams  03:58

I want us to unpack this a little bit and walk away from this conversation not only collectively acknowledging what we’ve all been through, right, we have all been through a lot, even the strong ones had to be strong for a really long time. Right? 

 

Misty Williams  04:13

So we’ve been through a lot and what’s important is where do we go from here? How do we manage all of this stress and anxiety and depression and the dissonance that we’re feeling in our heads from a really traumatic time? So this is going to be a super powerful conversation. I’m so glad all of you joined us. 

 

Misty Williams  04:34

Dr. Lindsey Elmore is a board certified pharmacist, functional medicine clinician, speaker, author, entrepreneur, yoga instructor and world renowned wellness expert. She’s an undergraduate with a degree in chemistry from the University of Alabama, Birmingham and a doctorate in pharmacy from the University of California San Francisco. 

 

Misty Williams  04:51

Lindsay is a leader in the mental wellness movement and helps people craft their microbiome to reduce the risk of mental health challenges. Welcome Lindsey.

 

Lindsey Elmore  04:59

Hey, thanks so much for having me. Miss you. I’m excited to be here.

 

Misty Williams  05:03

Well, I’m excited for you to be here. And I’m excited for us to tackle this topic. I set the stage here with some things that I’m observing in my own world as it relates to the world post pandemic posts, march 2020, when everything kind of shifted on it on its axis for all of us.

 

Misty Williams  05:22

I think it would be helpful maybe if we just heard a little bit from you, what are you seeing in your corner of the world as it relates to our mental health after enduring two years of lockdowns and fear around COVID, anti virus and all the uncertainty that comes with it?

 

Lindsey Elmore  05:40

Well, I think we’ve seen since 2020, 20% of US adults receive some sort of mental health treatment, and 16% of those are treated with prescription meds, and this is up from 2019 data, etc. And the National Alliance on Mental Illness reports that one in five adults has a mental illness problem each year, one in 20, has a serious mental illness, one in six youths age, ages six to 17, has a mental health disorder. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  06:17

What’s even scarier is that the lifetime risk of mental illness is 50% by the age of 14, and 75%, by the age of 24. That’s staggering. And we also know that kids, suicide is the second leading cause of death and people between the ages of 10 and 34. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  06:44

And during the pandemic, we saw an explosion in substance do youth does use disorders, mental illness problems, 12 million Americans had serious thoughts of suicide, because we are not built to be alone, we are built to have a community and one in five people is saying the pandemic was really hard on me. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  07:10

The worst part of it is that it’s harder now than ever, to access mental health services. People by the millions are saying, I couldn’t get an appointment, I couldn’t get a prescription, I couldn’t get the care that I needed. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  07:30

And we also saw an explosion of virtual mental health services, which, you get skilled at doing podcasts virtually, is really hard to do like therapy and counseling, there is something about being in the room with someone else when it happens. And so it’s very, very important for us to keep in mind that having those one-on-one conversations is very, very important. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  08:09

So basically, we’ve had an explosion of mental health problems since the pandemic, and I am one of them. I was living in New York City, when the lock downs happened. And I remember day one, when they were like two weeks to flatten the curve. I instinctively knew. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  08:29

This is not how you handle a virus like you look at the Spanish Flu of the 1920s. People who were outside had better survivability than people who remained inside. And it makes sense. I mean, I remember my mom teaching me that as a child. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  08:48

If you’re sick, you must air out your house. And so having that immediate discord of something is off, really started my mental health challenges. And then being in New York just started to see some really weird stuff and started having nightmares, and I just said, what, I’ve got to leave, I’ve got to leave. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  09:14

There was one week when I didn’t leave my apartment for six days straight. And I was just like, I am going to go Batty, like I’m going to go crazy if I stay here and there were a couple of final straws and just left just left and said I can’t remain in New York anymore. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  09:39

And so that I am a product of the trauma that happened during the pandemic and I think that a lot of people maybe they had little T trauma. But now I think we basically all universally have big T trauma that needs to be dealt With and unpacked,

 

Lindsey Elmore  10:01

yeah, I remember feeling in the early days of dependent, I always get my groceries delivered ever since Instacart became a thing. They haven’t brought the groceries to my house. I remember, Roderick and I being so excited to go get our groceries from the grocery store, because we got out of the house, it got us moving again, it changed our flow completely. 

 

Misty Williams  10:25

I had a friend who had already been planning to move to Austin from LA. And she drove the Tuesday after the pandemic was announced. She drove from LA to Austin and went into lockdown with us. And it was really hard and confronting to watch the messaging around, like, being scared of being in each other’s presence.

 

Lindsey Elmore  10:54

Can we just take a step back and go? What a missed opportunity? What a missed opportunity, if instead of going on TV and saying, Stay home, sanitize everything, wear a mask, avoid other people. What if we had gone on the news and said, Hey, guys, there’s a virus coming. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  11:22

We don’t know a lot about it. And so we don’t know what to expect. So what we have been telling you about staying a normal body weight, exercising, sleeping, well stressing less getting diverse vegetables in your diet, if we had gone that direction, we could have actually transformed American health care. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  11:48

I heard an interview for a woman who ended up quitting Meals on Wheels during the pandemic, because she was just like, we’re delivering this cheap, processed, genetically modified, nutrient devoid food, and food. Yeah, Franklin food, food like products. It’s not food, it’s food like products. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  12:11

We could be delivering actual food to make people healthy. I mean, the most unhealthy food you can eat in America is inside of a hospital. And that shows how much we truly value health and well being. I mean, if you’re staying in a hospital, you better hope you got a friend to bring you some food because you’re getting white bread and fruit juice. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  12:37

It’s the most unhealthy food in all of America. It’s such a missed opportunity, I really think, had we taken a step back and not been so obstinate about like, hey, all the things that we kind of joke around that you should do for your immune system. We actually need you to do all of them right now. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  12:37

If we hadn’t been so maniacal about what people were like, you can’t say Vitamin C helps your immune system. You can’t say that adequate vitamin D stores are important for your immune system, that people who are normal body weight are less likely to have diabetes related infections, all the things and so we just missed an opportunity. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  13:35

We were on a trajectory, marching us towards very expensive new options for treatment instead of just taking a step back and going like, Okay, well, coronaviruses have existed since the dawn of time. They’re part of our virome we’ve co evolved with them. It’s not like we haven’t seen a Coronavirus in the past. But viral infections in general are fairly similar, right? 

 

Lindsey Elmore  14:09

If you’ve got known supplements that help to support our immune system, why were we so just like, No, nothing works. And it was very much a missed opportunity to really empower people that like, Hey, you can take control of your health in a radical way that you have never done before. And we are going to help you.

 

Lindsey Elmore  14:39

Yeah, I think there were definitely people in our space who weren’t trying to be carriers of that message. I certainly saw people like Dave Asprey and a lot of the leaders in the natural health space speaking up and speaking out about things you do to help the immune system. 

 

Misty Williams  14:57

So I think that’s part of the Rama really is those of us who consider ourselves part of the health space professionally like this where we’ve dedicated our life’s work to see the messaging that has gone on about this virus and the way everything has been so politicized that in itself has inflicted its own trauma. 

 

Misty Williams  15:23

And we’re all ultimately trying to figure out how to deal with this? What do we do when, when we’re basically having messages thrown at us that don’t feel good, that don’t feel right in our bodies? Like what do we do when we’re dealing with family members who are deeply afraid.

 

Misty Williams  15:26

 One of my closest friends here in Austin didn’t see his family for two years, they were afraid of getting together. And then once it was time for the family to get together, he started taking a lot of grief because he wasn’t vaccinated and for personal reasons, decided that wasn’t the path that he wanted to take for himself. 

 

Misty Williams  15:57

And so there was for a time, this fear that my family isn’t going to want me to come around, and I was really a lucky one, my family has been on the side, they’re very red, I grew up in Oklahoma, and they’ve been on the side of we’re gonna be together. And we’re gonna get through this together from the very beginning. And they’ve had a similar ideological perspective on what’s happening. 

 

Misty Williams  16:25

I have friends who the friend that moved here, during the early days of lockdown her entire family’s from New York, and firsthand what it’s like, in the northeastern United States and what the relationship is, between the social structures up there and this virus and what you need to do in order to participate with the rest of society. Right? 

 

Misty Williams  16:49

So there’s many, many layers to this trauma conversation, and I would love for us to just start talking really proactively, what can we do now? How do we navigate this when we’re in a soup of toxicity and trauma. 

 

Misty Williams  17:07

Not only are we dealing with our own response to what’s happening, but we’re feeling the projected energy of people around us who maybe have their own response that could be different from ours, that we’re feeling like we have to navigate. It gets heavy in this space, sometimes.

 

Lindsey Elmore  17:23

Yeah, I mean, here’s the thing, we just simply need to craft a state of wellbeing, where each individual person knows their own inherent value, their own inherent worth, their magical, like unicorn skills that they have, that nobody else has. Because when you know who you are, and you know, what you’re capable of, it becomes much easier to cope with the normal stresses of life. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  17:56

It becomes easier to work productively and work fruitfully and ultimately be able to achieve what I think human beings in general are here on earth for which is to contribute to the greater good  of the world. And so we just need to take a step back. And remember who we are. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  18:19

I mean, how many women do you know that just live in that day to day, I am not enough, I am not enough, I am not enough. And I’m here to tell you that you are enough that you were created on purpose for a purpose. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  18:33

So the first step is you have to love yourself, and you have to trust your gut. If you’re living in a toxic soup of people telling you stuff that doesn’t feel right to you. Well then hang out with different people literally go and hang out with other people. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  18:55

I am a big fan of the microbiome. I work on my gut microbiome, because the gut is so critical for our mental wellness. We don’t think about the gut that much, but the gut brain and microbiota access is at the epicenter of this new approach to mental health. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  19:49

We know that the gut brain axis is extremely important on anxiety and trauma related disorders and that working on the microbiome can be a holistic way to link together the gut brain axis. And so there are certain bacteria that live in your gut, that can reduce cortisol that produce serotonin that produce more dopamine that can help with our GABA signaling so that we get those parasympathetic signals going through our body instead of the sympathetic signals. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  20:38

I also think there’s been a lot of confusion over the past couple of years. And the confusion is something that we can address with nollie tropic supplements that can help with our cognition, our focus, our mental clarity, all of the things there are probiotics that you can use that help to reduce nervous system inflammation. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  20:54

The microbiome, literally programs, our HPA axis, which is our stress axis, so the hypothalamus talks to the pituitary, which talks to the adrenal glands, which produce our cortisol and the microbiome programs that early in life, and it leads to a stress response that lasts over the entire lifespan. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  21:05

Supplements that can help your neurons to fire together more effectively, because we say in neuronal generation, that which wires together fires together, and you can rewire your brain and what fire is, I said that backwards? What fires together wires together? And the more that you work on firing things in the right direction, the better off you’ll be. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  21:31

So if right now you’re living in just a huge boatload of stress. Number one, one of my favorite things that I’ve learned an Al Anon is never try to regulate anybody else’s behavior other than your own. And yes, that breaks down a little bit when it comes to raising children and whatever, because there does have to be discipline and all the things, but I am so unconcerned what the person over there is doing. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  22:01

I think that can be powerful if you can get to a place where you’re like, I don’t have to care what another person is doing. Because it’s not my circus, and it’s not my monkeys, right? And so don’t wrangle monkeys that aren’t yours. And so that is a big deal. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  22:23

And then listen, friends, if you are living under stress, everything else is going to fall apart. Everything else is going to fall apart. And so I don’t care what you do to stress less if that’s meditation, great if it’s going to bed an hour earlier. Great. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  22:23

Is it uninstalling news apps from your phone? Great? Is it turning your phone off at 9pm? I don’t care. I don’t care what it is that you’re doing to stress less. But if you do not stress less, your gut is never going to heal your gut brain axis is never going to heal. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  23:00

And if the gut brain axis is leaky, we talk about leaky gut all the time. But if you have a leaky gut, you have leaky brain, leaky skin, leaky vagina, leaky lungs, leaky heart, it’s all leaking, and there are inflammatory mediators that are being dumped into your body. And if you can’t stress less, nothing will ever heal. Stress, I believe is the root cause of, I mean, in functional medicine, we talked about the eight root causes of disease, but there’s a reason that stress is number one, right? 

 

Lindsey Elmore  23:40

That is the first S in the acronym that we remember because there is no disease, that stress does not make worse, and there is no disease that stress does not cause and so we have to work on healing the gut, and we have to work on bringing in key supplements that can help to specifically work on these neurotransmitters. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  24:05

We also saw a ton of weight gain in the pandemic and I look at the average, the average millennial gained 41 pounds between March of 2020 and February of 2021. That is a lifetime of problems waiting to happen. The average essential worker put on 38 pounds during the pandemic and so now we’re talking about okay, that means that we’re going to need probiotics that can help to shred belly fat and there are those probiotics that exist. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  24:52

You can also focus on like, we can work on eating foods that feed bacteria like Anchorman Sia, that is a bacteria of skinny people. And so when I think of mental wellness, number one, your probiotics that you’re using must be strain specific. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  25:15

It’s not enough to just run to the grocery store and grab willy nilly a supplement, you need to know like, what does that strain actually do, because some strains of bacteria are there for mental wellness, others are there for weight loss, others are there to help heal SIBO others are there to help with digestion, like all of these trillions of bacteria that live on us, in us and around us. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  25:44

They have different functions. And so you have to know what you’re getting into before just picking something randomly, and going, Oh, well, all probiotics are created equal. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  25:59

And I also think it can’t be under-stated that you can out stress over eat under sleep and under exercise, any supplement routine. And so we have to also have that self accountability. This isn’t just about taking a supplement and allowing it to solve all my problems. That’s what Western medicine does. And we know that it doesn’t work for chronic illness. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  26:29

What we have to work on is getting to the point where our entire lifestyle is very healthy, and the supplements are just adding on to all of the good stuff that we’re already doing. Yeah,

 

Misty Williams  26:44

One of the things that’s coming up, as I’m listening to you talk about this, is that we can reflect on the trauma and the overwhelm that we’ve experienced over the last couple of years. And in this moment, at the time of this recording, it’s summertime and 2022. 

 

Misty Williams  26:58

Not sure when everyone’s going to be listening to this, of course, but the question that we need to be asking ourselves now is moving forward? What are we going to be committed to in our life, and really taking an inventory? 

 

Misty Williams  27:13

I really like what you said about the different things that contribute to us feeling so stressed in our lives. I think we could probably look at our reality right now. And the things that are showing up in our world based on our responsibilities and the flow and the commitments that we have in our life and consider.

 

Misty Williams  27:29

Is this really the track that we want to be running on? And do we, the stressors that we’re experiencing externally in our world? Are we committed to this stress? Right? Is this stress really important to us, and if there is something that needs to change, what has to shift so that those things can change? 

 

Misty Williams  27:51

Because I think the western model of taking a pill to fix it. I’m sure there’s a part of anyone that’s feeling overwhelmed right now that would be relieved by the idea of taking a pill to fix it. But what we know is that the pills actually don’t fix it in the ways that we’re hoping for. 

 

Misty Williams  28:10

They make a lot of things worse on the inside. And at some point, someday, we actually have to look at the reality of the lives we’re living and really take inventory and decide what needs to shift and change. And that’s a big topic. That’s a whole podcast in and of itself unpacking all of that, but there are things that we can do. 

 

Misty Williams  28:35

The thing that I would love for people to take away from this interview is maybe I’m experiencing this reality, but what can I do? I think you’ve shared a lot of great things here, Lindsey, that people can consider from a supplementation perspective and certainly from a moral inventory perspective, but we all need to proactively get acquainted with solutions. 

 

Misty Williams  28:59

I remember when I first started dating Roderick, one of the things that I, the language that I would use all the time with him was, this is what I want to create with someone. This language of creation, we talked about it a lot. 

 

Misty Williams  29:13

In the very early days of our relationship the US had not formed yet it was Misty, a person getting to know Roderick, another human being, and we started, like, basically playing in the sandbox. Well, if I’m going to be in a relationship, Roderick lived in California at the time I was in Austin, I don’t want to create a long distance relationship with someone actually. 

 

Misty Williams  29:37

Here’s what I would like to create instead. And he talked about the things that he would love to create. If you wanted a great home life with someone, he had a daughter who at that time was turning 19, and he raised her as a single dad and he didn’t get to have that. 

 

Misty Williams  29:54

That home that he always envisioned growing up having for family and I think all of us looking at ourselves as creators of our reality, because we are whether or not we acknowledge ourselves that way or want to really own that power we have to create. 

 

Misty Williams  30:11

We are all powerful, and we’re creating all the time. By the words we use by the thoughts, we think how we view what’s happened to us over the last couple of years, how we view the future in light of what’s happened to us. We are all powerful creators. 

 

Misty Williams  30:29

What that means is we do have the power to create something different. If we will step into that and step up for it and commit and resolve. I’m certainly not meaning to be trite. Like, it’s so easy. Certainly I’ve had.

 

Lindsey Elmore  30:46

Yeah, but we’re not here for easy. 

 

Misty Williams  30:48

Yes, yes. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  30:49

We’re not here for easy. The life is supposed to be hard. It’s part of the human condition,

 

Lindsey Elmore  30:55

It is the human condition. So there’s a lot of things about making choices to change our lives that confront the part of us that doesn’t like things to change and is afraid of what’s on the other side of change, right? But my phoenix has risen from these ashes enough times to know that the courage to change, and the courage to create something different in our life is the driving force behind creating a life and health and prosperity for yourself and your family. 

 

Misty Williams  31:28

You can’t do it without it. And I wish that for everyone listening that you tap into that courage and find a way to make the changes that you need to make in your life.

 

Lindsey Elmore  31:38

I want to go back to something that you just said about everybody who would like to take a pill to feel better. But here’s the thing. Pain medications don’t just make you not feel pain, they make you not feel anything. anti anxiety medications don’t make you not feel anxiety, they make you not feel anything, they flatten the effect, right? Sleep medications do not actually get you restorative sleep because it destroys all of your REM cycles. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  32:08

So all of these are like patchworks that we’re putting on trying to feel better. I mean, who saw the study that came out this week that clearly shows that depression is not a serotonin problem, we make up these theories of how disease works, so that we can create medications that target the problems, right. But that’s exactly the wrong approach 

 

Lindsey Elmore  32:39

The whole name it, blame it, tame it, that we do where we name a disease, blame it for the symptoms that you’re feeling and tame it with drugs or surgery is broken. It’s simply a broken system, you get down to it friends. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  32:59

There’s only eight root causes of disease, right? Stress, toxins and toxic hands, allergens and antigens, infections and dysbiosis, nutrient excesses and deficiencies, sedentarism, sleep disorders and socio genomics. If it’s not one of those, you’re missing the point. And so we have to look at what is actually underlying the surface. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  33:25

Okay, so you feel anxious, what’s underneath that? What’s underneath that? And oftentimes, it comes back to just our core. Our core fears as human beings, whether, people are built, driven towards vengeance driven towards anger driven towards fear towards gluttony, and lust and all of these things, and we simply have to take a step back and go, Well, if there’s a wolf and a sheep inside of me, how do I feed the sheep and quiet the wolf?. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  34:02

And once we work on quieting the wolf of self doubt of I’m not enough, lack mentality everything is terrible, it will always be terrible, and it’s my fault that it’s terrible. If you live in that world, a benzodiazepine is going to feel really good. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  34:26

But if you live in a world where you go, I am empowered enough to make this decision. I can do my own research. I can understand that I have special skills and talents that not everybody else can bring to the table. I have the ability to show up as myself and be respected for it. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  34:46

And that’s where I want people to get to. I want people to understand that. I already said it once created on purpose for a purpose and if you don’t show up for yourself, your purpose doesn’t get lived out. And the people around you and the community around you do not get served like they deserve from you.

 

Lindsey Elmore  35:14

Yeah, and I know that this is a topic that you’re super passionate about. So much so that you’ve committed to launching podcasts, and being an advocate out there. I’m teaching all of us. I know you have a summit coming up. Yes, Engineering the microbiome. Am I getting that right? 

 

Lindsey Elmore  35:31

Yes, yes, 

 

Misty Williams  35:32

Engineering the microbiome Summit, where you’re going to dive deeper into a lot of dimensions of this conversation. And I would love for you just to tell us a little bit more about this event and what you have planned for us.

 

Lindsey Elmore  35:44

So this event is perfect for anybody who is feeling like their gut is out of whack. Their mental wellness is just not on target. People who can’t lose the weight, go in through crappy menopause just can’t sleep well at night, maybe people who are like, suspecting that maybe I have a stealth, parasitic infection, or a mold toxicity, all of the things and your microbiome is also very important for your sexual health as well. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  36:15

And so we talk a lot about that. So in the summit, I interviewed more than 40 experts about everything from how to engineer your microbiome to prevent cancer, engineer your microbiome to prevent dementia, how do we engineer our microbiome for Better Skin Health, engineering your microbiome for better sleep to protect you from EMFs? 

 

Lindsey Elmore  36:40

How do we use cutting edge therapies like ozone, to engineer our microbiome? What does meditation do to our microbiome? Because meditation has powerful impacts on your microbiome. And we even dive into how do we engineer our microbiome for better, better menopause, and even better orgasms we talked through. And so all of these industry experts coming together to really start talking about what 10 years ago, nobody was talking about. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  37:13

Nobody was talking about the importance of the microbiome, years and years ago. And the emerging data is basically showing us very clearly that the microbiome impacts everything, it is on us, in us around us. And part of the reason that we’re so sick these days is because we talk about the environmental impacts of the microbiome, like the soil microbiome is absolutely critical for generating vitamins and minerals that go into the plants that are grown. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  37:52

And so this is not your microbiome, it’s not just in you. It’s in you and It’s on you. It’s shared between people. And it is also shared as a communication tool for the entire world. So the microbiome is us. We are our microbiome, we have more bacterial cells, living not just bacteria, bacteria, yeast, fungi, viruses, archaea, all the things. 

 

Lindsey Elmore  38:25

We have more of those cells than we do human cells, we are more bacteria than we are human, and the entire world is coded in the microbiome. So it’s very important that we really start to dive into what science tells us about how important this is?

 

Misty Williams  38:47

Yeah, well, I know 10 years ago, when my journey started, the things that we have access to today and what we can do today to optimize where there were nowhere to be found. A decade ago, things have come a long way over the last 10 years. And I’m really excited that you’ve put this together to help educate all of us. 

 

Misty Williams  39:04

I know when I’ve hosted similar events, the education that I get, as the host, is pretty phenomenal, getting to see some of the top experts in the world. But it’s also really amazing to be able to invite people in to hear into these fantastic conversations and start connecting the dots on your own issues and things that you can do getting those two millimeter shifts that can make all the difference in the results you’re getting. 

 

Misty Williams  39:27

So right you’re gonna have a link to sign up for this summit in the shownotes over a healingrosy.com. If you would like to join Lindsey and the 40 experts that she’s brought together for this event.Tell us the dates of the event?

 

Lindsey Elmore  39:42

It will be live free and online September 26 until October the second.

 

Misty Williams  39:49

That’s right, 2022 So called all of you can go sign up for that. Thank you so much for joining us today. Lindsey. This has been a phenomenal conversation. I hope it was thought provoking for everyone. listening in, makes you think about where you’re at with the pandemic narrative and gives you some ideas on some things that you can do to start creating some shifts in your life. So this has been great. Thanks so much.

 

Lindsey Elmore  40:12

Thank you. 

 

Misty Williams  40:13

All right, we’ll see you guys soon. 

 

Misty Williams  40:15

That’s it for this week’s episode. Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby, foggy and fatigue and to reclaim your life. If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. 

 

Misty Williams  40:29

We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

Breathwork Rewired: How to Rewire Your Nervous System to Get Better Sleep, Dissolve Stress and Help Your Body Heal

Josh Trent Breathwork Rewired
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Breathwork Rewired: How to Rewire Your Nervous System to Get Better Sleep, Dissolve Stress and Help Your Body Heal

I went over 144 hours (that’s over 6 days) with no sleep. I was coming unraveled emotionally, weepy and overwhelmed… Why can’t I sleep???

I tried every trick to get some shut-eye after a botched operation. I was at my wit’s end, so I called a dear friend and high performance coach for help.

After hearing about my story and telling him everything that’s happened to me, he told me: you need to breathe.
He told me the breath pattern I needed to do while meditating, and I hung up, laid down on the floor in my bedroom and started practicing.

In about an hour, I felt myself dozing off. So I got up from the floor and crawled into bed.

That was the first time since my surgery that I was able to sleep.

When I started hearing my colleagues talk about the amazing benefits of breathwork, and even incorporating it as a spiritual practice, I knew this was something powerful that we all need to learn!

In this interview, I’m talking with my friend Josh Trent about the power of breathwork for re-regulating your nervous system so you can induce a parasympathetic response to get better sleep, manage stress and start healing.

Together, we explore:

  • Start your day right! Why “Circular Breathing” is a crucial practice to add to your morning routine
  • If you’re new to breathwork, learn this simple strategy to get you started
  • Need to reconnect with your partner? This breathing exercise done together will help you feel more connected with each other
  • Get BETTER sleep in less than 5 minutes! Use this breathing technique to prime your parasympathetic nervous system for great sleep
  • Bye-bye depression! Use the “two-part breath” exercise to release negative emotions and feel at peace

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05:25 – Getting to know what “breathwork” is and how it can help you

6:24 – Two important things happen when you “breathe”

11:25 – The 3 pillars you need to focus on when getting started with breathwork

13:26 – Horizontal Breathing vs Vertical Breathing

14:55 – Do breathwork the right way by doing the invisible balloon method

17:38 – The three phases of breathwork

21:26 – Create a healthy relationship and learn how to use non-violent communication with your partner

28:37 – Use this strategy so you can feel more present with your body

33:52 – Find yourself fighting with your partner? Do this breathing technique to calm down

37:24 – The “two part breath” that you can add to your meditation routine

44:41 – Use this breathwork practice daily and strengthen your parasympathetic system

46:34 – Start the day right with by using this circular breathing technique

47:00– If you want to feel more grounded, use the box style breathing technique

53:03 – Use this breathing technique if you want to get into a deep sleep

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transcript

Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healingrosie.com. And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

 

Misty Williams  00:13

We created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister, it is possible that I’m super excited to have my friend Josh Trent with us today to talk about something that has been a recurring pattern for me the last six months. 

 

Misty Williams  00:29

I was at an event last fall with Seth Spheres who is the husband of Katie Wells, you may know her brand Wellness Mama, she has one of the largest Natural Health blogs in our space, really targets moms. He and I were chatting about an experience he recently had in Austin with our mutual friend, Josh, around breathwork. 

 

Misty Williams  00:52

He was just raving about how deeply transformative it was to come and spend time with Josh and Austin just focusing on breath and breathing. And I remember at the time thinking, Oh, that’s really interesting. And just filing it away. 

 

Misty Williams  01:06

I don’t know Josh as the breathwork guy, I know him in other contexts in ways. And then after that, this idea of breath kept coming up over and over and over again. For me, people would mention breathwork, they would talk about how important breathwork can be for rewiring your entire nervous system. 

 

Misty Williams  01:22

I did an interview with Ari Witten for this event. And if you’ve seen that interview, he talks extensively about the importance of breath work in basically re-regulating your nervous system and really inducing a parasympathetic response so that you can heal. 

 

Misty Williams  01:39

So because it keeps coming up over and over for me, I have started integrating some breath work into my own morning routine, along with meditation. I really wanted to do an interview where we dove into this with someone that had some really good expertise. 

 

Misty Williams  01:57

Not only are we going to talk about breath work, but we’re going to actually do some breath work together. I think that’s going to be really, really powerful. 

 

Misty Williams  02:06

My goal for you is at the end of this conversation at the end of this video, you will know what you can do. You can add it to your own routine to begin practicing something that can powerfully support your body in healing. 

 

Misty Williams  02:22

Josh has spent the past 19 plus years as a trainer, researcher and facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world. The Wellness Force Media mission is to help humans heal mental, emotional and physical health, through podcast programs and a global community that believes in optimizing our potential to live life. 

 

Misty Williams  02:22

This is going to be a fantastic interview and conversation today. And I’m super excited that you showed up for it. So Josh Trent is the founder of Wellness Force Media, host of the Wellness and Wisdom podcast, and the creator of Breathe | Breath and Wellness program. 

 

Josh Trent  02:58

Thank you for having me. And he’s a beautiful baby boy. It’s funny. We go around town and people are like, is that a girl or a boy? And I’m like, well, it’s whatever you want. It’s a boy. It’s a boy.

 

Misty Williams  02:58

Well. Josh’s life is dedicated to supporting humanity and coming together as one. And Josh is a new father of a beautiful baby boy named Noah and I have been booing and eyeing over all the pictures. And I’m sure we’ll hear a little bit about that part of his journey as this interview unfolds. So welcome, Josh.

 

Misty Williams  03:33

So you and Carrie have been like just the juiciest, most excited nurturing mama and papa bears to this little baby bringing this being into the world. It’s been wonderful to see you step into a whole different part of your being. There’s this protective, powerful nurturing side of you that’s just like converged and is really fierce. And I love seeing you so in love with both your son and Carrie and, and I’m really thrilled for you. So congratulations.

 

Josh Trent  04:09

Yes, thanks. I have a lot less free time. But all the time that I have is love time. Dedicated, I put my intentions on the things that matter most. 

 

Josh Trent  04:20

When you have a child, it’s like nothing else really matters besides the health of that child, the health of yourself and your family. I mean, it always does matter most, our health and wellness. But it really goes to a different level of awareness when you have a child on earth because it ain’t about you anymore.

 

Misty Williams  04:20

Yeah. 

 

Misty Williams  04:35

Yeah, well, that’s really beautiful. And I’m super excited to see you continue to blossom and I’m sure there’s going to be so many things in your own journey that will begin to permeate your work and you’ll be sharing with the world. 

 

Misty Williams  04:49

I’d love to just kind of kick things off with an intro here. Breathwork, when Seth told me that he came to Austin to do breath work with you, I was like, Oh!, I didn’t know that people came to Austin, do breath work with Josh. But then of course, as I kept hearing more and more and more about it. I went from being intrigued to, oh my god! This is something I need to integrate. 

 

Misty Williams  05:11

So for those that were like me before Seth said to me that he actually made a trip somewhere to do breathwork, Why don’t you give us a little overview of what breathwork is? Why is it so important for us to integrate this into our daily practices?

 

Josh Trent  05:25

Sure, in its simplest form, The Art and Science of Breath or Breathwork is really just controlling your respiration, so that you can pull the only autonomic or automatic lever you have for your stress. And that’s it just everybody let that land for a moment. We all breathe yet the way that we breathe, we learned from our parents and society as an adaptation to the stressors we’re experiencing. 

 

Josh Trent  05:48

So most of us actually aren’t breathing, even though consciously we think we are. At its simplest form, breath is an e-brake. You remember those e-brakes on cars, where when you’re a kid, maybe a teenager, you’d pull the brake, and it would stop the car, and it would spin it out. That’s what breath does to your nervous system. 

 

Josh Trent  06:05

It does it very, very quickly. So what happens when you’re consciously using your breath to control or modulate your stress is that you’re actually doing something physically. You’re doing something energetically. The physical part of what you’re doing is that you’re diaphragmatically activating what’s called vagus nerve. 

 

Josh Trent  06:22

The vagus nerve or vagal toning. That’s different, because a lot of us think about toning our muscles in the gym, by doing a bicep curl, or by doing squats, or by doing exercises that burn. You get in your muscles. You get toned in your muscles. But when it comes to the breath, there’s two things going on. 

 

Josh Trent  06:40

There’s a nervous system adaptation, where actually your vagus nerve dovetails onto the back of the diaphragm that goes into the endocannabinoid system and into the enteric nervous system. It controls so many things, if you do a deep, full diaphragmatic belly breath, which we’ll do during this conversation. That’s the first thing it does is nervous. 

 

Josh Trent  06:59

The second thing that it does outside the nervous system, though, is that it actually pushes the stem of the vagus nerve that is connected to the amygdala, which is the fear center of the brain. It starts to shift us physically, so that we’re getting less blood flow, less cortisol. We’re not in fight or flight. We’re out of the sympathetic side of the nervous system. We’re physically moving ourselves to peace and relaxation, and digestion. 

 

Josh Trent  07:24

So at its core, it’s the simplest and most powerful and only singular lever that we can pull in our nervous system that’s automatic. We can tune our stress to be actually at peace, and we can’t do one more thing. We can’t digest our food faster. We can’t make our blood flow faster. We can’t make our skin grow faster. 

 

Josh Trent  07:44

There’s all these things that our body just does, because it innately has that wisdom, right? Well, breath is beautiful, because it’s the only voluntary and involuntary lever that we can be in harmony with and communion with when it comes to our stress.

 

Misty Williams  07:58

Yeah, I love what you’re saying here about the vagus tone or parasympathetic tone. I remember having an interview about a year and a half ago with Dr. Marnie Gerbil, where she talked about the parasympathetic nervous system. 

 

Misty Williams  08:15

I had at that point, kind of thought of it as a thought of the parasympathetic is something you transition into from the sympathetic nervous system. And the way that I was facilitating the conversation had that implication of like, okay!, we’re going to basically turn off one thing to be in another.

 

Misty Williams  08:33

She corrected me, she said, “We’re not just talking about something you turn on and off like a switch. We’re talking about something that you build strength and resilience into, so that you’re able to access it a lot easier.” When you’re in that space of the parasympathetic nervous system, you’re in it in a stronger, more powerful way. 

 

Misty Williams  08:57

You can liken it just as you did to being in the gym, and building muscle tone. Where you’re lifting, and you’re actually making your body stronger. We’re actually making our parasympathetic nervous system stronger, in a similar way. 

 

Misty Williams  09:11

I found that distinction to be super helpful, because otherwise, I don’t know if I would have really appreciated building strength in this side. I kind of understood it as we’re either in parasympathetic or sympathetic, right?. And there’s actually a whole lot more to this conversation, which is really fascinating.

 

Josh Trent  09:31

Yeah, it’s more like the tide in the ocean. The tide takes time to change from neap to spring. So you don’t go to the ocean and all of a sudden, bam!, the tide shifts, it takes time. 

 

Josh Trent  09:42

We have the same kind of energetic tides in our nervous system with sympathetic and parasympathetic. And I would say that, yes, it builds strength, but really, underneath that what it’s actually doing is it’s building resiliency and it’s building activation. So it’s activating certain afferent and efferent signaling molecules or dendrites, or however you want to describe them.

 

Josh Trent  10:03

These molecules actually receive a message from the motor neurons, and then they send it back to the brain. And when they send it back to the brain, that’s also part of that feedback loop, that is really part of the hypothalamus. And everything else is going on with our amygdala in the stress system itself. So yeah, it’s strengthening. 

 

Josh Trent  10:22

But now that I hear you reflect that, to me, it’s strengthening, but it’s more like just activating. It’s activating things that may be asleep, that are conditioned to be asleep. That’s a deeper conversation when we look at society at large.

 

Misty Williams  10:33

Yeah, yeah. Well, resilience has been a really hot topic, the last year. I’ve seen a lot of events on resilience. I’ve heard lots of conversations. Conversations about resilience, because our ability to be resilient in the face of adversity. Especially when you’re on a really challenging health journey. 

 

Misty Williams  10:50

Resilience is key, because you have to keep going and you have to keep searching. You find that there’s a lot of changes that you have to make, and it requires resilience to do that. If you don’t have a strong parasympathetic nervous system, then resilience can be really hard to come by. 

 

Misty Williams  11:06

So take us deeper into this, I would love for you just to explain that maybe some of the strategies that we can use to induce more parasympathetic tone, I would love to just do some actual breathing together so that people leave this conversation feeling really empowered around this topic.

 

Josh Trent  11:25

Yeah, the first thing we can start with is our posture. The next one is our musculature. And then the next one is our actual practice itself> the breath practice itself. So for posture, most of us are, right now, I’m in a really cool chair. I’m in this chair, it’s called a lotus chair. So I actually have a pad in front of my stomach, and I’m sitting in lotus a position, and my spine, my head, my shoulders are all in line with my hips. Not everybody has this chair. 

 

Josh Trent  11:54

So the very first thing that most of us need to do actually, is roll our shoulders back and take a deep breath. Right, because most of us are forward flexed or like this. And it’s because of our cell phone and our cars. And all the things that we’ve heard before, you and I are in this world of health, and we hear a lot of the same things over and over and over again. But are we doing them? That’s the really big go to market here, are we actually doing them. 

 

Josh Trent  12:22

So the first thing you have to do is stop being so forward flexed. Forward flex means that your shoulders are basically in front of your ears, you want to pull your shoulders at or behind your ears, that’s a big one. 

 

Josh Trent  12:33

The next one is you want to have your body straight. So you’ll have your spine, your hips and your head on a line. And actually, everyone imagine right now, wherever you are, imagine there’s a string in the very center of your head and the top of your head, and that string is pulling you up to the ceiling. 

 

Josh Trent  12:49

It would look and feel almost like just a slight tug, you’re lifting your head up, you’re creating a little bit of length in your neck. And that’s the best place to start. Now, if you’re laying down, it’s happening for you. Right, what Seth and I did and what a lot of students do is we’ll just lay on the ground with some pillows, because then you’re completely relaxed, right, your shoulders are back because gravity is pulling you back. 

 

Josh Trent  13:08

So the key here is we start with posture, there’s in these three phases. We start with posture, you do not want to be forward flexed, you want to be open, you want to be neutral, so neutral. The next is actually where you’re breathing. Most of us breathe through our scalenes, our sternocleidomastoid. And right basically here and our clavicle is we don’t want to do that. And Dr. Bliss of Ranch, one of my teachers, he talks about horizontal breathing versus vertical breathing, right? We are meant to be horizontal breathers, that means we breathe in and out, not up and down. 

 

Josh Trent  13:38

But we have been trained really by stress and by our parents Misty, that we just need to breathe like this. And we see it with Wim Hof. And we see with all these cathartic techniques, and that’s cool. And I’m sure we’ll talk about the different phases of breath work later. But breath work does not mean that you’re breathing up and down. breathwork means that you’re breathing in and out. That’s the one really clear distinction I want to make. So that’s the second thing. 

 

Josh Trent  14:02

The third thing is our actual style or a practicum of the breath work. And so what we’re going to do right now is I’m just going to take one hand, I’m gonna put my left hand on my heart, and we can all do it together. If you’re driving in a car, obviously, don’t do this because you need to pay attention to the wheel. Right hands on your stomach, right hands on your stomach, left hands on your heart. 

 

Josh Trent  14:21

I want everybody to just pull your shoulders back, sit up nice and straight or you can do this laying on the ground. Close your eyes and I want you to imagine you have just had a complete bath of relaxation, your eyes are relaxed, your jaw is relaxed. I want you to roll your jaw a few times in each direction. So three times to the left. Roll your jaw, relax your jaw. switch directions. 

 

Josh Trent  14:44

Now open and close your mouth a few times we hold a lot of tension in our jaw, maybe a yawn. I just get fully in your body. And when you breathe in through your nose, I want you to fill a balloon behind your belly button. So you’re gonna breathe thier nose, you’re gonna fill a balloon behind your belly button. Hold right there.

 

Josh Trent  15:07

Did you notice that you breathe into the balloon behind your belly button or did you notice that you breathe in your shoulders went up, let it go out of your mouth. Feel that right hand push your stomach closer to your spine, all the air is exiting the balloons do two more together. So you’re gonna breathe in through your nose, fill the balloon behind your belly in through your nose, fill the balloon behind your belly. Hold.

 

Josh Trent  15:32

See if you’re really having a mind muscle connection with your hand on your belly. Let it go to your mouth. Let’s do it one more time. And I really want everyone to focus on keeping your shoulders down. So breathe in through your nose, fill the balloon behind your belly. Let it go. So you’ll notice just for those three breaths that we did six is the sweet spot. 

 

Josh Trent  15:58

We’re obviously just priming the system and we can get into a deeper practice. But what we’re doing is we’re just priming the system so that you’re actually breathing where nature intended you to breathe. And that is the balloon, the imaginary balloon that’s behind your belly. And so with this, you’ll notice Misty, I don’t know if you notice personally, or maybe people with us right now felt like wow, I noticed that I actually breathe up instead of out. Did you feel you  breathe out? Or did you feel you breathe up? Which one felt more true for you? 

 

Misty Williams  16:26

Oh, like I was breathing both actually. 

 

Josh Trent  16:28

Okay, kind of but that’s cool. So you’re a mixed breather? Yeah, nothing wrong with that everything

 

Misty Williams  16:31

Going to the second time I was trying to be more intentional about breathing. 

 

Josh Trent  16:34

Yes. So what I would do if we are in your house right now, and obviously we can’t do this here in this interview. But I would have you lay on the ground, I would place a little sandbag on your belly. And I would cue you to breathe in through your nose and your belly would rise. 

 

Josh Trent  16:47

So in through your nose, belly rises in through your nose, belly rises, the balloon fills, exhale through your mouth, your belly collapses to the spine and the balloon empties. So that’s the really big piece that everyone needs to get. I don’t care who you are, how old you are, or your athletic ability. None of that matters. 

 

Josh Trent  17:06

All that matters is that you start queuing what’s called circular conscious breathing. Inhale through your nose, belly rises, exhale through your mouth, belly goes to spine. That’s it. You’re done. You don’t even have to listen to me anymore. 

 

Josh Trent  17:19

No, no, listen to me more, because there’s really good stuff to come. But that’s the base, right? We talked about our posture, we talked about the way that our muscles actually activate. 

 

Josh Trent  17:27

So we’re breathing in through our nose, our belly fills, we’re breathing out through our mouth, our belly empties. And then the last one is actually doing this for a specific purpose, right. So if you’re having an acute stressor, this is where we can talk about the three phases of breathwork. 

 

Josh Trent  17:40

If you have any acute stressor, you’re in a traffic accident, you’re fighting with your spouse, you’re about to go on a stage. Maybe you’re even in a psychedelic journey, whatever it is, you’re in an acute distress point, all of a sudden your stress went from 10% to 90% or 100%. 

 

Josh Trent  17:55

What do you do then with the art of the breath, that’s acute style breathing. That’s a very specific practice. Then there’s meditative breathing, meditative breathing is where you and I would sit. And we would do a seven to 12, maybe a 21 minute practice, that’s more meditative. And like you had your other expert who talks about this. That’s where you train your parasympathetic to be more strong and more resilient over time. Those are those longer, more meditation style or proactive style breathing. 

 

Josh Trent  18:21

And then there’s the final phase of breath, which has become the most popular but honestly, the most abused. And that is catharsis breathing, catharsis. Breathing is where you go 30-60 90 minutes where you’re doing Stan Grof or Wim Hof, or a very, very deep breathing journey. 

 

Josh Trent  18:37

I don’t recommend people go into that. I think people should start with the acute and the meditative. So that’s basically it with our posture, our style, our musculature, making sure we’re straight and making sure we’re breathing properly. We talked about the vertical and the horizontal, that’s the building blocks of the breath.

 

Misty Williams  18:53

Yeah. So I’m really into human design. I don’t know if you’re familiar with human design, Josh? If not, I

 

Josh Trent  18:59

Just had a reading recently with Barbara or someone else. No, not Barbara with someone else.

 

Misty Williams  19:03

Yeah. So I love human design. So beyond the scope of this conversation, unless you know about human design, basically I am emotionally defined and my partner is not. Okay. So that means that I’m on the wave. And when we are having a very intense conversation, my wave tends to go like my intensity goes up, up, up, up up, and floods his nervous system. He’s taking everything that I’m feeling and because he’s not in the way, he’s actually magnifying all of it. 

 

Misty Williams  19:34

So my fiery Leo is like overwhelming him. And one of the things that he has been guided to do when he’s feeling this fire is to breathe. Because what he will do is he’ll actually stop breathing. So this is an acute stress response. I am stressing him out. And he is breathing good. It’s really shallow, and it gets really constricted and he pulls in. And it is very unproductive for both of us. 

 

Misty Williams  20:07

So  I want to just offer that frame for those of you who may have found yourself, or someone who finds themselves in those situations where, there’s some kind of intense event happening like a bite or intense conversation with your spouse ever, you’d find that, I think going into some tools for what we can do in those moments, which are really valuable.

 

Josh Trent  20:32

Let’s do that. And I’ll tell you this, the greatest tool that you have is repetition. And I’ll say that and the subconscious, or maybe our novelty seeking brain won’t like it, or novelty seeking brains are going to be like, What do you mean, I’ll just practice? No, that’s it. I mean, you literally just have to practice. So what happens is when we select, let’s do an example, let’s say that for right now, I’ll be your partner and you can be you. 

 

Josh Trent  20:55

You might be the wave, he might be the island, you might be the anxious he might be the avoidant, however you want to describe it, there’s a lot of different frameworks of how we describe human psychology and how we relate to one another. 

 

Josh Trent  21:06

Basically, one energy is going outward and one energy is going inward. So how do we make it so that there’s less of a teeter totter where one person feels stressed? And the other person feels stressed? How do we equalize that the very first thing that we do is we vocalize it, this is the big one. 

 

Josh Trent  21:25

And this is what I’ve been practicing in my relationship to is like, okay, share what you’re feeling. And this is really big, a great resource for everyone here is called non violent communication, nonviolent communication. Very, very powerful movement started about 30-40 years ago. 

 

Josh Trent  21:41

In nonviolent communication, what you and I would do is like, let’s say you came to me, and you’re like, let’s say, for example, you’re pissed off that I didn’t take out the trash that you would say to me, Josh, I can’t believe you to take out the trash is like the fifth time. 

 

Josh Trent  21:53

And so I would have to literally, I would have to go like this. Take a breath in through my nose from my belly and breathe like an animal because we’re animals. Animals don’t breathe up and down, animals breathe out, in and I would let it go. That’s the first thing I would have to remind myself and train myself over time. 

 

Josh Trent  22:10

When you bring me that stimulus, when you bring me that stress, I would have to remind myself, just like I train in the gym, with biceps, I would have to train with you in a relationship. And I would say, I need to take a breath, or I need to give me a moment or hold on to something.

 

Josh Trent  22:25

You need an auditory cue, right? Because you are coming out the person and you’re like, I need something, I’m upset about something, you want to receive something. So I would pause and I would say I need to take a breath. And if I didn’t have time to even do that, I would just breathe without permission. 

 

Josh Trent  22:40

Then I would say, what I’m experiencing right now is, I would say to you, “I’m experiencing a tightness in my chest, I’m experiencing shame, I’m experiencing guilt. I definitely want to take out the trash and I apologize for missing that, or whatever it is, right? Or hey, the reason I didn’t take out the trash is because I had a call come through and honestly slipped my mind I care about you. I understand the trash is a big deal to you.” 

 

Josh Trent  23:07

That is a very high level of emotional intelligence, to the degree that we have processed our lowercase trauma, or our capital Trauma. Or if we have any interstitial tension from health issues that we’re having, if someone has more that someone has chronic stress that they really have never gotten a handle on or if they’re taking in too much caffeine, or if they have food sensitivities, I mean, Misty, this whole series, right? 

 

Josh Trent  23:30

There’s so many things that are running unconsciously or in the background, that cause people to be shifted over to that sympathetic and when I’m in sympathetic, and I’m not aware of it. And I’m not aware of my environment, and I’m not aware of the ways that the trauma I’ve experienced in my life actually is what makes me project and have less patience with my partner. It’s very difficult to do the exercise that I did with you now, which is to take a breath to verbalize in a non violent way. 

 

Josh Trent  23:57

“Hey!, this is what I’m experiencing. I’m feeling shame. I’m feeling this. I’m feeling fill in the blank because there’s more breath there. Like it’s tattooed on my arm for a reason it’s supposed to spit out a piece of shade today. And what that means in Italian is if I can breathe, I can choose so if I can breathe if I can.

 

Josh Trent  24:18

I totally forgot to take out the trash. I did but it makes me feel a lot of shame when this situation happens. It makes me feel a lot of shame. Makes me feel like some extra stress that I’m really having a hard time being at peace with here. I understand where you’re coming from and it makes me feel like this.” 

 

Josh Trent  24:37

Now the unconscious way to do that would be you come at me again and you go you didn’t take out the trash. “Oh my God, will you take out the trash? I’m busy.”

 

Josh Trent  24:47

That could be a traditional non evolved, not emotionally intelligent and no breath awareness type response. That’s a violent response. And what happens with couples and I’ve dealt with this myself is you go From one ping pong to the other, and before you know it, there’s insults and there’s things that are being said that are completely from the ancient brain, and from our child’s self, that have nothing to do with the loving adult, the responsible adult that’s inside of us. 

 

Josh Trent  25:13

And it’s because number one, we didn’t physiologically move ourselves to be an adult. So we didn’t take a breath, we didn’t have the awareness, take a breath. Number two is we actually just went into the same kind of channel that’s been grooved in our brain, from childhood to adolescence to the relationship we’re in now. And we just went with it. Because neurons that fire together, they close and wire together. 

 

Josh Trent  25:34

And so the same messages that are going back and forth to my body, to my brain I talked about earlier with the afferent and efferent currents, if I can train myself to be aware of that when I receive a current from my body, that’s fear. That’s shame. That’s grief, whatever it is, then instead of my mind being in control, and my mind saying, well shout at your partner and tell them they’re a jerk, that’s the opposite of what we want to do. 

 

Josh Trent  26:00

The first thing we want to do is to have somatic awareness, want to be awake, aware of what’s happening in my body, when you and I in this, quote, example, are having an argument. And what’s happening in my body is my breath goes away, my stomach tensions, maybe my posture changes, just be aware of all that first, and then shout it out to your partner.

 

Josh Trent  26:21

“Hey!, I noticed my posture change, I noticed my breath is gone, I noticed I’m feeling this shitty way. I’m gonna take a breath right now.” That is the number one thing to do. Here’s why it’s so hard. And I studied this for a long time. 

 

Josh Trent  26:35

The reason it’s so hard is because we have been conditioned since we came into the world, by our parents, siblings, grandparents, society, job, everything, everything in our world is constantly screaming at us to stay the same, to not grow, to not change, to not evolve to be more confrontational and less loving and less we have a conversation like this. 

 

Josh Trent  26:56

In this interview, where we’re interested in something different, where we’re going to use the art of the breath, to cue into with somatically going on with our body because the body knows way before the mind does. 

 

Josh Trent  27:07

The body knows way before the mind is. The mind’s job is literally to give and receive information and to keep us safe. That’s the mind’s job, right? It keeps us safe. And it gives and receives information. That’s it. It’s kind of a great servant, but it’s a really lousy master. So we need the body to talk to the mind. 

 

Josh Trent  27:24

The only way we can talk to the mind by being in the body is through the bridge of the breath. That’s it. Because we take it away, the bridge is gone. There’s no bridge between somatic and psychological. Yeah,

 

Misty Williams  27:37

One of the things that’s coming up for me as I’m listening to you explain all of this is how easy it is for me to access the part of myself that knows what I’m feeling. I’m feeling shame. I’m a female, first of all, and I think it’s just easier for women to know their feelings. And I’ve just been doing this work forever. So it’s very easy for me. But Roderick, my partner, it is not so easy for him. 

 

Misty Williams  28:04

And I know that there’s plenty of people watching who are like, I could take a breath. And then what am I feeling? How do I access that part of myself, it’s kind of a foreign concept because they’ve kind of been in a reactive state for so long, and maybe it hasn’t. 

 

Misty Williams  28:20

In Rodricks case, it was never safe for him to have feelings and to have an emotional response to anything. So he dealt with his childhood trauma by being apathetic. I don’t care, basically just shutting everything off. I’m just shutting down the whole power grid. Right. 

 

Misty Williams  28:37

So I’d love for you to speak to that because I know there’s people who are watching who are in that same situation of  getting present to like what I’m feeling in my body. I’ve never done this before in my life.

 

Josh Trent  28:49

Yeah, the god men have the four horsemen, which is powerful. And I’m gonna mess it up a little bit. But one of them is stonewalling. Right? When you Stonewall, or when you shut down, it’s actually one of the four determinants of what makes relationships fail is number one. Number one is stonewalling. Another is contempt. 

 

Josh Trent  29:08

But the stonewalling aspect is really, really sad. Because if you think about it, the only tool the person has is to Stonewall and icy cold shut down, to keep themselves safe. Because at the core of that way of being what it is, they want to keep themselves safe, right? 

 

Josh Trent  29:25

They learned that either in early childhood or adolescence or somewhere, that when they’re getting bombarded on when they’re getting attacked; when they’re getting shouted at; when their boundaries are being broken; and not respected as a child or an adolescent or a teenager or young adult. It’s such a sad yet potent, powerful strategy that’s really hard to unwind, because it does give them what they’re desiring and that is safety. 

 

Josh Trent  29:48

And so if someone feels safe by stonewalling to unwind that as an adult is a lot of work, it takes patience, it takes courage, and it takes really feeling all the feelings that we’ve not wanted to feel I read this somewhere once maybe it was in Bessel Vander Kolk work the Body Keeps the Score wasn’t or might have been impeded Levine’s work waking the Tiger I forgot where I read it, but somebody’s going to get to know exactly where it was. 

 

Josh Trent  30:10

Every single animal in the world remembers every attack, every blade of grass, every field they’ve been on. And we do too. We’ve just become so desensitized to our subconscious memory. Because a lot of those memories are really scary. And the conscious brain perceives it as threat memory, the brain, it sends and receives information and it keeps us safe. That’s his number one job, our conscious brain is not there for you to unwind your relationship with your father. That’s not its frickin job. 

 

Josh Trent  30:38

But that’s what needs to be done. So that we can stop projecting all of our stuff on our partners. And so there’s two, there’s two prongs to this. What has to happen is there has to be an open conversation about the dyad, about the style of attachment that’s been created. 

 

Josh Trent  30:55

When I first got with Carrie there, I was the anxious and she was the avoidant. And now that’s unwinding, right? It’s unwinding, and it’s flourishing into something else. But there has to be some deep deep work on that. Because when I can reflect on my childhood, my strategy wasn’t to shut down. My strategy was to go in, when I went in, I could fix it, I could talk about it, I could make it right, I could, I could help mom, I could help dad, I could do whatever, so that I would feel okay. 

 

Josh Trent  31:21

But isn’t that interesting, because one’s not worse than the other one’s not better than the other. Whether I go in or whether I go out, whether I shut down or whether I open up, none of them are right or wrong. They’re just a piece of their way of being that’s keeping us separate from ourselves and from the other person. 

 

Josh Trent  31:39

So the way you do that is you have the conversation with the person, you go into an altered state with the person altered state meaning not in your crazy child mind, not in your reactive mind, where you’re projecting your stuff onto them. The breath is a great tool. microdosing is a great tool, being in nature as a great tool, playing as a great tool.

 

Josh Trent  31:58

Novelty is a great tool, there’s so many tools that you can do. But you have to do them with your partner, not separately. And you do them separately for your own growth. But when it comes to this type of interaction, you have to deal with your partner. And then in that altered state, you share openly like, “Hey!, I know that what I’m about to share with you may bring up some emotions, or maybe uncomfortable talk about and I just want you to know how your being is okay, you’re safe to shut down if you need to. But I really require more. And I want to connect with you on a deeper level, I want to connect with you on a deeper level, or I want to love you more, something like that.”

 

Josh Trent  32:34

You can’t make that person different. All you can do is open up the door. But actually on a subconscious level. If you try to change your partner, they’ll resist you. And they won’t know why they’re doing it. It’s because you’re trying to change them. All you can do with nonviolent communication, all you can do is you can share from the eye. I feel this way. I want more love. I want to care for you. I want to express. 

 

Josh Trent  32:58

And also the third caveat that I’ll say is that when you are expressing to your partner, and you’re using your breath, and you’re breathing horizontally, not vertically, and you’re in your body, and you’re speaking from the heart, there’s just something magical that happens. I know this sounds like Whoo!. And that’s cool. Because like everything is spiritual. 

 

Josh Trent  33:01

But when you’re speaking from the heart, and when you’re in your body, and when you’re breathing, your partner is going to feel that from you. And there’s not going to be as much of a charge. Because the pattern that gets created with anxious avoidant is the avoidant feels powerful when they shut down. And the anxious feels powerful when they go in. But they’re both really unhealthy. Actually, neither one of them is healthy. 

 

Josh Trent  33:39

What’s most healthiest secure attachment and secure attachment comes by unwinding the anxious and the avoidant or the island and the wave. So that’s really the beginning of that conversation. It’s a lot more deep. But that’s the start of it.

 

Misty Williams  33:52

Yeah. All right. Well teach us strategies, what can we do with breath?

 

Josh Trent  33:59

Well, the first thing that we do is we tell the person, hey, I’m feeling this way. Let’s do some breathing together, or I’m going to do some breathing, you first ask for permission. And then when you get the permission, then you go to a space where you lay on the ground together, or you sit across from each other. 

 

Josh Trent  34:16

I actually have this really cool spray that I’ve been using from Dr. John Neurons, it’s called the Mito Zen spray. I don’t know if you’ve heard of it. It’s a really good one. So it’s oxytocin and hoppy. I do a little spray and that grounds me. And then what I’ll do is I’ll alternate nostril breathing, or I’ll do conscious connected breathing with my partner. 

 

Josh Trent  34:36

The conscious connected breathing is where we sit across from each other. And we’re actually mirroring our breath. So you and I can do that right now. I’ll put my hand on my heart, put my hand on my stomach, and I’m going to inhale through my nose and exhale through my mouth. 

 

Josh Trent  34:48

But every single time that I do that, I’m going to look right here at your third eye, I’m actually going to look in the space between your eyebrows. So inhale through your nose. Exhale through your mouth. Inhale through your nose a little deeper and exhale through your mouth for four seconds. Inhale nose for two. Last one I’m going to hold here for 10 seconds. 

 

Josh Trent  35:43

And in this place of stillness where you’re not breathing, and I’m not breathing, I’m just looking at your eyes, all the little micro muscles in your face start to relax, all the arguments and the anger start to lessen. Because you’re cueing yourself to an anchor, you’re cueing yourself to that 10 second hold. And then in one second, we’re gonna go out and breathe in through our nose. So go out and breathe in through your nose. Hold this for 10 seconds. 

 

Josh Trent  36:11

So here you’re feeling your heartbeat, you’re feeling maybe some of your anger, you’re feeling the heat of the moment, with your partner. Just keep holding this and just be at peace with this. And then when you exhale and a couple of seconds, feel into what they’re feeling. It’s returned to normal breathing. So I’m staring right between your eyes, I’m looking at your eyes. I’m doing six of those circular breaths to inhale for exhale. And then I’m holding for 10 while I’m taking a breath, then I’m holding for 10, then I’m breathing out. 

 

Josh Trent  36:50

That is the anchor that we need. Because when we’re angry, we’re upset. It’s kind of silly, don’t you agree? Misty, it’s kind of silly for us to keep going on, on the merry go round. And try to figure out who’s right and who’s wrong. Just stop it. Take the six breaths, do the 10 second hold, do the 10 second hold, go back to normal breathing, then respond to your partner. So 610 and 10. To inhale for exhale. That’s the best practice any of us could ever do. There’s other practices as well. But that’s a really good one to start.

 

Misty Williams  37:24

Yeah, I love that. I love simple. Let’s keep it simple so that people actually apply and don’t get overwhelmed. So that’s fantastic. So yeah, yes, yeah. So you talked about cultivating through habit, the breath. And I would imagine that there’s different practices for the moment that you’re in that fight or flight like are and the moments you’re just you know, I’m spending 20 minutes this morning, meditating, let me add some breath work in here to really build my tone.

 

Josh Trent  37:56

It’s a really good one because I love the two part breath. The two part breath is really good for meditative breathing. Because like, for example, let’s say someone is dealing with depression. And I’ve dealt with that my life depression is a focus on the past or rumination on the past. So when I’m experiencing depression, I’m really in the opposite of expression. 

 

Josh Trent  38:16

Isn’t that cool that the breath makes us breathe, and we breathe through it. So we can express how we’re feeling physically. If we do the breath, when a child cries, or when human beings cry. You notice most of the time they go like this. Right? It’s two part kind of. So we can mimic that in the two part breath like this. So you’re doing your meditation, maybe you’ve done two or four minutes or five minutes, depending on how much relaxation you need of circular breathing of what you and I just did, the two inhale the four exhale. 

 

Josh Trent  38:45

And then you get to a point where you really want to access some hurt, or you really want to access some grief or you really want to access some sadness, you want to get that depression out, you want to express the depression, the best way to do that is through a two part breath. 

 

Josh Trent  38:59

And so two part breath is you’re going to inhale quickly, twice through the nose, and it’ll look and feel just like this. So short, first long seconds, so short long. You do that for a minute, maybe two minutes straight to prep breath. First, small second longer. So short poll, long pull, one, two, exhale, one to exhale. And if you’ve given yourself enough spaciousness to do it, you’re probably going to cry. 

 

Josh Trent  39:36

I’ve made myself cry like that before. It’s really healthy for you actually. Because tears and grief and sadness or whatever you’re feeling it really just wants to come out anyways. So we may as well mimic the crying response. Right? And crying by the way is beautiful because I used to think especially as a man, I’m like, if you cry, you’re weak. That was a big thing when I was growing up. 

 

Josh Trent  39:56

And then in my 20s when I was a personal trainer, I’d have cry. I have Clients cry in their sessions with me and I always go home, I’d be like, Why the hell are these people crying in a training session, like what is going on. And it wasn’t until my mid 30s, where I made the connection, I was like, oh my god, Misty, they’re crying because their gloves allowing themselves to breathe. Working out, training, lifting weights isn’t just about the physical, it’s about the emotional as well. 

 

Josh Trent  40:22

So when we mimic that cry response, we give our nervous system a way to off gas, or to let go of some of the pressure that it’s been holding on to. So that’s a really big one, the two part breath with the short pole, long pole and the in the smooth exhale, for a minute to two minutes, that can induce a cry response.

 

Misty Williams  40:39

One of the things that’s coming up for me, as you’re talking about that is a conversation that I had with a friend talking about trauma. And he was explaining that in the wild, when animals experience trauma, their bodies often shake and vibrate, the trauma moves through them, and they, they allow it and then they’re able to move on. 

 

Misty Williams  40:59

And that trauma doesn’t get stored in their body like it does for us, because we’re clamping down, we are holding our breath, we’re holding things in. And we don’t allow things really to move through us. And I’ve certainly had times I remember one time doing hope, pono pono. And I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you. For those of you that aren’t familiar with oponopono. 

 

Misty Williams  41:24

I remember feeling I was going through a breakup and I was just really emotional and overwhelmed by everything. When I did help when I remember, I was actually feeling kind of numb, I was at that point of just feeling them. And I started saying I’m sorry, please forgive me. Thank you, I love you. And I was taking deep breaths as I was saying it. And I started bawling. I mean just sobs racking my whole body as I just let all of the emotion and the feeling move through me. 

 

Misty Williams  41:52

I remember in the moment thinking what am I crying about? Because it was so much bigger than what I perceived to be.Whatever I was experiencing through this breakup, it was almost like this exorcism of grief. And it was really powerful for me at that moment. And I think we all need strategies for digging in and giving us the opportunity to process what’s trapped inside. 

 

Misty Williams  42:17

Because we, if you’ve been on this earth for 20-30, 40-50 years, you’ve experienced trauma and overwhelm, and we have stuck trapped inside of our bodies. And we need a strategy for moving that energy. So that we can really heal.

 

Josh Trent  42:33

Yeah, think of the body as if it’s almost like a public library. Except for you’re the only one has the card. Your body’s like this library. And there’s all these volumes of things that have happened. And you know them on some kind of a subconscious level. This is why earlier I was talking about every animal that’s ever been in a field. Why do you think butterflies nowhere to fly? 

 

Josh Trent  42:53

Why do you think that certain animals know to avoid certain places, it’s because they store it in their primitive brain the same way it’s stored in yours and mine. But the thing is we live in a world that is not the world you and I live in. But we live in a world that the majority of people in society, if you show emotion other than confidence, or anger or frustration, then you’re somehow weak, being soft, or letting emotions move through you is is in the tightest turning on this right with this interview and with the work that we’re doing. 

 

Josh Trent  43:26

But what’s happening is we live in a society that just reinforces the stuck emotions. Because there’s a pill, there’s fast food, there’s alcohol, there’s drugs, there’s there’s like, literally, there’s a litany of distraction devices, weapons of mass distraction, that pull you and I away from our breath that pull us away from feeling these things and essentially, pull us away from shaking it off. Right? 

 

Josh Trent  43:50

Because to shake it off would then make you seem vulnerable to society, to where it even bothered you in the first place. And so it’s okay to shake it off, it’s okay to show that things have bothered you or that you’re sad or whatever it is. Because why why? Why would it even matter if we were successful, or if we have all the trappings of society, if we weren’t feeling good in our bodies, or if we weren’t feeling good about ourselves? 

 

Josh Trent  44:14

I mean, I’ve had that journey come to me all the time in my life. I’m in a phase of that journey now. And being a dad and like, the learning curve of letting the old life die and letting the new life come in. And the business is going to be this way now. And then letting the podcast burn down and then creating a new one. It’s placed like, I just think it keeps going. And I think we have to just keep feeling and keep expressing it all through the breath and through our emotional being.

 

Misty Williams  44:41

Yeah. All right, well take us into some daily practices with breath.

 

Josh Trent  44:46

So the best daily practice we can do is I actually do right here in the studio. I have a seated little stool where I put my knees below my hips, that’s the best one. You put your knees below your hips. If you’re doing it. I would actually recommend that you don’t do it standing. So you’re either kneeling or sitting, or you’re on a meditation cushion or whatnot. And what you’re gonna do is you’re going to do the two minutes of circular breathing like you and I did. Two minutes straight, have two inhale four exhale for two minutes. 

 

Josh Trent  45:14

And then after that, I want you to hold for as long as you can. So you’ve been getting this rich oxygen in right, you’ve been breathing in for two seconds, you’ve been exhaling for four seconds, after you do it for two minutes, just hold, maybe you can hold for 30 seconds, maybe you can hold for 60 seconds, maybe you can hold for 90 seconds. There’s no ego on this. It’s whatever you can do. And then when you go back to the two and four, so another two minutes of the to inhale, the four exhale, and then one last round of holding. And then after that, I promise you, your body will feel different. 

 

Josh Trent  45:45

That is the most potent practice that any of us could do. It’s a discipline Misty to really for two minutes to breathe in for two seconds and out for four, and then do your hold. And then breathe back in for two and now for another two minutes and another hold. That can be very challenging for certain people. 

 

Josh Trent  46:03

This is why in the brief program, we train people how to do this, with posture with videos that 1000s of students across the world do because sometimes we just need a little help, we just need a little helping hand to do it. Otherwise, we’d have to just do like an hour class where I would take you through a bunch of practices and that would be it. It would just be all practices. So that’s the best place to start right in your morning when your mind is probably the most open and most susceptible to your environment. And you can do it at nighttime too. 

 

Josh Trent  46:34

There’s a different practice for night, I can share with the nighttime practices too. But that morning practice is great. It’s deep, it’s proactive, it’s meditative. Two rounds of the two, four with two holds 3060 90 seconds each and then go back to your own breathing. That’s the best way to start your day. And it is probably going to be about five to seven minutes honestly, for that type of practice is very, very short, but very, very potent practice, the nighttime practice is different. 

 

Josh Trent  47:00

The nighttime practice, you’re going to want to do more of a box style breathing. So the box style breathing is meant for grounding. The circular breathing is meant for energy or exploration right or expression, if you will. That’s why when clients are depressed, we do circular breathing. When clients have anxiety, we do box breathing. And it’s a really key distinction. 

 

Josh Trent  47:21

So at nighttime, you would do two minutes of box breathing. Box breathing is you breathe in for five through your nose, you hold for five, you exhale for five out of your mouth. And then you hold for five at the bottom. And you just continue to do that. Inhale for five you draw box, hold, exhale, five, hold, inhale, hold, exhale, hold. That’s it. And then you do the same thing where at the end of that you just give yourself a 30 60/92 hold. And all that does is just cue you to be at peace with whatever stress that you have. 

 

Josh Trent  47:50

The only reason we do breath hold retention is so that we can be at peace with what we’re actually feeling. So we can actually connect somatically with what we’re feeling. And then after that you would do the exact same practice again and then do another hold for 30 60 90 seconds. And that would again take you about five to seven minutes. So anyone can do this. It’s circular in the morning and box at night. Or if you need it, maybe you’re feeling anxious in the morning. Maybe you do box in the morning. And circular at night. It just depends on whatever you need.

 

Misty Williams  48:21

I would love it if we could do some box breathing together to give everyone the opportunity to get this in their body. Yes, you experience it. And I’ve been practicing box breathing. I love it. It is very, it’s very grounding. Yes,

 

Josh Trent  48:37

It is the best. Here, I’m holding up a little square right here. Okay, so this is basically what we’re going to do, we’re going to breathe like a box. So first cue your posture, put your hands on your belly, you can do it eyes open, our eyes closed. I’m gonna do it with my eyes closed. I’m going to inhale through my nose for five, hold for five. exhale through your mouth for five, hold for five. Inhale through your nose for five. Hold for five. Exhale for five hold for five. 

 

Josh Trent  49:31

Last one we’re going to do two counts so inhale for two, hold for two, exhale for two, hold for two. So you can see we can mix up the practice we can do five seconds if we really need to ground. We can do two seconds if we just need to queue ourselves to get back on planet earth or feel like we need some kind of an anchor or pole position. But the longer you do, like if you were to do a 10 second And that would actually slow you down to the degree that you’re increasing the length of your box. That’s how much it’s going to slow down your mind or slow down your nervous system.

 

Misty Williams  50:12

Yeah, really powerful. Well, thank you so much for sharing us your Jedi secrets around breath. I hope everyone will really take seriously the opportunity that you have to do a simple, simple practice that is hugely important for your parasympathetic nervous system for parasympathetic tone. But ultimately, what does that mean, for us, it means healing. 

 

Misty Williams  50:33

And it’s my desire that we don’t just go through an event like this and hear a lot of great strategies and stories, but we actually get some tools where we can integrate some things into our lives that support us and being able to heal. 

 

Misty Williams  50:49

One of the things that breathwork is also really great for. I just want to share this, I may have mentioned it in another interview. But in 2011, when I had two surgeries back to back first surgery was to remove a cyst from my left ovary, they found endometriosis, when they opened me up, they removed my ovary along with the cyst and spent two hours surgery, removing scar tissue from my abdomen, stitched up part of my small intestine on the way out, which is not part of the procedure, sent me home, 

 

Misty Williams  51:17

I was able to get a hold of a doctor for six days, finally, was told to go to the emergency room, saw what they had done, we’ll leave that for another surgery, and sent me home. And I didn’t sleep for six days. And I don’t know if you’ve ever gone through a period of prolonged wakefulness, but it was torture. Yeah, I didn’t doze off. I didn’t have bad sleep. I was literally awake for over 144 hours and felt like I was just coming unraveled. 

 

Misty Williams  51:46

And I remember calling a friend who has a toolbox of Jedi tricks. And I didn’t even give him a lot of information. I just told him I’m not sleeping. And it’s been six days and I was weepy and emotional. I mean, you get to that point, and you’re like coming unraveled. And he gave me breathwork. He told me to breathe. And I wish I remembered actually what he gave me. If there was a rhythm to it, I’m pretty sure there was because it seems like I remember counting. 

 

Misty Williams  52:14

But I remember to get hanging up the phone with him and going and sitting on the floor. And just breathing. And I did it for 20 or 30 minutes. And I felt myself start to doze off. And I stood up from the floor was the middle of the day. I stood up, went over to my bed, I lay down. And I fell asleep for the first time in six days. And I think, Wow, what a fight looking back. 

 

Misty Williams  52:38

What if I hadn’t got that strategy for calming down my sympathetic nervous system? I mean, it was, it wasn’t a long time. It’s not like I did breath work throughout the day, for the whole day. It was about three minutes. And I was actually able to sleep. So it is profound, what breathwork does for our nervous system. And these are tools that all of us need to have if we’re really serious about healing.

 

Josh Trent  53:03

Yeah, it’s beautiful. You said that. And you know, there is one more thing I can share too. And Dr. Andrew Weil made this really popular, but I’m sure that he got it from Leonard or who was like the man that really brought breath to the west coast to America. And it’s a 478. So 478 is designed for sleep. And that might have been what your friend gave you. 

 

Misty Williams  53:24

Yeah, 

 

Josh Trent  53:25

Because what happens is when you really when you prolong your exhale, you’re yes, you’re cueing the relaxation response. But you’re also you’re turning down the volume. And we didn’t go too deep into this of your default mode network. 

 

Josh Trent  53:40

Your default mode network is whatever is scanning or ruminating in the past or scanning for danger in the future is the thing that pulls you out of flow that pulls you out of present moment that pulls you out of relaxation. So if you were to go for seconds in through your nose, hold for seven seconds. Exhale for eight seconds and go back to your 478. That’ll get you sleepy, excuse the relaxation response on a much deeper level because you’re extending your exhale. 

 

Josh Trent  54:18

You’re also holding on the seventh, you’re coming to terms with whatever stress you’re feeling whenever we do the breath, hold retentions to actually process and feel whatever stress we’re feeling. And then the four is just to get in a nice, smooth, clean flow of oxygen. So 478 is a really good tool for sleep. And that’s for all of us. 

 

Josh Trent  54:37

And this is the thing like I’ll tell you, most of the people that have either worked with me or that are in the breathe program, like they just love doing the box and the circular breathing every day. If you can just master the box and the circular breathing and just do a seven minute to a 21 minute practice on the daily. Over time. These things are just going to set in the myelin sheaths going to groove. You’re gonna have transformation over the course of time three weeks, two months, something very close to that.

 

Misty Williams  55:08

Yeah. Well, this has been really powerful. Awesome. I love that I was able to get you for this event. This was kind of a Hail Mary, we’re getting close to the finish line. Oh my god, I have to have Josh, come and talk to us about breathwork. So this was really fantastic. Josh, thank you so much for not only sharing with us but doing some demonstrations. I hope everyone got a lot of value out of actually doing the breath work.

 

Josh Trent  55:31

Yes, you’re welcome. Breathe like an animal y’all, breathe like an animal. Breathe out, don’t breathe up. 

 

Misty Williams  55:38

Mm hmm. This is one of those videos that you might want to watch. Again and again. Because being guided in these practices in the beginning is really, really helpful. Helps really get it anchored into your body gives you some confidence when you’re doing something new for the first time. So, Josh, if people are interested in learning more about you and your work and your breathe program, where can they find you online?

 

Josh Trent  56:02

Just go to breathwork.io It came to me when I was on a psychedelic journey. So you’ll have to go listen to my podcast, the Wellness Wisdom Podcast if you want to learn about that. That’s a joshtrent.com. You can go joshtrent.com for everything. But breathwork.io is for the breathe program. And that’s where y’all can learn a lot more depth and a lot more practicum about what we talked about today. So thanks, Misty.

 

Misty Williams  56:25

Yeah, this is fantastic. Well, thanks, everyone for spending a little time with us today.

 

Misty Williams  56:30

We’ll see you soon. That’s it for this week’s episode. Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby foggy and fatigued and to reclaim your life. If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

 

Josh Trent  56:58

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

Cheat Codes: How to Detox the Right Way from Sneaky Stressors Like Mold, Heavy Metals, Environmental Toxins & More

Detox Sneaky Stressors Like Mold, Heavy Metals, Environmental Toxins & More the right way
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Cheat Codes: How to Detox the Right Way from Sneaky Stressors Like Mold, Heavy Metals, Environmental Toxins & More

There is a piece to this whole puzzle that has been baffling to me as a patient for the last decade.

For years, I have struggled to get past the biohacking “props” like thyroid and hormone support, along with so many supplements to support energy and help me with my symptoms…

We were damming the waters, but not uncovering why we needed a dam in the first place.  

I knew something deeper was going on, but I didn’t know how to uncover what that was.

And the doctors didn’t help. 

But even after I learned about upstream stressors, I didn’t know how to uncover what was going on with me …

Or what I should do if we found anything.

When you start asking around, you’ll find that very few functional medicine practitioners actually know how to go this deep and help you heal.  

Ashley Smith has been working with Dr. Dan Pompa for years as his head health coach, and she pulled out the stops with this interview to share her best tips with us!  In this interview, we’ll be tackling questions like…

What are upstream stressors and how do I properly test for them??

What should I be looking for when vetting for practitioners to help me?

How do I heal these stressors? 

I want you to feel empowered around finding someone who can help you in this journey. 

Most importantly, you are the person who’s ultimately responsible for your health. So I want you to be aware of the root causes of why 90% of us are dealing with symptoms. 

At the end of the day, it’s your body… and when you know what’s happening inside, you can take charge and create your healing.

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5:06  One of the upstream stressors found in your body: HINT: it could be hiding in your mouth

6:22 This type of upstream stressor is commonly found in the environment we live in

12:08 This type of detoxification can draw out mold from your body

14:49  How to vet for an expert practitioner who can truly deal with dental infections and cavitations

23:44 How to physically manipulate and draw out mold and toxins from your body

30:23 The different tests you should take to draw out heavy metals from your body

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transcript

Misty Williams  00:01

Hey, sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healingrosie.com. And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie Radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday, we created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister, it is possible. 

 

Misty Williams  00:20

I am thrilled to have my friend Ashley interviewing with us today because there is a piece to this whole puzzle that has been baffling to me as a patient for the last decade. And it relates to really uncovering the upstream stressors. And even after having conversations with really amazing experts in our space about upstream stressors and what they are, it still was challenging for me as a patient as someone who was not a practitioner, to figure out how to properly eradicate things. 

 

Misty Williams  00:49

And my experience also was that a lot of really great practitioners that I worked with weren’t necessarily experts in toxicity. So while they could help with some of the symptoms, I was dealing with really eradicating those symptoms, wheelhouse and, that can be challenging in its own way. So I wanted to talk to Ashley because she has been working with Dr. Pompa for quite a while. She’s a practitioner for him and knows a lot about detoxification and how to really deal with these upstream stressors. And today, we’re going to dig in to that whole juicy conversation. 

 

Misty Williams  01:17

My goal for all of us is to complete this interview feeling a lot more clarity around what we need to do to uncover the upstream stressors, how do you properly test what are the upstream stressors? 

 

Misty Williams  01:29

We’re gonna get into that? And then how do you properly test for them? And then how do you go about eradicating these stressors. So we’re going to Firehose you like crazy, this is gonna be one of those interviews where you’re probably gonna want to hit pause, and rewind or maybe listen to a few times and take some notes.

 

Misty Williams  01:42

It would be impossible for us to really do this justice in an interview format, meaning there’s a lot of nuance to how you go about detoxification that we’re not going to be able to get into in this conversation. But I want you to be empowered with enough of the know how that you can properly vet practitioners and find someone to help you on this journey and have some clarity as the person who’s ultimately responsible for your health on what you’re looking for. 

 

Misty Williams  02:04

So you know, if someone could really help you with detoxification so Welcome, Ashley. I’m so glad you’re here. 

 

Ashley Smith  02:08

Hey, what an intro. Thank you for having me. 

 

Misty Williams  02:11

Yeah, well, let’s just dive right in because we have a lot of ground to cover here. And I want to start with this idea of upstream stressors because as I’ve mentioned, in other interviews, I have these diagnoses and Demetrio says premature ovarian failure. I have nodules on my thyroid. I’ve dealt with hypothyroidism. I’ve labels basically, like here’s all the things that are basically off in my body, and then there tends to be in our space, a lot of biohacking. I guess we could call it health hacking. 

 

Misty Williams  02:39

Well, when you have that condition, here’s some things that you can do to give your body extra support. And what I found over a decade is that I benefited from the extra support. But I was still always having to deal with these symptoms. I was still having to deal with the disease and do these crazy lifestyle modifications, diet eliminations, all the things to manage the condition, which isn’t the same as healing it to end. 

 

Misty Williams  03:03

The last few years, I have really been trying to dig my teeth into this healing thing. I think I’m making some good progress. But I say trying because it’s challenging when you find out that a lot of the really smart practitioners in our space that can teach you a lot about a lot of things actually don’t understand this upstream stressor challenge that we’re having. 

 

Misty Williams  03:21

And I want everyone to be aware of the root causes of probably why 90% of us are dealing with any symptomology at all, it’s because we have these upstream stressors that are making us sick. And I’m excited for us to just start unpacking that. So maybe we could just start out with you giving us an overview on what the major upstream stressors are?

 

Ashley Smith  03:41

That is such a good question. And it is always important to look at the cause. Right? So we as holistic practitioners, we don’t follow the band aid approach. We don’t do symptom management. And that’s what the medical model is, symptom management, you go to your doctor, you let them know what’s going on, they might run some labs, and they just give you something for it and your symptoms might subside for a little while until they don’t they come back even worse, and the doctor might adjust your medication from there. 

 

Ashley Smith  04:06

And so what we do differently is figuring out well, why do you have these problems to begin with? Now these are often if you have, let’s say your hypothyroid or you suddenly have autoimmune conditions that pop up, those aren’t your problem. Those are symptoms of the bigger problem. We want to ask, well, what is the bigger problem? What is causing you this autoimmune flare? What is causing your epigenetics, your genes, to turn on? We all have these gene expressions that can be turned on or off due to lifestyle. We want to ask these questions and a lot of practitioners miss the mark. 

 

Ashley Smith  04:39

And so a lot of the upstream root causes, all the upstream stressors, that I see all the time, are heavy metals, right. One of the biggest sources of heavy metals are amalgam fillings that are in your teeth. Sometimes we don’t even know we have them. They can be buried under a crown. Sometimes you’ve had it for so long. You barely even know it’s there or your dentist says “oh!, Mercury’s totally safe or the fillings I use, they’re fine. It’s more dangerous to remove them than to leave them in. It’s just so small. So that is huge. 

 

Ashley Smith  05:10

So I believe anyone who has any amalgam in their teeth needs to get that removed by a skilled biological dentist who’s practices safe Mercury removal. Now, if sometimes we never have amalgam fillings, but we still might struggle with high mercury, a lot of times that could just be passed on to us in utero. So if your mother had a lot of amalgam fillings, and especially if you were the firstborn, there’s a good chance that you were born with a toxic burden that might not have presented itself to you until further along in your life, but it’s not going to detox itself. So we still need to get it out of you. 

 

Ashley Smith  05:44

Mold is another big one. So a lot of people either currently live or have lived in moldy environments or worked in moldy environments, or spent a lot of time in buildings that are filled with mold. And so again, we bioaccumulate something like mold over many, many years. And again, we don’t know it’s there until our bucket literally spills over. And suddenly, we’re dealing with all kinds of health problems that we don’t want to just manage the symptoms. 

 

Ashley Smith  06:12

We want to figure out what is this here, and a lot of times, there’s several things going on. It’s the metals and the mold. And it could be Lyme. Lyme is a big one. It could be stored viruses and bacteria. Things that maybe we’ve had. We have a lot of bacterial infections or viruses as a child, just store in your cell membrane, just like other toxins. And it can be environmental. It could be glyphosate. It can be even what you might eat organic food, but maybe your neighbor sprays roundup on their lawn, and you’re breathing that in every time you go outside. 

 

Ashley Smith  06:44

So it’s really just getting to figure out the chemical, the emotional and the physical stress. And when I say emotional, too, it’s a lot of past trauma, a lot of things that can also sort of be stored in our bodies. And so we have this analogy where you just keep adding the stressors. Adding, adding, and adding over your lifetime, eventually, it’s going to spill over. And that’s when you deal with these major health symptoms or conditions or diagnoses from your doctor, that just feels like it happened overnight. But it really took a while to get to that point. And then we need to undo it figure out what you know what tipped it over. 

 

Misty Williams  07:20

So let’s kind of unpack each one of these stressors. You started with the dental stressors, which I think is a very significant part of the conversation, I actually found out that I had an infected root canal, when I started engaging with all this kind of stuff that had to be removed, they did check my cavitations actually cut into my mouth, and I didn’t have cavitations. But as I’ve been hearing you talk more about how to properly X ray your mouth for that. There’s a part of me that feels like they really not have cavitations.

 

Misty Williams  07:48

There’s ways of going about things. So I’d like for us to start with dental infections, and then we can move to metals and mold and even chemicals. And let’s talk about how to properly test for each of these things. And then let’s talk about the components of a great protocol, like what do you actually do,

 

Ashley Smith  08:03

right? Absolutely. Now, a lot of clients when they decide to do things this way, like a more of a holistic whole body approach, they have probably done tons of bloodwork, right? The doctor is like” Oh!, it looks normal, you’re within normal range. You’re fine.” But you know, you’re not fine. There’s something else going on. So sometimes a test, a more holistic version of a test that actually looks for what we want to see in a lab can be great. 

 

Ashley Smith  08:29

However, we store so many toxins deep in our cell membrane and in our brain. And testing often tells you what you’re excreting; it doesn’t necessarily show you what is stored. So testing is very useful. But sometimes you want to maybe present work with a skilled practitioner who does this kind of work. And have them look at your health history. Have them talk to you about what you are struggling with, sometimes you almost need to just get into a cellular detox to start pulling things out. So they are exposed, then maybe do a little testing as things are not so deeply stored. 

 

Ashley Smith  09:05

So if you start on day one, I’m testing you all over the place. I’m not doing my job, because I’m actually probably having a test for a bunch of things that aren’t going to show up in a lab. So we kind of want to uncover we don’t almost want to peel back the layers a little bit before we start to see things that become more obvious to us like “Okay!, now you came to me with this, but now I’m actually seeing things that are indicative of mold. And based on what you’ve shared with me about how you lived in a moldy home for 40 years. And you were cleaning it by yourself without protection. It’s very likely that we’re dealing with a mold issue here. And so there are some really good tests that will give us sort of a baseline. But sometimes you can just start detoxing.

 

Misty Williams  09:49

I want to add a point of clarification on this. The reason why you wouldn’t test right away is because your body does everything it can to get all these toxins out of your bloodstream out of your kidneys. All the pathways of the body, when the toxicity is in those pathways. It’s very toxic so your body does everything it can to store those. 

 

Misty Williams  10:11

And in my case, that’s one of the reasons that I’ve struggled so much with my weight going up and down and like not being able to keep it stable is because I’m storing a lot of toxicity. And my body is trying to save my life actually, by doing all that storage. But just so that people understand what you mean, when you say you wouldn’t want to test right away, it’s just because it’s hard to get to the thing that’s stored, and that’s sort of like biopsy and you’re fat or something to see what’s in there. The normal fluids of the body that we can test to see what’s in it aren’t going to display so. 

 

Misty Williams  10:43

So starting with some cellular detoxification, as you just described, could be a good start. And I would say I did my mold test after phase two of true cellular detox. So in the TCD program I had everything stirred up pretty well, so that we could actually see what was going on in my body. But that’s a really good takeaway. 

 

Misty Williams  10:57

So let’s go back to the dental stuff. Let’s talk about how you test for dental infections and stuff going on with your mouth.

 

Ashley Smith  11:02

Well, dental infections, that is something that your dentist, your skilled biological dentist know. Unfortunately, there’s a small list of dentists who we trust, but that list is growing because I do think the industry is catching on slightly. But you do want to, if you suspect dental infections, or cavitations, or infected root canals, really, the only way to know is to get what’s called a cone beam (Cone-beam computed tomography systems) scan CBCT as the other word for it. 

 

Ashley Smith  11:31

It’s the only way to actually see what’s going on. It’s a 3D image, it’s not the same as a 3D X-ray, it’s actually a machine that goes all the way around your head, when you’re done. This puts it up on a screen to look at it. It actually the whole image moves like that they’re milled, they’re moving the whole image like that. So if your dentist is telling you that they’re doing it, but it’s just a flat image on a screen, it’s not the right test. 

 

Ashley Smith  11:51

And they really need a very skilled eye to see those I was standing next to my dentist and she was looking at mine. And she saw things that I couldn’t have possibly seen. Of course, I’m not a dentist, but she was like, “See this hole here. And I’m like, I don’t see that”, then I think if you’re not trained, you’re not going to see it either. 

 

Ashley Smith  12:05

So you really want to probably not only find a biological dentist who is trained in either like a smart procedure, which is a safe Mercury removal, that’s probably one of your best bets to find someone who even goes a step further to look for hidden infections and cavitations in your mouth. Because they’re hidden for a reason, we often don’t have the symptoms.

 

Ashley Smith  12:26

People might have these root canals. Now 100% of root canals are infected. That is a fact. And so people will think, Well, my root canal isn’t bothering me, it’s fine. My dentist said it’s great. It looks amazing. Well, it’s fine for now, But the infection could grow. Eventually, that could be one of those things that tip your bucket over later. 

 

Ashley Smith  12:44

Cavitations usually come from extraction. So if you ever had wisdom teeth removed, which who hasn’t really, or any other kind of tooth extracted, it leaves behind basically a hole. And once it heals, that hole actually can stay filled with bacteria or infection. And it can just sort of grow over time. And the only way to see it is through this 3d image.

 

Ashley Smith  13:05

We want to get in there and clean it out and seal it up with like some ozone and laser and some PRF. This is going down a big dental rabbit hole, of course, but you need to find a dentist who believes things this way that your health really does start in your mouth. And you can’t heal a body, if you don’t heal your mouth,

 

Misty Williams  13:26

I want to add a little clarification on the cavitation thing, as I understand it, when dentists extract teeth, they often leave ligaments behind. 

 

Ashley Smith  13:33

Yeah, 

 

Misty Williams  13:34

When those ligaments are there, your body thinks the tooth is still there, so therefore you don’t properly heal that pocket. And that’s really where the cavitations come from. It’s the improper removal, the cheaper you don’t get everything out. So just people understand why you get cavitations. That’s the primary cause of cavitations. There might be some other nuanced things that can also contribute to cavitations in the mouth. But when your mouth doesn’t heal, that bacteria gets trapped inside your jaw. And then over time, it can actually eat away at your jaw and cause all sorts of issues. 

 

Misty Williams  14:05

Here’s your jaw and here’s your brain, right? You’re talking about infections that are really, really close to your brain. Like if you could pop up on the top of my head, like right beyond my nose, you would see my pineal gland, right? I mean, it’s like right there. It’s not protected by the blood brain barrier. You said that so you think about the vulnerability that we all have of infections being so close.

 

Ashley Smith  14:28

it’s here, but your lymph nodes are here too, right? So there’s studies that show that women with breast cancer, as it turns out, they have a cavitation or an infection on that side of their body. It happens very often so.

 

Misty Williams  14:39

So you definitely this isn’t one of those things where like, “Wait!, do you have symptoms?”. I think when you have symptoms, it’s a dangerous time. Let’s be proactive and get it out. 

 

Misty Williams  14:49

Okay, I want you to clarify on this cone beam stuff because not all Cone Beam scans are created equal and not every dentist that can do a cone beam necessarily knows how to properly read that. So how do you vet for the right cone beam and a dentist that actually can read the code?

 

Ashley Smith  15:03

I have a working list along with Dr. Pompa, we’ve been creating this list of dentists who we have personally vetted, either with ourselves in our own families or with colleagues, who we’ll call the dentist and say, do you do this? Do you use that? Do you use this, and if it’s no on any of them, they do not make it into the list. And so a lot of them though, we have arrangements where they’ll work with you virtually. 

 

Ashley Smith  15:23

So you might be able to go to a clinic, you can maybe even go to a local radiology office. They know nothing about cavitations, they just do the scan, because they were told to do it. You can get the file and send it in to one of our dentists who can do a virtual consult with you let you know what’s going on. And then from there, you have to decide, maybe this, maybe one of our dentists can help you find someone locally who can actually do the procedure, because it is surgical, it’s really the only way you can take care of cavitations. 

 

Ashley Smith  15:50

Maybe it’s something you want to consider to travel, and maybe it’s not too far away, and you can actually go and just do it right and have peace of mind that it’s going to be handled properly. But you really want to be very careful about who you go to, because I’ve heard of a lot of cavitation surgeries not working, they don’t stick, they don’t use all the proper things to seal you up afterwards.

 

Misty Williams  16:11

What are some of these proper things?

 

Ashley Smith  16:13

Well, there’s three main things, if you’re getting cavitation surgery that need to happen. One is, after the surgery, you want to get ozone. So you want to definitely kill any lingering infection with the ozone, they really want to get in there. Basically, you’re opening up the wound, like let’s say your wisdom teeth sights, I just had this procedure done a year ago. And same thing, no symptoms, but I just felt like I’m gonna get a comb beam. And it turned out I had four really deep cavitations. 

 

Ashley Smith  16:36

So they opened you up, they basically pull out all of the visible infection, and then you want to kill whatever they don’t see, with ozone, then you want to seal it up a laser, so you’re really sealing it up. So you’re like basically causing rapid healing on the site right there. So when they stitch you up, there isn’t a chance of trapping anything there. Everything has been basically killed right there. 

 

Ashley Smith  16:58

And then you want to do something called Platelet-rich Fibrin or PRF where basically, they take some a blood sample of yours. Before the procedure, they usually just take it from your arm or something, they spin it in this machine. And what it basically does is it creates fresh stem cells that they inject right into the site when you’re done with your surgery. So you’re just getting this like amazing stem cell treatment from your own body. 

 

Ashley Smith  17:18

So those three things if they do all three of those things, and if you call a dentist and ask do you do ozone, laser and PRF and they know what you’re talking about, that’s a really good sign. That you’re probably in pretty good hands, if they know what those things are, why they would be used.

 

Misty Williams  17:32

Awesome. Yeah. Okay, dental stuff. That was very great information. I hope everyone is taking notes. Because this is the kind of stuff that’s hard to find out as a patient, I can tell you talk to practitioners, and they just want you to be their patient, and then you don’t really know if you even have a good practitioner that really knows what they’re doing. So this is super helpful. 

 

Misty Williams  17:48

Okay, let’s keep moving on here. Let’s talk about mold. People that are watching probably have heard me in other interviews talked about my experience with being diagnosed last summer with mold. That diagnosis was the result of me going to my practitioner and saying something is off. And we have got to figure this out. And I want to run every test we can to figure it out. 

 

Misty Williams  18:03

There was a couple blood tests that we ran with an inflammatory markers that were through the roof. we didn’t test. We did the mold, micro mycotoxin test and Great Plains, and found the mold, and I’ve been working a detox protocol since then. So talk to us a little bit about mold. Mold is one of those things that can be hard to test for, as you kind of alluded to when you first introduced this topic for our listeners. 

 

Misty Williams  18:26

So let’s talk about how to properly provoke. Do the provocation so that you can actually pick mold up on a test? And then what does a good mold protocol look like? And then I have a couple questions that oh,

 

Ashley Smith  18:37

yeah, of course. So yeah, mold is one of the more difficult things. I’ve talked to you about your own health stuff. I know, it’s so frustrating, and you think you’re onto something and then suddenly you’re not and it’s very difficult to test for. 

 

Ashley Smith  18:50

Now for me, I’m just going to tell you, when I’ve tested for mold before because I had the classic symptoms, a lot of sinus issues. If I go into a kind of a damp room, I flare, I definitely get puffy and my nose runs. And I feel very sensitive to things like that. So I was like, Sure. And I feel like I’ve lived in places that were just moldy, tested negative several, several times. I’ve done all the tests. 

 

Ashley Smith  19:13

When I had my cavitation surgery, they sent a sample of what they scraped out of my cavitations to pathology and it came back filled with mold. So even if my mold tests had shown me I had mold, removing the source is the most important thing. And so I wouldn’t even attempt to put somebody through a real mold detox until we know that they’re not still living in the mold. Because it’s like drying off in a shower, right? Like you’re just not going to make much progress at all. So you need to make sure you’re out of the environment. 

 

Ashley Smith  19:41

You might not even know sometimes. If you can get one test, sometimes I want you to test your environment more than I want you to test your body because if it’s in your environment, it’s in your body. So we want to make sure, Is your home free of mold?. Okay, great. Then let’s figure out if the mold is in your body from maybe somewhere else you lived or were exposed to then we can start pulling it out other ways you’re wasting your time. 

 

Ashley Smith  20:01

But for me, I couldn’t have possibly gotten the mold out with anything. If I didn’t remove the physical source that was stored in my jaw, and then from there, I was able to actually flawlessly start detoxing it because the source was removed. And so we really want to figure out what’s the source, is it in our home, is it from a prior living situation, it’s just super duper important. So that’s like one of the first pieces of the puzzle. 

 

Ashley Smith  20:25

But like you experience Misty, it definitely requires the right kind of tests, there are several mold tests, some of them are really, really good, but they’re still not perfect, there really is no perfect test for anything I wish that there was. But we really want to figure out what we’re dealing with here, right. And again, we need to provoke it, we need to make sure it’s exposed. The thing about cellular detox that I specialize in is it never causes new issues in your body. I say this all the time. 

 

Ashley Smith  20:52

But it is exposing issues that you’ve had all along that maybe you knew about, maybe you didn’t, but we’re not causing any pain, we’re just exposing things, we’re getting them out of hiding, we’re making sure that they have nowhere to bury themselves in your body anymore. And then we can properly get rid of these things.

 

Misty Williams  21:09

Can mold hide?

 

Misty Williams  21:10

You just said mold can hide in cavitations. I am aware that mold can be in breast implants. There’s a lot of women in our community who have dealt with breast implant illness, and they have lots of mold issues from their implant. So that’s another thing that can be, not necessarily from your environment kind of thing, so if it’s in your mouth, it’s in your breast implants. Are there any other major thing like that, that people should be aware of that mold could just be?

 

Ashley Smith  21:30

Mold loves heavy metals, and hides around heavy metals. So even if like, let’s say, again, you don’t have like amalgam fillings in your office, maybe you did at one time, and you do have stored mercury in your cell, the mold loves, like hiding there and getting all cozy there. So yeah, heavy metals are sadly if somebody has some sort of metal, like implant in their body, like the mold can really like live around it. So just being aware of any sources. But yeah, mold really loves those metals. 

 

Ashley Smith  21:57

We live in a toxic world. So there’s a lot of exposures to heavy metals and it’s not just mercury, it’s lead. It’s gadolinium. It’s aluminum. It’s all kinds of things that we grew up with and didn’t really know how bad it was.

 

Misty Williams  22:09

So how do we provoke if we are ready to do some testing for mold? What does provocation look like so that we actually pick up what’s in our body?

 

Ashley Smith  22:18

Well, it depends on the test, not all of them need a provoking agent, the only provoking agent, I tend to use is DMSA. And that is actually for like a bigger test that I like to run. That’s heavy metals. And but it can also give you an idea of what else you might be dealing with there. So DMSA is a really good provoking agent. And basically, it’s better for metals than for mold. But it will tease things out of your cell. It’ll kind of crack your cell membrane open and pull things out. So they’re exposed and then the test works better than, again, you only pick up on tests what you’re actually excreting and not what is stored. Yeah, okay.

 

Misty Williams  22:54

So mold. We talked about provocation and testing. What’s your favorite test for mold?

 

Ashley Smith  23:01

I’m the Great Lakes is a pretty decent one. Yeah, it’s a good one. Okay.

 

Misty Williams  23:06

And then what does a good mold protocol typically look like? Obviously, you got to first eradicate whatever’s in your environment. Number one, yes. And so once you’ve done that, and your environment is mold free, then what is a good mold protocol typically look like? 

 

Ashley Smith  23:19

Oh, gosh, it could be many, many months. And we like to rotate things, but it’s a lot of binders. Now, a mold protocol would never just be done all by itself, we want to set a foundation, because again, there’s a lot and there’s always a cofactor. It’s never going to be just the mold. Mold is going to attach itself to something else. So we want to do a bass line of a cellular detox, it’s gonna pull out metals, environmental toxins, all kinds of things. 

 

Ashley Smith  23:44

And then add in a mold protocol, maybe after a couple of months, and you’re really doing just a lot of heavy binding, but you’re doing the cellular detox, to basically support the body, you want to support the detox pathways, you need to make sure that your liver, your kidneys, your lymphatic system, everything is working. 

 

Ashley Smith  24:03

Because if you detox improperly, you’re just going to recirculate, you’re just gonna pull things a little bit, they’re going to recirculate and they’re going to just get reabsorbed, which is worse than just leaving things alone. And we don’t want to do that either. So we really need to make sure your body is equipped to release things like you said earlier, sometimes these things are stored to protect us. 

 

Ashley Smith  24:21

So your body doesn’t naturally, you think it would want to naturally get rid of these things. But sometimes it’s keeping things as a protective measure because it thinks it’s saving your life. So we want to support the body and almost build this trust with yourself and your body that we’re going to let these things out now. 

 

Ashley Smith  24:35

But we’re going to also make sure we have all these catcher’s mitts in place by properly binding and rotating. We use a lot of butyrate, like a sodium butyrate, potassium butyrate, things that can really just get in and attract the mold out of the cell, but there’s a constant rotation because if you do the same thing for too long, it’s going to stop working.

 

Misty Williams  24:55

So binders are part of the protocol. I remember When my practitioner started me down the protocol, she wanted me to do a lot of lymphatic support. So I’m doing jumping on the rebounder. I’m doing dry brushing. What can we do to get that lymph moving, I’m doing sauna. Taking her to die while I’m in the sauna. What are some other things that are frequently part of a good detox protocol for mold? 

 

Ashley Smith  25:21

Great,

 

Ashley Smith  25:21

Great point there. Yeah, you want to keep the lymph moving, you want to also keep the liver really nice and healthy. So coffee enemas are wonderful saunas, like you mentioned. And we always want to take binders, when we are doing a manual manipulation of detox. So anytime you go into a sauna, or do a coffee enema, or even get a deep tissue massage, where you’re really pushing some stuff out, it’s good to go in with some binders, to kind of just catch anything that might be triggered loose in your body. 

 

Ashley Smith  25:21

Dry Brushing like you said, castor oil packs, there are some manual manipulation techniques where you can just do like a tapping technique and all your lymph nodes and just to kind of get your lymph moving, Epsom salt baths. So doing supplements are great. 

 

Ashley Smith  25:47

But we also want to just do the manual stuff as much as possible and really supporting the gut. We really need a nice, intact gut lining, a really nice healthy gut lining so we can even assimilate all of the things we’re trying to put in our bodies. So if your gut is a mess, we really need to heal the gut, as well. 

 

Misty Williams  26:19

It’s not something that you would do before you started doing binders.

 

Ashley Smith  26:21

Yes, I do got work right away. And we also want to look at the diet diet. It sounds so simple, but it’s not there can be so many stressors in the diet, it’s just another one of the stressors that we want to remove are food stressors, and so eating things that might be triggering your symptoms, it could be healthy things, but we want to figure out what you might be eating or how often you’re eating or not eating enough. I mean, that could be part of it, too. So digging into diet is huge.

 

Misty Williams  26:48

So I’ve had several women in the healing Rosie community reach out to me recently because they know they have a toxicity problem and a mold problem. Their big challenge is they’re working with doctors or their bodies are really sensitive, right, and they’re working with doctors, and they’re experiencing so much hoaxing from the detox, that it’s shutting them down. They obviously so uncomfortable, some of the symptoms that get stirred up from detox for people that are really sensitive, can be debilitating, right. 

 

Misty Williams  27:16

So then it’s like, how do I find someone who knows how to deal with someone who’s really sensitive? It seems the pattern that I’ve seen in speaking with practitioners that I think are really good in this space, including Dr. Pompa. but there’s others, too. The strategy behind dealing with someone who’s really sensitive is to go very slow. 

 

Misty Williams  27:35

I would love for you just to talk a little bit about maybe your experience with patients that are super sensitive, and how do you and what can the patient do to take some initiative around modifying their protocols so that they’re able to actually detox it’s not a “either or proposition” for them.

 

Ashley Smith  27:50

Absolutely!. I always say detox is something that first of all years, not months, it could take so long to actually get to a place where we feel like we’ve made a lot of progress, or that maybe we’re like done, even though I don’t know, if you’re ever done, I think the way I view it, I’m sure you do, too. Like we’re never a work in progress, we’re always going to be honing in on something or perfecting something in our bodies in some way. Plus, we live in a toxic world. So I think there’s as you travel, if you ever go anywhere, like you’re going to need to maintain. 

 

Ashley Smith  28:17

But in the beginning, I mean, I look at it, like, I’m a teacher, I want to teach you how to detox, I don’t want to just tell you, I don’t want to just tell you what to take, how much to take or lower this or increase that. I want to explain why. Here’s what I’m going to do, I’m going to like have you take one drop of this. And I’m going to take one capsule of that. And I want you to understand why I’m telling you this. So in the future, maybe five months from now, maybe we’re not working as intimately together, you’ll know, you’ll remember what I said, but you can always slow down. 

 

Ashley Smith  28:48

In fact, I have a lot of clients who are very aggressive and they want to speed it up. We can’t determine how quickly we detox. the body is going to go at the pace, it’s going to go out we’re very big into the innate intelligence, our body really does want to heal, our body does have the power to heal, we just need to give it the proper tools. 

 

Ashley Smith  29:04

But I can’t say I want to detox in three months. That’s not up to me. I’m just giving my body the tools and my body is going to go at the pace that it’s gonna go. And so there is no harm in slowing down. We don’t want you to be miserable. 

 

Ashley Smith  29:16

I like to say I have very few clients who have ever missed a day of work or been like so sick. I mean, they might feel terrible. But we nip it in the bud and we make modifications, which is why it’s really important to work with somebody who understands detox and not just some one size fits all thing because it’s really not. It’s not super easy, especially for those sensitive clients. So you could always way way way lower the dose, sometimes increasing binders to be helpful and again, the lymphatic work could be huge.

 

Misty Williams  29:46

We’ve talked about metals. So you gave us a little teaser on testing for metals using DMSA. I know you have DMSA can be hard to come by. So maybe you could share with people where they might be able to get DMSA ideally you’re still working with the practitioner on this. 

 

Misty Williams  30:00

I like the idea because I’m a patient, like a patient, myself and a DIY myself, I like the idea of being able to figure things out and just do them. And thank god, I’ve been working with a practitioner on this stuff. So I want you to have the information. And I also want to tell you, as with a little mama bear energy to find a good practitioners to work with soy, but talk a little bit about how to do provocation to properly test for metals.

 

Ashley Smith  30:23

Yeah, so DMSA, I do have a really good source. Now, I can’t predict if this link ever goes away, but it’s been around now for a few years, it’s called Northern Health products.com, they’re based in Canada, it’s very, it’s almost impossible to find it in the US. So Northern Health products.com. And you can buy DMSA there. So we use it sometimes for detox itself. But for the provoking agent for heavy metal test. 

 

Ashley Smith  30:43

Now it’s a urine challenge test. So you are going to take what’s called a mega dose of the DMSA. I wouldn’t want anyone to do this without proper guidance from a practitioner. You collect your urine for six hours. And you also have to take DMSA, is a very short half life. 

 

Ashley Smith  30:44

including at night, you’re gonna wake yourself up.

 

Ashley Smith  30:48

So you need to take it every four hours around the clock for three days. Otherwise, we’re going to do what’s called that redistribution of toxins, we’re going to like pull things out of the cell, and then we’re going to ignore it and everything’s going to go back in and it’s going to be dangerous. So we need to do a full detox cycle with it. So one DMSA, every four hours for three full days of 72 hours, but you’re collected urine for six, 

 

Ashley Smith  31:23

Yeah, gotta wake up in the middle of the night. It’s kind of not fun, but it’s important to do it. And if you use the DMSA, in your actual heavy metal detox, which we do have a lot of clients on it, same thing, but you’re not doing it every day, it’s usually three days a week, maybe three days every other week, sometimes three days a month. 

 

Ashley Smith  31:39

So it’s just pick three days where you don’t mind waking up in the middle of the night. And you’ll be better off for it. So that is how yo, basically provoke it out of your cells, you collect the urine, you send the sample in. And it’s a pretty, pretty good test. It’s the best test there is. 

 

Ashley Smith  31:58

But it’s still I’d say I’d give it a pretty good. It’s going to tell you every metal beautifully, but lead and mercury, which are so so so deeply embedded. They might register just a little bit. But we know there’s a whole lot more than what shows up sometimes. The name of the test. It is the doctors data. 24 hour urine test. It’s a 24 hour urine toxic metal test. Yeah.

 

Misty Williams  32:23

Okay. Important to know that test name is for sure. All right, so we’ve provoked the metals. Now we need to find out we have certain metals, is this a situation like mold, where it just depends on what metals you have will determine the binders that you’re using? Or what’s the best way to go about metal necessarily?

 

Ashley Smith  32:40

No, because we have the binders that are tried and true that really cover like all the bases. I mean, we have clients were like, but I have high this or I have high that now we might give you additional key later, sometimes we stack them depending on what you know, something like DMSA has a real affinity for mercury and lead. 

 

Ashley Smith  32:56

So if we suspect that those are your biggest problems, we will for sure put you on DMSA. But it might not be appropriate for everybody, you know, we use EDTA. We also love using like a liposomal zeolite product. And then we also like to use like a charcoal activated carbon binder. I think to customize it would be more about how many things you stack. And maybe the dosing because some people you know, might handle very intense doses, and some people might not. So

 

Misty Williams  33:24

yeah, how is the test you describe different from a hair test.

 

Ashley Smith  33:28

Same thing as the hair tests only show you what you’re excreting so hair tests are beautiful for minerals, it really can give you a beautiful profile of what your mineral balance is, which is another important, key thing we want to look at. But for heavy metals, it’s often just showing you what you’re excreting in your hair and not what’s stored. So it’s not in there’s really no provoking agent you can use for the hair test. So it might give you a baseline, but it’s not it’s not a great test overall for metals.

 

Misty Williams  33:57

Yeah. So you’re basically just going to see what is able to be moved around or not. 

 

Ashley Smith  34:01

Yeah, and people are sick. They come here, they come to you, they come to me, because they are storing so much and they’re not getting rid of it, which is why their symptoms are presenting themselves to that. Yeah, if they were beautifully excreting all this stuff, they wouldn’t be in the situation they’re in.

 

Misty Williams  34:17

Right. Okay, well, this has been awesome. We talked about some of the big stressors with the testing looks like for them what protocols look like, thank you so much, Ashley, for spending time with us today and helping to unpack all of this. It’s very empowering. 

 

Misty Williams  34:29

I can say as a patient who has struggled with this stuff and knows a lot of smart people and still struggled. But just knowing what these great protocols look like so that you can kind of take the temperature of your path to see if you’re really headed in the right direction can be really, really empowering. So I appreciate you spending some time with us today and helping us understand how this works. Thanks for having me.

 

Ashley Smith  34:49

It’s my pleasure. Yeah. Well,

 

Misty Williams  34:51

Thank you everyone for tuning in. And we’ll see y’all soon. Hey, bye. 

 

Misty Williams  34:54

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

The Doctor With Terminal Cancer Who Refused Chemotherapy and Extended His Life with His Unconventional Cancer Protocols

The Doctor With Terminal Cancer Who Refused Chemotherapy and Extended His Life with His Unconventional Cancer Protocols
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The Doctor With Terminal Cancer Who Refused Chemotherapy and Extended His Life with His Unconventional Cancer Protocols

What do you do when you get a serious diagnosis, along with a protocol of drugs, surgeries and their chilling side effects? 

My friend, Dr. Al Danenberg, was diagnosed with incurable bone marrow cancer in 2018, and given six months to live.

He refused chemotherapy and decided to take charge of his health.  As a self-proclaimed geek, he did his research and created what he calls his 11 Unconventional Cancer Protocols.

It’s been four years since his cancer diagnosis, and his protocols have produced inspiring results!

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4:42 How Dr. Al Danenberg discovered he had bone marrow cancer

7:41 He met his oncologist, was told he had 3-6 months to live and advised to start chemotherapy.

10:00 Dr. Al Danenberg decided not to go on chemotherapy but to focus on improving his immune health system instead 

11:17 Dr. Al’s fragile bones break for the first time, one year after his first diagnosis.

12:56 He was placed in the hospice to die 

14:02 His wife urged him to go back to doing his unconventional cancer protocols

14:36 He got better and revoked hospice care

15:04 His oncologist recommended an immunotherapy drug to kill malignant plasma cells

15:40 In May 2020, his PET scan showed that he was negative for cancer cells

16:11 He took Darzalex and got numerous side effects from the drug

16:54 Dr. Al Danenberg contracted Covid and his symptoms came back with a vengeance

18:36 The technicians broke his bones while being transferred to a metal table at the radiation clinic

21:38 Dr. Al talks about the pros and cons of radiation treatment

22:51 How consuming raw honey can prevent mucositis from radiation treatments

23:22 How molecular hydrogen can help neutralize excess radiation

24:50 Dr. Al’s belief in life after death

25:47 Other ways to deal with your medical challenges 

27:12 How it’s important to have a supporting partner 

27:51 Dr. Al discovered how he acquired his type of cancer

31:20 How he felt relief when he learned about his cancer diagnosis

33:41 Dr. Al shares his 11 Unconventional cancer protocols to improve your immune system

34:08 Dr. Al shares a study published in 2021 on how the human species leaned toward animal-based diets

36:48 How to have nutrient-dense, anti-inflammatory diet

37:00 Why you need to have a healthy gut microbiome

38:11 How emotional stress affects your gut microbiome

38:33 The right amount of exercise is important

38:39 The circadian rhythm and why it’s critical to our overall health

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Misty Williams  00:01

Hey Sister, this is Misty Williams, founder of healing rosie.com And I’m so excited to welcome you to Rosie radio. Tune in to find clarity, direction and hope for your healing. New episodes drop every Tuesday. We created this show to empower you to regain control of your life and feel like yourself again. Yes, sister. It is possible. 

 

Misty Williams  00:20

All right, you guys. I’m super excited about this interview that I’m about to have with Dr. Al Dannenberg. Many of you have heard me interview Dr. Al for different masterclasses and summits that I’ve done. He’s a periodontist retired, knows a lot about oral health, the gut mouth connection. One of the things that we have talked extensively about in the Healing Rosie Community and in the recent masterclass radical healing detox your stress and stressors was how important it is that you clean up your mouth. Right? 

 

Misty Williams  00:52

I had mercury fillings improperly drilled for my teeth, triggered a 45 pound weight gain, also triggered my body not being able to handle toxicity at all, and probably started picking up mold from the house I was in during that time. So all this stuff with the mouth, it’s really, really important to healing. But we’re gonna go a different direction with this conversation today. And I’ve had chills just thinking about it right now because many of you know the doctor was diagnosed with incurable bone marrow cancer several years ago, and he was given just a few months to live. And he decided that he wasn’t going to accept the prognosis. 

 

Misty Williams  01:26

He had a lot of life left to live and a wonderful partner and family and he still had a lot in him. He wanted to contribute to the world. And I have been really fortunate to be a witness to this journey unfolding. And the way that he is choosing to give back and it’s been several years now he’s had lots of ups and downs, he shares really freely about those on his blog, drdanenberg.com And he has done what I feel really inspired by, which is why I founded Healing Rosie is I wanted to teach people how to advocate for themselves. 

 

Misty Williams  01:56

He’s been a fierce advocate for his journey for how he wanted to approach treatment. He is committed to extending his life as much as possible and maintaining his quality of life. And he’s doing it on his terms. And I wanted him to just share about his journey with us today. Because many of us find ourselves in situations like me where we, like in my situation, I had chronic issues going on that I was scared may one day kill me, right? 

 

Misty Williams  02:21

There’s other people in our community who are watching people that they love go through things like cancer, like what Dr. Al is going through where they might get killed quickly, right. And then there’s others of us that are at the crossroads where we’re getting a really serious diagnosis. It’s scary to think about. what this could mean for us. 

 

Misty Williams  02:40

It forces all of us, whether this could happen to me in the future, or this is going to happen to me soon, right? We all have to stare our mortality in the face and it helps us in some ways to get a lot clearer on what’s important to us and the life we want to live. So I’m going to peel back these layers today with Dr. Al. He is a periodontist.  

 

Misty Williams  03:00

He was in private practice for 44 years. He incorporated ancestral nutrition and lifestyle with his leading edge laser protocol to treat periodontal disease. And he currently consults with patients all over the world virtually regarding animal based nutrition, lifestyle, oral and overall health and the importance of a healthy gut and immune system. 

 

Misty Williams  03:15

He also includes his 11 unconventional cancer protocols since he was diagnosed with incurable bone marrow cancer in September of 2018. And he was given only three to six months to live through, rejected all chemotherapy and is thriving today. And on July 15, Elsevier will publish a textbook titled Microbiome and Unity, Digestive Health and Nutrition with Dr. Al authoring the chapter entitled The Ideology of Gut Dysbiosis. And its role in chronic disease. 

 

Misty Williams  03:37

Welcome, Dr. Al.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  03:38

Well, thank you. Thank you. It’s great to be on again. I love it. Yes, well, this is always fun.

 

Misty Williams  03:43

I’m excited. I have, as I said, just felt so inspired by the way that you’re going about this. It’s the part of me that wants to feel empowered in this journey. I don’t want to feel like a victim of what’s happening, right? I want to find a lane where I can do something about it. I’ve been really inspired by you basically embodying that. 

 

Misty Williams  03:43

So I think maybe we should just start out with the beginning. I’ve been blessed to hear this story. Maybe most people that are in my community have not heard the story of what happened in 2018. And maybe you could just start walking us through what you chose to do and how you’ve continued to chart your own course as you’re navigating all of this.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  04:22

Well, I can bring you from that point all the way to literally what’s going on today, which is another challenge. But in 2018 I thought I was a really healthy guy. I would have considered myself the senior poster boy for a healthy lifestyle. I was writing. I was lecturing. I was treating patients. I can’t help. I was on top of my game. And I was asked to speak at the Paleo f(x)™ meeting in Austin, Texas. I think it was April 2018. And I travel. I live in Charleston, South Carolina, to get to Austin, Texas. I have to connect in Atlanta and to do that there are at large, or concourses that, you have to go from ABCD depending on where your flights are. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  05:06

Generally when I have time, I like to walk from concourse to concourse rather than take the train. So I usually take a bag on my shoulder, and I walk the Concourse, and I did that. And as I was doing that, my right shoulder where the bag was starting to get sore. Now, I am a whisk for pain. I do not like discomfort. So I couldn’t figure out why my shoulder was getting sore. I thought I pulled a muscle or ligament or something crazy like that. 



Dr. Al Danenberg  05:32

I went to Austin did my speech came back to Charleston, and the soreness never really went away. And then it started to go to my back. And then it came to my chest. And now it’s about August or so of 2018. Kind of a hard head. And I figured maybe I need to call my doc. So my doctor, I’ve been buddies with him for 30 plus years, he knows me well. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  05:54

I call him and I tell him what’s going on. He’s scheduled an appointment. And he does some normal bloodwork, bloodwork chemistry is but you know, CBC, and things like that, and he also says a C-reactive protein, looking for systemic inflammation. When the blood work and everything comes back, he says everything is fine, but the C-reactive protein is out of whack, indicating that you have some kind of inflammatory process going on in your body. And we don’t know where it is. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  06:21

So we need to do an MRI. So we get an MRI done, which I never had done before. By the way, an MRI is an interesting contraption in and of itself, because of the noise it makes. So I got this MRI. And he calls me up and he says Al do you want to come into the office? Or do you want to talk about it over the phone? I said, Bobby, come on. What’s the big deal? Tell me what’s going on? I thought I pulled a muscle or tore a rotator cuff. He starts to get funny and he says, Did you fall down some steps or did somebody beat you up? So that of course not. And he tells me what he sees on the MRI, several vertebral compression fractures, several broken ribs, and a hairline fracture in my pelvis. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  06:22

My pain was coming from the fractured ribs that was causing me difficulty in breathing. And then he gets very serious. And he says, I think you’ll have lymphoma, leukemia, or multiple myeloma, three cancers. How can a guy, at 71 years old, Who is the healthiest guy around, have cancer? I mean, it’s not possible, right? I’ve been on a paleo type diet and lifestyle for six or seven years prior to that. How could I be sick like this? Well, I can tell you later on. Why note the way that I got sick, but this was pretty serious. And it was devastating. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  07:41

So he says, my friend who’s an oncologist, unbelievable guy, let me connect you with him. And let’s see what’s going on. So I have a bunch of other tests. And I meet this oncologist that I’ve never met before, George, and he is now my oncologist today. And he looks at me and he looks at all the tests. And he tells me with my wife and two adult children in the office, that I have IgA kappa light chain, multiple myeloma, with what’s called innumerable Lytic Lesions throughout my skeleton, meaning that my body’s bones are so porous. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  08:16

Now, it’s almost like a person with severe osteoporosis, that my bones break very easily. And that’s because the disease has probably been going on for a very long time, but not diagnosable until what happened to me. And then he tells me that this is incurable. And I have three to six months to live if I do nothing. And he says, let’s start chemo tomorrow. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  08:39

I said, Well wait a minute. Why would I start chemo? If I have three to six months to live in chemo would it be rather destructive? And he said, Well, it is destructive. But you’ll go into remission. And you’ll live longer than three to six months. And I said, Well, you said it’s incurable. And he said, Well, it’s not going to last, you’ll come out of remission. And you’ll need more chemo, but you’ll need it in a more caustic fashion, cocktail after cocktail, and I wasn’t a good candidate for stem cell therapy, which may or may not be a good form of treatment for what I have. And then eventually, I’m going to die from multiple myeloma. 



Dr. Al Danenberg  09:18

Now, I’m very geeky, and I need to know all these facts. And I found Well, what does that mean? How am I going to die? Well, he says that multiple myeloma generally patients die from multiple myeloma will die from either an infection that we can’t get under control, because multiple myeloma destroys your immune system, or kidney failure because it also destroys your kidneys. Or because of the way the blood cells are pushing out healthy. The malignant blood cells push out healthy blood cells, you may bleed to death with anemia or some type of condition like that. None of those are pleasant, but this is what I needed to know. So I’m looking at my wife and I said,

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  10:00

I am not going to start chemotherapy, because it is so caustic, it’s going to destroy my immune system, which is already compromised. Modern medicine ain’t so smart to figure it out to rebuild my immune system, no matter what anybody tells you. And I just didn’t want to do that. So I needed to do what I could consider to be healthy to improve my immune system. And I needed to do a lot of research. So I said, George, you know, I will do what needed to be done to take care of the pain in my chest, which was actually radiation treatment, to kill some localized malignant cells so that the pain from the broken ribs wouldn’t be pushing into my lungs. And that worked fine. But it doesn’t cure the disease. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  10:43

I researched a bunch of stuff and I came up with it now, I tweak it all the time. But now it’s 11 unconventional cancer protocols. It is not a treatment for cancer, it is a method to improve the immune system, you could do it, I could do it, anybody could do it, a kid could do it, an 85 year old could do it. This is what you need to do to improve your immune system. And then I’d have to let the chips fall as they may, because I am going to die from this cancer. So I did quite well. This is September 2018. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  11:17

And then fast forward to August of 2019. I’m alive, everything is great. I have some little setbacks here and there. But everything is great. And I’m aware that my bones are very fragile. You know, when somebody tells you, your bones are fragile, you may think that you know what you’re talking about. But I didn’t really know what that meant. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  11:36

So I’m standing in my bathroom in August of 2019. One year later, brushing and flossing my teeth. And I think I know a little bit how to brush and floss my teeth, and I’m taking the dental floss. And when I’ve used it up, I’m going to throw it in my trashcan, while the trashcan is to my left. So I’m twisting my body 90 degrees to the left, like anybody would do to throw something away in the trash can, while my right femur snaps in half, and I crashed to the floor, I break several more ribs, and my right humerus snaps in half. Now I’m lying on the floor. Of course, I don’t know all this yet. But I’m lying on the floor in extreme pain, screaming for my wife who’s in the other room. And I know that things are bad, because my arm and leg are in positions that could never be bent. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  12:28

So she obviously comes in, there’s a lot of emotion, she gets in touch with the ambulance and they take me to the hospital. Now this is now a year after my diagnosis, and I was given three to six months to live. I’m thinking in my head. Sometimes that’s a dangerous place to be thinking in my head, look at patients that I know that just have a hip fracture in my age group die shortly after that. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  12:56

And I have all these major bones on the right side of my body fractured. How could I even survive, I really wanted to die. And I was ready to die, I was not in denial, and I was ready to die. So I went to the hospital. They fixed my right femur, because if I didn’t get it fixed, my right femoral artery would have ruptured from the fracture. They don’t fix my right arm and the ribs. They don’t do anything about anyhow. And I’m put into a hospice hospital to die. And this is the first week of September 2019, literally in hospice to die. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  13:31

Interestingly, and this is fate, I guess. Interestingly, our hurricane is coming through Charleston. It’s called hurricane Dorian. And it’s moving at three miles an hour. And it has 187 mile an hour winds. And it’s going to target the hospice Hospital where I am. So the hospice hospital is ordered to evacuate all their patients. They had no idea where to send me, my wife is a registered nurse, She arranged to get a hospital bed in our house. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  14:02

I’m still under hospice, but they shipped me to my house instead. So I’m now at my home, in a hospital bed, this hurricane comes and goes. And my wife, who is amazing, gives me a bunch of tough love. And she basically says, Look, you have done so well for a year with these unconventional cancer protocols. Let’s get you back on those. Let me get a physical therapist in and see where we go with this. So I’m on a catheter for 30 days, if you’ve never been on a catheter, it’s the greatest fun in the world.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  14:36

I’m on a catheter. So I’m in a hospital bed, and I really am not moving at all. So the physical therapist actually gets me to get out of bed, gets the catheter out of my body. And I start walking on a walker, and I’m starting to get better. So I revoke hospice, get back on these unconventional cancer protocols. And see my oncologists the next month in October, who is amazed I’m still alive. So my oncologist and I have a long talk. And he recommends an immunotherapy drug, which is not chemo. 

 

Misty Williams  14:36

Right 




Dr. Al Danenberg  15:12

But it’s a drug that’s relatively new that the FDA has approved to kill malignant plasma cells. That’s the cancer I have. And it would help to rebuild my body if it’s possible. It made sense to me. And I got started on that. And that was a weekly injection and then a monthly injection. And I was doing that for almost a year or so. And I did quite well. Again, going back on my unconventional cancer protocols, by May of 2020. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  15:40

My PET scan, which is a X-ray that shows cancer cells from head to toe, was negative. Now, it didn’t mean that I didn’t have cancer anymore, because a PET scan only looks for moderate to large amounts of cancer cells. But it was a good side and I was feeling fantastic. And I was doing everything I wanted to do. So this was May of 2020. So life always takes another turn, right. So I’m continuing on and everything is going great. And then come I think June of 2021. I take another of this immunotherapy drug, which is called Darzalex. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  16:17

Very effective for multiple myeloma, theoretically, but I get numerous side effects from it all of a sudden, now the injection was given incorrectly, the nurse screwed up, it was given incorrectly, and it damaged some of the tissue that should never have been damaged was supposed to be subcutaneous, meaning that going into a blood vessel, but she punctured a blood vessel. And I had a big team tournament like a five centimeter hematoma bruise that lasted five or six weeks, that’s pretty big. And that caused my body to really aching, and it was just terrible side effects. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  16:53

Well weaken my body. And when it weakened my body, I got COVID. So I got COVID At that time, and it really took me under but because I had improved my immune system, so Well, from what I’ve done already, I never had to go to the hospital, I never had to take medication. And I recovered probably, I continued with long haulers for a while, but I recovered. And then in 2022, this year, in January, my oncologist said, Well, let’s try the Darzalex. Again, maybe it wasn’t the Darzalex, maybe it was just the COVID. Well, we tried it in January, it was great. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  17:30

And we did it in February, and I had all the symptoms again, and it was coming back with a vengeance. And it really caused a lot of pain, a lot of muscular pain, joint pain, out of breath, it was terrible. So we do a new pet scan. And it turns out that my multiple myeloma was reactivated with the COVID. And maybe, again, the side effects from the Darzalex. Obviously, I stopped Darzalex, for sure, at this point forever. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  18:01

And unfortunately, the multiple myeloma started to work into my back and to my leg, and it had some effects on my sciatic nerve, which was treated with radiation once again, and my back. Now, once again, my bones are fragile. So we started radiation just last week, in my back, and it as a series of 10 appointments, just to kill the masses of malignant plasma cells that are aggravating and creating pain.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  18:36

And here’s where you’d really have to understand advocating for yourself as if I didn’t do it already. So I go into the clinic, the radiation clinic, and I have to be put on a machine on a metal table that goes into a machine to have this very targeted radiation just hit the cells. But the platform is a steel platform that’s very hard, very uncomfortable. And I have all this pain in my back. So I have to be laid down very carefully. And then I have to be raised very carefully. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  19:11

So the technicians after each treatment for five consecutive treatments, literally pull me up too fast. And I have excruciating pain with difficulty breathing. And this past Thursday, I was supposed to have the last or the sixth session. And I had so much pain. Before that session, I had to go to the ER because it was hard to breathe. Turned out that the technicians broke several ribs when they tried to pull me up. So I had to now try to recover from that.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  19:46

I had to tell them, This is so annoying. I had to tell them how to transfer me from a gurney to the platform of the machine and then slide me back into a gurney so the gurney could all medically lift my back without them pulling me and damaging my ribs. They were very defensive. And they said we could have broken your ribs. And I said, Well, let me just tell you that if you go to the ER and as the ER is attached to this cancer clinic, the record is there, the CT and scan shows new fractures from the beginning of the radiation treatment. So yeah, you did. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  20:23

So the annoying thing is I had to tell them how to do their work. And they had an attitude because they were very defensive, which unfortunately, modern medicine gets these attitudes, they make no mistakes, and everything they do is correct. And if you don’t follow their guidelines, they’ll just fire you as a patient, which is crazy. Now my oncologist is still my oncologist from day one. And I right now I’m in the middle of these radiation treatments to take care of this pain.

 

Misty Williams  20:54

Did your oncologist, was he on board with the things that you wanted to do when you said, obviously, he gave me the diagnosis that day in his office, you wanted to go home and do more research? How did he respond?

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  21:04

Actually, he said, I understand. And I agree with you, because we cannot cure your cancer. Now, if you had a different cancer, I would disagree. And I would say we need to do this chemo because it’s 85% effective. And I would probably have thought about that, if that were the case, and the statistics were accurate. But there are no statistics that are accurate for multiple myeloma other than it’s incurable. I’m not seeing anything that says it’s curable. Now, some people have remission, spontaneous remission, for a variety of reasons, but it’s not because of treatment. So that’s interesting. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  21:38

The other thing is, and I will tell you this, for anybody that is interested in radiation treatment, radiation treatment has its benefits on course its side effects. Now, my radiation was in the thoracic area of my body. So the radiation is targeting the cancer cells. But there is collateral damage, it does damage some healthy cells around the sides. And that would be in my esophagus, my GI tract area. And so the oncology, the radiology, the radiation oncologists, never explained in detail to me, and I’m sure no patients get a good explanation of what the side effects could be. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  22:14

Interestingly, the side effects, because of the radiation in the area, could be creating gut dysbiosis and diarrhea. I’m not sure that any of those physicians even know the word gut dysbiosis, by the way, in addition, it causes an irritation in the entire mucosal layer of the GI tract, causing mucositis. And many people with radiation treatment, get what’s called oral mucositis, which are severe painful raw sores in the mouth, that makes it difficult to swallow, to talk, to chew food. I mean, that’s more painful than cancer. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  22:51

So those are some of the problems. But there are ways to prevent that. For example, there is well documented research that raw honey, if you eat raw honey, before the radiation treatments, it may prevent the mucositis from ever getting started. It’s amazing. Three studies published in 2019, show that raw honey can prophylactically prevent mucositis. Or if you have mucositis already helped to treat it. 




Dr. Al Danenberg  23:22

There’s another thing that can help to neutralize the excess radiation that can damage the cells adjacent to the cancer cells. And that’s molecular hydrogen. well documented studies that show molecular hydrogen neutralizes the very damaging free radicals that are created for a variety of reasons, but specifically from radiation. So those are things that are important, and then you can improve your gut. If you just do some very isolated specific probiotics, spore based probiotics to rebuild the gut microbiome before all the damage occurs, so that you have a stronger diverse microbiome to prevent the damage from the radiation. None of the oncologist will tell you that. But that’s true. And if you had that, if you were to do that proactively, you may not have the side effects from radiation treatment.

 

Misty Williams  24:15

So one of the things that your journey has confronted you with is your mortality. You talk about it on your blog, you talk a lot about the experiences that you’ve had, processing things with your wife and your family. Obviously in 2019, you thought you’re looking at Heaven’s gates. Here we are 2022, Coming up on the three year anniversary of that work. Four year rather of that stint and you’re here with us still so why don’t you talk to us just a little bit about what that’s been like for you. How did you process emotionally and spiritually what was going to happen? 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  24:50

Well, this is going to either resonate with some of your listeners, or just turn them off. So I believe in life after death, so I believe we’re here for purpose. I believe we have a soul. I believe we have a soul that comes into a human body to learn the lessons, and then that soul leaves when the body dies. and has other lessons to learn maybe at other times, and that soul reincarnates. And I believe my lesson this time around, is to deal with this cancer, but not so much deal with it, learn from it and share from it. 




Dr. Al Danenberg  25:30

I think if anybody knows me, they know that I am amazingly transparent with what I’ve gone through. I have not ever seen any articles written by any cancer patients that are as clear as I have been, and what I’ve done positively and negatively. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  25:47

I think that’s very important for cancer patients, or anybody that has a serious terminal disease to know that there are other ways to treat or deal with your medical challenges, rather than just give in and give up. Even if the disease is going to kill you. You can do different things to make you feel better to make memories with your family. I mean, these are things that are intangible, but are the only important things in life anyhow.

 

Misty Williams  26:18

Yeah. How did your family respond to everything that’s happening?

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  26:21

Well, of course, some of my family members totally Disagree. Disagree with me. My wife is always on board with me. We don’t have the same belief system in everything. But she has always been an amazing support individual, she is just phenomenally strong. She has her own medical issues. So I right now I have a lot that I put on her because physically, right now, with the pain in my back, it’s very difficult for me to do a lot of the things that I want to do and that I used to do. Right now the radiation going to take care of my problem. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  26:53

After the problem is gone, I will be as obnoxious as I’ve been in the past, I will do all the things that I’ve used to do, until the disease finally gets me but right now I’m a little weakened because of the pain from what’s going on in my back. But my wife is there to take care of all the loose ends, which is fantastic. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  27:12

You have to have a supporting partner of some type. It doesn’t have to be a spouse, but you have to have some individual that you can bounce things off of that can give you tough love when it’s necessary. And believe me, it’s an important process, because it’s easy to get down and depressed. And sometimes you just need to be made aware of, you’re not a victim, just stop it and change your way of thinking about things. And other things can happen in a very positive way.

 

Misty Williams  27:44

So you kind of teased us earlier with knowing how you got this cancer you want to share with Oh yeah.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  27:51

So again, I’m very geeky. So I tried to do a lot of research. So I’m trying to dive into the medical literature that I can find that talks about the prevalence of cancer in guys my age, I found a paper that was published with a Brazilian researcher, I think it was in 2010, or something like that. And he actually studied dentists in the age group of my cohort 65 to 75 compared to the male population, so he studied and looked at the male dental population 65 to 75, compared to the male population in general 65 to 75. And in that male population of dentists, there was a significant prevalence of cancer, specifically, multiple myeloma. Now, it was observational, 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  28:45

It never gave an example of why these dentists got cancer. But now that I’m a dentist, and I know what dental school and dental life was, I’m thinking what happened in dental school that actually could have created the situation that I dealt with 45 years later. And there are two things that stand out, at least in my mind. One, I’m exposed to low dose ionizing radiation on a daily basis, that’s dental X rays. Now in my dental clinic, there were about 120 kids. In each class, four years of dental school, a lot of dental students, and in the clinic for dental students shared 1 X-Ray machine, there were a lot of X-ray machines all over the clinic. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  29:32

And those X-ray machines go on and off all the time, and you don’t hear them or smell them or feel them you just see a little red light or a green light button on. But other than that you don’t know that the machine is ON. Now, in those days. This is the late 1960s, early 70s. Very few people wore radiation badges to make sure you didn’t get exposed to too much radiation. I don’t even remember if I were a badge, but I’m sure that I was exposed to ionizing radiation On a regular basis, and in fact, plasma cells are very susceptible to ionizing radiation, and they become malignant. And that’s the cancer that I have. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  30:10

The other thing that I am aware of in dental school is that we played with free mercury in our hands, like kids used to play with Play Doh, we played with this wonderful, watery metallic substance that, it’s shiny, it’s savory, and we could throw it on the floor and a little beads would eventually evaporate and disappear. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  30:30

The environment in the dental school was probably the most toxic environment in any public building, probably in United States. And so free mercury, as you know, is used to make dental amalgam dental fillings free Mercury is highly toxic. So either and or the free mercury and or the ionizing radiation caused one plasma cell in my body to become cancerous, and not shut itself off, where the immune system didn’t kill it off. And that cancer cell went on to reproduce and became malignant. And it took four decades before it manifested into what I’m dealing with today.




Misty Williams  31:15

Are you angry when you know?

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  31:17

 I wasn’t angry.

 

Misty Williams  31:19

How do you feel about it?

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  31:20

There’s a relief when you know what’s causing a problem, even though you can’t change the problem. I wasn’t even angry when I had a cancer diagnosis. I was devastated in the fact that I thought, irrationally, I thought my life was coming to an end. I didn’t know how to live other than the way I lived as a periodontist, husband, a father, and doing the things I did. Obviously, all that would change, literally, immediately. And it did. And, that was a very scary scenario. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  31:53

But I was never in denial. I never thought, oh, I don’t have this disease, or, well, I’ll get over it. Or, I mean, I wasn’t in denial and I wasn’t angry. But it was somewhat devastating that I knew my life was changing. But I took that and change that completely around too.

 

Misty Williams  32:13

Yeah. So I’m really intrigued by your cancer protocols. Because I love the reframe that you gave. This is not just for cancer, this is all about boosting your immune system. I would imagine it’s tied a lot into creating more resiliency in the body, as well. So I would love most people are listening, not watching us, right, I would do a screen share and just scroll through the blog. And I’m not sure that’s super useful to people. 

 

Misty Williams  32:37

But I would love for you just to kind of walk us through not getting too deep here, you guys, We will put the link in the show notes to this blog post that Dr. Al has on his website. So you guys could go check it out. There’s a ton of links throughout the document so that you could go a little deeper, right, and really wrap your head around what he’s teaching but it’s a roadmap for building resiliency and strengthening the immune system which all of us need. 

 

Misty Williams  33:00

There’s a lot in our community that are dealing with autoimmunity, autoimmune disease, we’ve got lots of people dealing with diabetes, women struggling with symptoms. Some of them are just mystery symptoms, meaning there’s no accompanying diagnosis, we have hypothyroid and hormone issues and all sorts of things that we’re each one confronting recurring Epstein Barr Virus, Lyme disease, mold and metal toxicity. 

 

Misty Williams  33:22

And the common thread through all of these things is when your immune system is compromised, allows these disease states to present it. Allows things like Lyme disease and Epstein Barr and whatever else to proliferate, right? Because your body isn’t able to keep it in check. So why don’t you just kind of give us the rundown 11 Cancer Protocols,

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  33:41

I’ll give you a view, probably one of the most important would be nutrition, the food that we take in, and probably even more important the food that we avoid taking in that inherently damages our gut microbiome, and therefore it can damage the rest of the body. So unfortunately, we are a society of again, I’m going to step on a lot of toes. We are a society of plant eaters. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  34:08

We are a plant based society, meaning that meat is vilified, animal fat is vilified and anything that’s green, and grows out of the ground is the best thing that could ever be unfortunately, or fortunately, it’s not true. As a matter of fact, Dr. Mickey van door and two other colleagues, they’re PhD anthropologist, published a paper in 2021 that clearly showed in a variety of discipline areas that the human species evolving over two and a half million years,” two and a half million years”, as basically leaned toward an animal based diet with very, very few plants. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  34:54

As a matter of fact, if they were not eating an animal based diet, the brain tissue and a variety of other tissues could never have evolved the way they have. And this is identified from a physiological standpoint, based on the way our digestive system is designed, our stomach has a very, very low acid level, so that it destroys microbes that are eating away of animal products that we eat from the ground in those days, and so on and so forth. 

How to have nutrient-dense, anti-inflammatory diet

Dr. Al Danenberg  35:23

Plants very frequently have a lot of nutrients that we theoretically could use, but they have other chemicals, called anti nutrients that offset these nutrient benefits and actually damaged our gut microbiome. So there are certain plants that are okay, most of them are not okay, because of these anti nutrients. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  35:44

But in an animal based diet, we’re eating animal foods, like beef and lamb, that have four stomachs that can digest these anti nutrients, destroy them, recreate them, and all of the nutrients a human requires, for the most part, are in animal based foods. But it’s not steak and eggs, it’s all the organs, it’s the bone marrow, it’s the cartilage, all of these things are critical to eat in one way or another. Now, we’re not used to eating them today. But this is the style of eating that I proposed. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  36:15

As a matter of fact, I wrote a book called The Better Belly Blueprint, which is my way of a 70% animal based diet and 30% or less, certain plants that are low in these anti nutrients. And I’m also having another book, I think it’s going to get published next month, called Eat as If Your Life Depends On It basically talks about the history and the combination or blend of keto, paleo and carnivore as probably the ideal way of eating, not necessarily just animal based, but at least the plants that are not damaging to the body. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  36:48

So the first goal in my unconventional cancer protocols is to have this nutrient dense anti inflammatory diet that doesn’t damage any of the pathways of the body. Another unconventional cancer protocol is to have a healthy gut microbiome, which most of us don’t have. There was a study that was published two years ago that showed 88% of the US adult population is metabolically unhealthy. Wow. That’s amazing. That is amazing. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  37:21

These are people that eat an unhealthy diet, they have all kinds of damage to different metabolic pathways in their body. They’re getting sick. They’re not dying yet, but they’re just sick, and they’re getting sicker. And like you mentioned before, people have symptoms, but they don’t know what their diseases are. Generally, it’s because of this poor diet, and a poor gut microbiome. 




Dr. Al Danenberg  37:43

So the gut microbiome is hugely important. You have to have a huge diversity of bacteria in the gut called Alpha diversity. And there are ways to improve that. diet helps, and a variety of other things out. Many things affect the gut microbiome, stress, exercise, sleeping patterns, emotional stress is a critical factor that is very frequently overlooked by all the medical profession, that is a cause to gut dysbiosis.

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  38:11

You could be the healthiest young lady around. And if you were under constant emotional stress, your gut microbiome can be shut down and you can be prone to all kinds of chronic diseases. Even if you’re eating a healthy animal based diet, even if you think you’re trying to get your gut microbiome healthy, because the emotional stress is extremely destructive to that gut. And then I just mentioned exercise is important, not over exercising, not under exercise, you have to sleep well. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  38:39

Circadian rhythm is a critical factor for overall health. I get involved with almost electromagnetic field therapy, because we are electrical beings, and all of our cells communicate chemically, but also with frequencies, they speak to one another. And these frequencies are electrical frequencies and they sometimes frequently get out of whack, or they get very weakened. And pulsed electromagnetic field therapy has the ability to re energize your battery. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  39:12

You know, if you had a flashlight, and he put batteries in that flashlight, and you turned on the light, it would glow bright for a while and then it would start to dim these flashlight. These batteries are what’s called mitochondria in every cell of our body except red blood cells. Well, these mitochondria are electrical beings and when their energy is not correct, they weaken. As a matter of fact, every chronic disease is a disease of mitochondrial dysfunction, the battery is breaking down. And cancer is a disease of mitochondrial dysfunction. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  39:46

If you can re energize that battery, like you type a battery that you can actually put into a re create the energy of the battery. You’re going to do that with your mitochondria. So if you have a method like pulse electromagnetic field therapy to help your mitochondria, it’s just one of the other elements to improving the immune system. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  40:10

So all of these kind of combine to get to a point where you are enhancing your ability to fight infection externally and internally. And that is your immune system. And everybody has the ability to improve that immune system as best as it can. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  40:29

Now, I will never be able to make my immune system as healthy as yours, because I have other preconditions right now. But I know that I can improve it to an extent that improves my body’s healing potential. And that’s what I’m trying to do. So those 11 Unconventional Cancer Protocols are appropriate for any of everybody. Actually, only 10 of them or one of them would be more delegated to my cancer, which is an immunotherapy type of treatment. But everyone other than that one, anybody and everybody could delve into to improve their own body. And it’s not difficult to do. It’s not exotic stuff.

 

Misty Williams  41:06

Yeah. Well, this has been awesome. I’m delighted to have you walk us through, I’ve been fortunate to get a front row seat to see you sharing as this thing has unfolded. But it’s really inspiring to hear what you’ve put together not only for yourself, and for what’s happening in your body, but the way that you’re sharing it with others. And I’m sure you get lots of people reaching out to you that are implementing this protocol. And it’s making a difference in their lives, too. 

 

Misty Williams  41:30

And it’s also inspiring to see how throughout this journey, you’ve been really committed to finding ways to give back, putting out another book. I mean, just think of what you’ve done in the last few years to make sure that the things that you’ve learned are helping as many people as possible. 

 

Misty Williams  41:44

So thank you so much for sharing with us today. I’ve loved it. Thank you everyone, for tuning in. We are going to have lots of good links in the show notes. I’ll make sure we’re linking to Dr. Al’s website, to this specific post. We’ve also talked about things like hydrogen water and you know, several other things that he has talked about being helpful to him. We’ll make sure that you can get those links in the show notes as well. So thanks so much for joining us. Thank you, Dr. Al. 

 

Dr. Al Danenberg  42:10

Thanks for the opportunity. 

 

Misty Williams  42:12

All right, we’ll see y’all soon. That’s it for this week’s episode. Thank you for listening. I hope you’re feeling more empowered to overcome your flabby foggy and fatigued and to reclaim your life. If you haven’t subscribed yet, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button right now so you don’t miss any of our episodes. We have some awesome shows coming right up. I love reading your reviews and comments too. They inspire me and encourage other Rosie’s to hang out with us and learn all these amazing strategies for healing and living our best lives. Till next time sister. Bye

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

How to Tame the Voices Inside Your Head to Heal Your Life

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How to Tame the Voices Inside Your Head to Heal Your Life

Words are power. I’ve been through times in my life where I’ve felt like the stress is overwhelming. And I’m stuck with it. How do I shift responsibility and lighten my load when there are people counting on me?   How do I shift unhealthy dynamics that seem deeply ingrained in my relationships? Where are the resources going to come from to get my health back on track? I met my dear friend Mark England five years ago during a workshop he was leading for the team at Paleo f(x)™. He was unpacking for us the fascinating way we use language to create our reality… and how we can literally bend our reality with words.  👀 His powerful mastery of language resonated deeply with me.  The way he explained how you could exercise so much power in your life by what you say and how you say it was mesmerizing.

Words can create or reshape our reality.

Our words create our reality. And understanding how to “cast spells” that create the future we want to live in is empowering and inspiring! And maybe even a little confronting because we are all SO responsible for our lives. After hearing Mark speak, I began watching how I was using words to create my reality, and how I used words to trap myself in a reality that I didn’t want to live in. Overall, I’ve seen the magic in the way that he teaches all of us to be really powerful in the face of our circumstances. I’m so excited about this topic. Mark is going to teach us some profound stuff today about how our everyday language can either work for us or against us.  I got chills while playing the language games when we were recording this episode. Don’t hesitate to try it out and experience the power of words!

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Misty Williams spent years struggling to reclaim her health and vitality after surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, life-threatening complications and an endometriosis diagnosis sent her into a brain fog and fatigue tailspin.
Her doctor told her that the only remedies for her issues were drugs and surgeries, that her labs were “normal” and she could “google” to learn more about what was happening to her body.
At 35 years old, Misty embarked on the fight for her quality of life, enduring many more challenges on her road to healing, including an unexplained 45-lb weight gain, debilitating brain fog, fatigue, hypothyroidism, and premature ovarian failure.

She founded HealingRosie.com to provide high-performing women with the resources an community to successfully confront the unexpected chronic health issues that women often experienced as they age.

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